Bisexual Marriages

[Samuelx]

I'm a bisexual man married to a woman who knows I'm bi. My wife has experimented with women in the past but stopped after our sons were born. I want to try swinging, she says the world is too crazy for it and we have our lives and reputations to think of. Anybody else in a Bisexual Marriage ?

 

[PredatorSmile]

I'm a bisexual man married to a woman who knows I'm bi. My wife has experimented with women in the past but stopped after our sons were born. I want to try swinging, she says the world is too crazy for it and we have our lives and reputations to think of. Anybody else in a Bisexual Marriage ?

Bi marriages are more common than you think.

 

[Samuelx]

Bi marriages are more common than you think.

I sure hope so. I think it's cool when bi guys and bi gurls get together.

 

[cossy54]

yep! So do we

 

[nolaboy]

I'm bi and my wife is sometimes bi...she only likes certain things mostly kissing breast play, clit rubbing that kind of thing. i'm more adventurous in my bisexuality but it takes some warming up for me (i'm still coming to terms with it). We've had several encounters with another both-bi couple and I love it! safety and discretion are important to us too. that's why you have to have "auditions" before you actually play!

 

[Samuelx]

I'm bi and my wife is sometimes bi...she only likes certain things mostly kissing breast play, clit rubbing that kind of thing. i'm more adventurous in my bisexuality but it takes some warming up for me (i'm still coming to terms with it). We've had several encounters with another both-bi couple and I love it! safety and discretion are important to us too. that's why you have to have "auditions" before you actually play!

As long as you're happy together.

 

[hommax]

Same situation like you, some years ago had the idea of swinging bi holidays, finaly works and she says that as long is away from home it's ok.

 

[BBC4WMILFnCPLS]

I would love to try that. I am bi and my wife knows, but isn't cool with me playing. She's had some experience with women and I would love to see us play with another bi-couple.

 

[lindahotstuff]

We are both bi and very very happy. We mainly play with other guys/women/couples but occassionally play solitary, although then hubby is str8 although I remain bi. Hubby is only bi in a 3/4some coupling. If you see sex as something that is fun, exciting, purely for pleasure, then there is nothing wrong with having same sex partners. Experiment, enjoy, that is our motto.

 

[Deadwood]

My ex-wife was bi...and it was kind of fun. Besides the extra options in bed it just made life interesting, like being at a hockey game where I would see a pretty girl and say, "wouldn't I like to sleep with her," at which the wife would say, "oh yes, me too." Believe it or not, it was that fun twist on life that I miss now.

 

[Samuelx]

I'm bi and my lady is bisexual as well. She's not one for playing with women or other couples since the birth of our sons, though I am allotted some discreet male encounters as long as I am safe.

 

[Flyingsgt]

Bi?

I have had some bi inclinations lately, but haven't acted. My wife says I would be good at it, but both of us are concerned about bringing a third (M or F) into our relationship. Damned if it wouldn't be interesting though.

 

[Samuelx]

I have had some bi inclinations lately, but haven't acted. My wife says I would be good at it, but both of us are concerned about bringing a third (M or F) into our relationship. Damned if it wouldn't be interesting though.

Make sure you know their health status.....physical and mental. Otherwise, play well.

 

[Riley_James]

Bisexual Swinging

I just thought that I would add some thoughts here. My ex and I started swinging three years ago and while he was never comfortable with it, he allowed me to continue. He said the whole time that everything was kosher and as long as let him know where I would be and that I was safe he didn't have a problem with it. Of course he was straight, so that made some difference in his perception. It seems now that he was not telling me the entire truth and has since informed me that I have "injured" him with MY lifestyle; when in truth he approved everything I did beforehand. Of course, now it all seems to be an excuse, but it's just something to be aware of. If one of you is not comfortable, you are putting your marriage on the line.

Just a warning all, swinging is not for everyone. In my small bi swingers group we always said that we didn't play with cheaters, if both spouse/partners were aware of the play, then it was fine, but if someone is cheating, that's just not cool. And as always, please play safe everyone. ~Riley

P.S. My next partner will definitely be bisexual!

 

[Missgeorgi]

Well, both myself and bf are bi, he is still coming to terms with it and we have set rules that we can both live with. I dont want him or I missing in something that is a part of us, just because we are together. I accept all that he is and he the same with me... as long as rules are followed what ever happens happens...

 

[silver_eyes]

I'd like to second Riley James warning. Swinging is definately not for everyone. My ex and I belonged to a private swing club for a few years and we saw a lot of marriages broken by the lifestyle. The cheating, the affairs, the jealousy (both earned and unearned), and the list goes on and on. I would guess that about half the couples that joined were divorced within 3 or 4 years. And this was at an exclusive club. At the ones where they would let anybody join who paid their fees, I would guess that the divorce rate was more like 3 out of 4.
Definately, not all it's cracked up to be!

 

[Samuelx]

I'd like to second Riley James warning. Swinging is definately not for everyone. My ex and I belonged to a private swing club for a few years and we saw a lot of marriages broken by the lifestyle. The cheating, the affairs, the jealousy (both earned and unearned), and the list goes on and on. I would guess that about half the couples that joined were divorced within 3 or 4 years. And this was at an exclusive club. At the ones where they would let anybody join who paid their fees, I would guess that the divorce rate was more like 3 out of 4.
Definately, not all it's cracked up to be!

