I find myself being rejected once again. I would have thought it would get easier with age to handle it, but it isn't. I feel like I've been used and treated like nothing much more than a life-sized dildo at times. I just hate being told that I'm not good enough. Sorry for the mini-rant.
Being Rejected
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lorddragonwolf
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yes we have all been there.
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I've been through it so many times you'd think by now I'd be used to it and immune - but it hasn't gotten any easier for me, no matter how many times it has happened (I lost count at 15 ... and that's just the potential subbies). We feel for you and hope that things go better for you next time.
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Re: being rejected
Everyone gets rejected in their lifetime, but eventually we find that someone that wants to be with us, and cherishes us for who we are. We get rejected and we reject people its a cycle of life that goes on forever and ever. Just saying that its nothing new, been going on for jenerations....
But yes, we've all been there... i hope you'll feel better and able to go out there and try to look for someone better.
Everyone gets rejected in their lifetime, but eventually we find that someone that wants to be with us, and cherishes us for who we are. We get rejected and we reject people its a cycle of life that goes on forever and ever. Just saying that its nothing new, been going on for jenerations....
But yes, we've all been there... i hope you'll feel better and able to go out there and try to look for someone better.
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<hugs MastrJ> I'm so sorry to hear that. I was so hoping it would turn out differently.
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ah shit, sorry for you.
I know it sounds cliched, but perhaps there's someone better coming your way and you now have the space, time and energy in your life for that person.
Its the way I try to look at things anyway.Forward not backward.
Chin up soldier!
I know it sounds cliched, but perhaps there's someone better coming your way and you now have the space, time and energy in your life for that person.
Its the way I try to look at things anyway.Forward not backward.
Chin up soldier!
Thank you everyone for your kinds posts and PMs. I still feel completely rejected and like shit, but I know I'll eventually get better. It's just been so long since I've had someone completely ignore my feelings and honest offers of friendship. I had forgotten what it felt like to be treated as not worth the time or energy to even be treated with common human decency. I'll get better, I just need to spend some time working things out in my mind and write in my journal. Thank you everyone.
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Hi, there's a 'what pisses you off' thread on How-to, that welcomes rants. That is, if you feel like going beyond your journal. Sometimes it helps to put it out there in the world in a really evil (or heartbroken) way, no-hold's-barred, balls-to-the-wall style, so to speak.
Anyway, for comparison, there's always my post on the lazy ineffectual doms thread, about how, as a teen, a boyfriend fell asleep inside me. Not exactly rejection, per se, but.... lol
Hmm, how about some rejection stories? What I usually got was guys who wanted to break up... but still have sex.
Then there was the guy who, after doing things like writing me a romantic song he sang to me on his guitar, one starlit night, told me the sad sad story of the girl he'd love, who not long after they made love for the first time, died. Somehow he came to feel that any girl he loved, any girl he made love to, would die. He was French, by the way. Well I was 16 and terribly moved. We 'made love' under the star. And the next day he rejected me, explaining in his lovely accent that, well, to paraphrase, I was a slut to have let myself be fucked, and was no longer good enough for him. whoo hoo, most definitely the wrong kind of mindfuck. Though not the worst I came across.
For a little humor from the other side, there was the boyfriend who told me when I broke up with him that, one thing he was really pissed off about was that I was the only girlfriend he'd had whom he Hadn't cheated on. He was really shaking his head over that one. Hardly seemed fair.
Btw, I've been married to a lovely man for many years now. Being treated badly doesn't mean someone more discerning and wonderful won't love you forever some day.
Anyway, for comparison, there's always my post on the lazy ineffectual doms thread, about how, as a teen, a boyfriend fell asleep inside me. Not exactly rejection, per se, but.... lol
Hmm, how about some rejection stories? What I usually got was guys who wanted to break up... but still have sex.
Then there was the guy who, after doing things like writing me a romantic song he sang to me on his guitar, one starlit night, told me the sad sad story of the girl he'd love, who not long after they made love for the first time, died. Somehow he came to feel that any girl he loved, any girl he made love to, would die. He was French, by the way. Well I was 16 and terribly moved. We 'made love' under the star. And the next day he rejected me, explaining in his lovely accent that, well, to paraphrase, I was a slut to have let myself be fucked, and was no longer good enough for him. whoo hoo, most definitely the wrong kind of mindfuck. Though not the worst I came across.
For a little humor from the other side, there was the boyfriend who told me when I broke up with him that, one thing he was really pissed off about was that I was the only girlfriend he'd had whom he Hadn't cheated on. He was really shaking his head over that one. Hardly seemed fair.
Btw, I've been married to a lovely man for many years now. Being treated badly doesn't mean someone more discerning and wonderful won't love you forever some day.
Shopping at the Grocery Store
I was at the grocery store tonight after work, and ended up walking down the aisle with the pet food and stuff. I ended up being caught off guard when I saw a nice nylon lead for a dog. My sub and I had a couple of collars we used for during play. Before I could stop my brain it jumped into: "Ooh. Look, it would match her collar and the nylon would probably make her jump and squirm in that delightful little way when I smack it across her ass." Wasn't expecting to get depressed when buying some last minute supplies.
I was at the grocery store tonight after work, and ended up walking down the aisle with the pet food and stuff. I ended up being caught off guard when I saw a nice nylon lead for a dog. My sub and I had a couple of collars we used for during play. Before I could stop my brain it jumped into: "Ooh. Look, it would match her collar and the nylon would probably make her jump and squirm in that delightful little way when I smack it across her ass."
Wasn't expecting to get depressed when buying some last minute supplies.
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