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Which do you enjoy more, sex with your own gender or the opposite?

For me it's hard to say. Some of the best sex I've ever had was with another man. Nothing beats the pure, deep satisfaction of sucking a hard cock, or fucking a tight man's ass.
But m/m relations and flirting/seduction can be so akward.

With a woman it just flows. Flirting leads to panties coming off more naturally. And the sex is more comfortable and predictable. Then there's tits...I could die for a nice pair of tits.
 
Your situation is more of a special case than it is normal bisexuality. I'm asking the average bisexual which they prefer; a normal, unaltered male, or a normal female to have sex with. Trannies are a separate class.
I had a roomate years ago who would date a man for a few weeks, and have plenty of sex. Then he would date a woman, and have sex with her. I never found out if he preferred one over the other. That's what I'm asking now
 
They're just different. If I'm going to have emotionless, raw, NSA sex... I prefer it with a man. With women, I have to have an emotional connection to enjoy it. I've been in LTRs with plenty of men and women. I find that I'll stay with a man for the sex alone. That is never the case with the women I've dated (even married). I will gladly settle for mediocre sex if I have a strong emotional connection with a woman.

Luckily for me... I'm with a woman who gives me both. Incredible sex AND an amazingly strong emotional bond. Plus, she's very much into my bisexuality, so it helps having nothing to hide.

One night stand? I'm going men all the way.
 
Hitchiker69 said:
Your situation is more of a special case than it is normal bisexuality. I'm asking the average bisexual which they prefer; a normal, unaltered male, or a normal female to have sex with. Trannies are a separate class.
I had a roomate years ago who would date a man for a few weeks, and have plenty of sex. Then he would date a woman, and have sex with her. I never found out if he preferred one over the other. That's what I'm asking now
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Are you really in the GLBT section using the "trannies" slur and calling them a separate class? :eek:

As for the question, being bi means we prefer not to make such choices.
 
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I disagree. First, I'm not using 'tranny' as a slur. And I did not mean 'class' in the sense of 'caste'... more like category. After all, most of us are comfortable in our bodies, and it's a small minority that will surgically alter their body to more closely fit their self image
Second, bisexuals may not have to choose, but can certainly have preferences and appreciate the difference between same gender sex and opposite gender sex. That is what I asking about
 
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Hitchiker69 said:
Your situation is more of a special case than it is normal bisexuality. I'm asking the average bisexual which they prefer; a normal, unaltered male, or a normal female to have sex with. Trannies are a separate class.
I had a roomate years ago who would date a man for a few weeks, and have plenty of sex. Then he would date a woman, and have sex with her. I never found out if he preferred one over the other. That's what I'm asking now
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I am bi, and married. I prefer men a lot more than women.
 
I like both. I enjoy my wife and the loving sex we have, and in a previous life I was part of a swinger group so I've sampled more than a few women that loved sex. One of those parties was never a disappointment and usually added a check mark to the "I'd like to..." checklist.
I enjoy sex with men, mostly as a bottom, because of the gender bending thing and the raw uninhibited lust that two men can share and the no nonsense atmosphere of two guys just having a little fun before going home to the little lady.
 
Yes, I love women, but I'm obsessed with cock.

I think about cock every day. I think about having a throbbing cock in my mouth. I dream of having a stiff cock pound my ass. Quite often, I imagine having both at the same time, perhaps while others wait their turns.

Having said that, if you seat me across from a woman showing a bit of cleavage, I'll struggle not to fall out of my chair.

What a wonderful problem having to choose.
 
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Yes, I love women, but I'm obsessed with cock.

I think about cock every day. I think about having a throbbing cock in my mouth. I dream of having a stiff cock pound my ass. Quite often, I imagine having both at the same time, perhaps while others wait their turns.

Having said that, if you seat me across from a woman showing a bit of cleavage, I'll struggle not to fall out of my chair.

What a wonderful problem having to choose.
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I would say that I am the same - obsessed with cock but only attracted to women. For me the solution is a transgender woman like my girlfriend.
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I enjoy sex, plain and simple. And I love women because I have the emotional connection and women have tits that I can play with and i really enjoy them for sex. Guys are often more enthusiastic and animalistic. A cock just seems meant to be sucked and it's purely a fun, physical activity.

If I had to pick one, I'd take women but they're both good and 'better' for their own reasons.
 
My last girlfriend liked to tease me that I am 51% straight. I prefer passionate sex to be with women and do not have relationships or even kiss men, but a man’s cock and ass are amazing and a massive turn on for me.
 
Unsure2022 said:
My last girlfriend liked to tease me that I am 51% straight. I prefer passionate sex to be with women and do not have relationships or even kiss men, but a man’s cock and ass are amazing and a massive turn on for me.
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I was straight for 70 years, then I was single and thank God I dated sissies and turned gay.
 
Bi…
It’s hard to make a binary choice. I love being a top or a bottom but I married a woman years ago when I wanted to have a family of my own. Aside from that I could have gone either way.

My wife occasionally tops me but she much prefers being the bottom. It leaves me jonesing to be dominated and used by some horny guy, but I know that I’m more attracted to females. Years ago I had a tomboy girlfriend who was as gender-fluid as I am. We were a great match except that she didn’t want to have kids.

If I were suddenly single I think I’d look for another fluid enby who likes it both ways. What they have would matter less than who they are.
 
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