Swinging is something only strong people in strong relationships can do.

 

[fauconier]

I'd like to second Riley James warning. Swinging is definately not for everyone. My ex and I belonged to a private swing club for a few years and we saw a lot of marriages broken by the lifestyle. The cheating, the affairs, the jealousy (both earned and unearned), and the list goes on and on. I would guess that about half the couples that joined were divorced within 3 or 4 years. And this was at an exclusive club. At the ones where they would let anybody join who paid their fees, I would guess that the divorce rate was more like 3 out of 4.
Definately, not all it's cracked up to be!

It's possible to be married and bi (or straight!), and to choose to be monogamous---for a variety of good reasons. It's SAFE, it's respectful. We don't have to act out bi desires just because we have them, any more than we have to act on every hetero desire we have. Everyone has to make their own choices, of course. But fantasy is 100% safe---especially important if you have a partner. Or even if you don't! Acting out fantasies and related desires isn't always wise. Surely, treating our partner well---and respecting our relationships---is what's most important.

 

[Samuelx]

It's possible to be married and bi (or straight!), and to choose to be monogamous---for a variety of good reasons. It's SAFE, it's respectful. We don't have to act out bi desires just because we have them, any more than we have to act on every hetero desire we have. Everyone has to make their own choices, of course. But fantasy is 100% safe---especially important if you have a partner. Or even if you don't! Acting out fantasies and related desires isn't always wise. Surely, treating our partner well---and respecting our relationships---is what's most important.

I'm a bisexual black man of Haitian descent, living in Boston's South End with my wife, an African-American executive, and our three sons. I'm a cop. I'm a family man. I'm a writer. And I'm monogamous. I live vicariously through my erotic fiction stories and stay faithful to wifey....ugh, it's a living.

 

[erotikfriktion]

I think a lot of this is about the power of imagination vs the power of prnography (or 'lack of imagination'). Since porn became mainstream, ideas such as 'bi-sexuality' have assumed the position once occupied by the once 'exotic' idea of 'oral sex' (or maybe 'anal sex').
It means that a lot of people feel peer-pressure because the media likes to have us feeling we're missing out on something they can then sell us.

There IS a difference, sociologically, in men and women getting it on with same. Women, as girls, are much more likely to get physical with one another in ways that are just not gonna happen with males (say hand-holding or hugging at least) and there may be less threat for the 'bi-curious' woman in a relationship. Men who get into ideas about MMF sex are, surely, often eroticised to that, in part, by a cuckolding notion, or a notion of submission (of course not always).

I can say from my own experience that while I've led girlfriends toward some experiences (I'm always good for an erotic bedtime story as I'm a writer), in the end it was me who aborted the reality, often to great disappointment.
I guess ultimately, I'm really aware that the brain is the sex organ and that with enough imagination, a fantasy has a lot more power than a (possibly/likely) mess of an actual experiment.

If you're really not sure, you're really not sure.

 

[allennow]

My wife is cool with my bi curiousity.

I fantasize about sucking cock a lot. Even talk about it in bed. I am not attracted to guys, can't even eat my cum unless a little comes out before I orgasm. I do like pre-cum though. My wife and I share it a lot. We watch videos with a girl sucking two cocks. I want to find a good video that has bi scenes but not a bi title. For now, I watch bi movies on the net.

 

[BiDrew42]

My girlfriend and I are both bi and enjoy an active swinging lifestyle. We usually swing together but both of us have other partners that we see solo on rare occasions. Both of us love seeing each other with other lovers, both male and female. It is a huge turnon for me to see her as the center of attention in a large group of men, and she enjoys seeing me in the same scenario.

We have been together, for almost two years now, and I am closer to her than I ever was to my ex-wife who I was married to for 20 years. The key to a healthy swinging lifestyle is 100% honesty. If you have that, everything else is easy. If we ever stop trusting each other, that will be the beginning of the end.

Drew

 

[jeninflorida]

I sure hope so. I think it's cool when bi guys and bi gurls get together.

I'm thinking that in today's society, men being bi is still a taboo. and that makes men afraid to be open about it. I would love to be a queen with two studs, have them and to watch them. think that is why the loving wife stories are read by so many, but get such nasty comments...that a guy reads the story and gets very aroused then has or feels guilty and has to take it out on the writer....

 

[cadman7777]

I'm thinking that in today's society, men being bi is still a taboo. and that makes men afraid to be open about it. I would love to be a queen with two studs, have them and to watch them. think that is why the loving wife stories are read by so many, but get such nasty comments...that a guy reads the story and gets very aroused then has or feels guilty and has to take it out on the writer....

not me...keep up the good work

 

[jeninflorida]

I fantasize about sucking cock a lot. Even talk about it in bed. I am not attracted to guys, can't even eat my cum unless a little comes out before I orgasm. I do like pre-cum though. My wife and I share it a lot. We watch videos with a girl sucking two cocks. I want to find a good video that has bi scenes but not a bi title. For now, I watch bi movies on the net.

I've gotten a lot of emails from guys that want to watch the wife with a guy, and to have a long term relationship with that guy. that it would be hot if he (the husband) could go down on the other guy.

maybe that is why a lot of the porn movies had the men pulling out for the cum shot....so that other men could watch it and enjoy?