(edited to be more specific) 61yo WM seeking lithe Transwoman for romance

[MistyPeaks]

Thought about the tile and realized I was not specific about what I am looking for, hell, it was my first post. I am just interested in a Transwoman, not the others. I am a white man. Never had a gay encounter. I don't consider myself gay. I've never had a problem with trans people. When I got back from Iraq, I worked at a VAMC for 27 years. The hospital I worked at was I believe the first VAMC to have gender transitioning care before "Trans," was even coined. I remember a transwoman would seek me out to check in to the ED. I always felt bad for her because she was made to be uncomfortable (not horribly but enough this was back in 1992). I just treated her as I would anyone else politely. I always thought she was pretty, but I didn't hit on her. I was very introverted and shy back then and still am to a degree.

I'm new to this but find transwomen alluring. I am a bit of a prude and traditional and desire a relationship to be slow with my long courtship. I would like to romance and dote on the right gurl. I'm not submissive. I'd make most of the important decisions but would be polite and kind. I wouldn't physically or mentally abuse you. Never been married and no kids. Been awhile for me sexually. I don't think I could get into BDSM. I'm very financially secure with great healthcare. Was a medic in Iraq. Was in combat. Do have some mental issues from that, but on great meds. I'm a bit pudgy now but would get in shape for the right gurl/transwoman. From 20yo to 47yo I ran extensively. Had a laminectomy so that ended running. I shave my head, because I'm not doing the flip over hair. I'm not too exciting, kinda boring, but maybe you could change me.

Is the P word verboten? P is important to me, because I want to treat you like a woman in public. Looking for a transwoman (or any in title) from say 23yo to 35yo maybe older. Chat would be great at first.

One thing I am firm on is the transwoman I court and take on dates would have to wear dresses 80% of the time. Women look so great in dresses.

 

[cnycdsissy]

Well hi there! I first want to say that I admire that u know what u want and really put yourself out there in ur post. U seem very genuine and that our core life values appear very much aligned. I too, am a bit traditional in my approach to dating/relationships but very open to relocating if we click. I’d classify my relationship personality as a 50s housewife with a sexier wardrobe! lol! I’m a slim, sexy, bottom ONLY, lifelong CD who is at the beginning of her long overdue transition to FT and would like to get to know u better as well as share more of my story with u where is not visible to all. Please lmk if that interests u. Lisa

PS. While I do have a few skirt sets in my wardrobe, the remainder is mostly dresses and high heels so u would never have to worry about that!

 

[Devmaine]

Well hi there! I first want to say that I admire that u know what u want and really put yourself out there in ur post. U seem very genuine and that our core life values appear very much aligned. I too, am a bit traditional in my approach to dating/relationships but very open to relocating if we click. I’d classify my relationship personality as a 50s housewife with a sexier wardrobe! lol! I’m a slim, sexy, bottom ONLY, lifelong CD who is at the beginning of her long overdue transition to FT and would like to get to know u better as well as share more of my story with u where is not visible to all. Please lmk if that interests u. Lisa

PS. While I do have a few skirt sets in my wardrobe, the remainder is mostly dresses and high heels so u would never have to worry about that!

A personality of a 50s wife with a sexier wardrobe, and such a lovely response to the post

You would be such a lucky find for the person who eventually finds you