Bi-curious in western NY

[buttercupdh]

I've been curious for a while. Can you help me find out if it's more than just a curiosity?

I'm married, 36. Hubby is supportive, but being discreet is still important.

I look forward to hearing from you.

 

[buttercupdh]

Well, that's just pathetic.

No takers?

I guess it will remain a fantasy...sorry if I offended anyone.

 

[shriner989]

Cheer up!

Greetings from WNY......Cheer up, not many people from WNY on this site. I'm sure you will find what your looking for. I would be happy to help you find your woman. Married guy here but I would be happy to help.

 

[Guest]

Shriner,

What a sweetie you are. Thanks for the offer. For now, I'll let nature (and Lit) take its course, and see what happens...


Thanks, luv, and welcome...I see you've just recently joined as well.

Take care.

 

[buttercupdh]

Oops, that was me...thought I was logged in. Silly me!

 

[KHAN-E]

I am nowhere near you geographically, but very near you in spirit. I am a bi, adventerous 27 year old in Southern Illinois. I'd LUV to teach you about the joys of woman-to-woman sex.

I'd be glad to discuss any questions, concerns, or fantasies you may have. PM me if interested.

 

[DDebby]

Buttercupdh
hi we might be neighbors. 36/f give me a PM we can chat more..
You certainly have not offended me <wink wink>
I hope its more than curiousity...

 

[buttercupdh]

Hey Ddebby,
We just might be neighbors...ya never know, huh?

I hope it's more than curiosity too, sweetie.

Thanks for the PM!

 

[Guest]

i would love to experiemnt with you and your husband. it would be an experiemnt for all of us.....in western new york and i hope to hear from you!!!

take care and be well.
speedracer

 

[mother_in_law]

I'm New to bi

My boy friend talked me in to being with a woman about 6 months ago .It was GREAT. That was my first experience,looking for the second. In your email is my pic. MOM

 

[buttercupdh]

Didn't get your pic, MOM. Can you post it here?

I've never been to Schenectady...but it's not far.

Take care...

 

[SlideInSlowly1]

Another WNYer

Friendly guy here, agreeing that WNYers are not on this forum a lot. Or at least, they don't POST a lot.

Anybody up for fun, got a cam and some imagination. Let's hook up!

 

[DDebby]

Hi Butter I was looking forward to a PM from you but thats ok, I hope all is well. I would like to know more about you. How long curious? Ever any female contact , even a kiss? You say your hubby is supportive, he isnt going to be part of if it is he?? or are you planning on him joining in?
I had my first bi experience when I was 20 and in college, it happened between me and my roommate. I have loved it ever sense.

 

[Angelofsex]

I think that all women have a feeling like that.......they don't let it come out..............I had my first time with a woman a few years ago.....and just recently a few months ago..............Nothing better then the loved making of two woman........Don't get me wrong but it is diff from a man............And I like being with them too.

 

[buttercupdh]

Hi Angel. Thanks for responding.

Well, I've heard the theory that all humans are bisexual to some degree. I don't know much about it, whether it's even true. All I know is, I am attracted to both men and women, although there are very few women I actually know that turn me on. What does that mean? Am I just being fashionable? Geez, I hope it's more than that. Or is it my own resistence that's preventing me from feeling anything? Hmmm...

I know that if I hadn't been so repressed and emotionally unhealthy during high school and college, I'd have had a female relationship then. But, unfortunately, that's not how it worked out. Now that I'm in my 30s, and in a better place figuratively and actually, I'm ready. I'm sooo looking forward to such a relationship.

So, until then, I wait...not so patiently...!

 

[yngguy4fun76]

I wish you the best of luck trying to find that certain someone to fulfill your fantasy with. If you're still having trouble you might want to try going to adultfriendfinder.com

It might be worth checking out and seeing if you can find the woman you are looking for. I'm a somewhat shy guy myself and I've had a pretty good success rate with finding women to get together with.

Either way, good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.

 

[buttercupdh]

Thanks for the tip, yngguy. I'll check it out.

and Ddebby, to answer your q's:
I've never had any female contact, not even a kiss.

Yes, hubby is supportive, and would want to be there with us, but not necessary as a participant. His request comes less from wanting to be voyeur and more from keeping such relationships within the intimacy of our marriage. That's not to say that he would never join in. Never say never!

 

[jerseygirl]

Thanks for the tip, yngguy. I'll check it out.

and Ddebby, to answer your q's:
I've never had any female contact, not even a kiss.

Yes, hubby is supportive, and would want to be there with us, but not necessary as a participant. His request comes less from wanting to be voyeur and more from keeping such relationships within the intimacy of our marriage. That's not to say that he would never join in. Never say never!

Can never tell what may happen. Good luck I often felt the same way about a woman.

 

[buttercupdh]

I think I need a bump...