Being autistic and random stuff

It's odd because when I tell NT people that I am autistic, they say that they never would have guessed. However, when I tell fellow NAT people that I'm autistic, I usually get "I know". Is anyone else like this?
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Enough for there to be a meme for it... Other autistic people know what autism actually is like. Most NTs don't.

There's also this concept "self-diagnosed and peer-reviewed". BTW, according to research, at least 80% of those (officially undiagnosed) people who think they are autistic, are correct.
 
I discovered an useful analogy to respond to the usual 'Well we're all a bit on the spectrum' which is 'just because you forget things doesn't mean you have Alzheimer's'.

Or there's this one 'Well, we're all a little bit human'.
I've used that too, but with dementia.
 
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Enough for there to be a meme for it... Other autistic people know what autism actually is like. Most NTs don't.

There's also this concept "self-diagnosed and peer-reviewed". BTW, according to research, at least 80% of those (officially undiagnosed) people who think they are autistic, are correct.
Reminds me of when I last ran into a colleague's wife. She is ADHD with maybe a touch of ASD, and they have one kid ASD, another ADHD, and we are not sure about the third - she's a Gemini so probably one "twin" is ASD and the other ADHD. Anyway, I was sort of complaining about the wife making go and get tested for ASD, and they - mother and both sons - just chorused back "You are peer reviewed - and yes, you are." After that, all I could say is, "Fair enough!"
 
Reminds me of when I last ran into a colleague's wife. She is ADHD with maybe a touch of ASD, and they have one kid ASD, another ADHD, and we are not sure about the third - she's a Gemini so probably one "twin" is ASD and the other ADHD. Anyway, I was sort of complaining about the wife making go and get tested for ASD, and they - mother and both sons - just chorused back "You are peer reviewed - and yes, you are." After that, all I could say is, "Fair enough!"
More reliable than some doctors, I'd say...
 
More reliable than some doctors, I'd say...
The doc's comment was "from what you have told me, there is a high probability that you are. We need to test you to confirm it, but the test is not infallible." This was back in January! It snowed the day I was supposed to be tested, so that appointment was put off until April (from February,) and the review is not until July! The moral of this story is that snow really messes things up in Virginia.
 
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Today since my wife is gone getting her nails done, I decided to watch Survivor season 48. At the beginning of the show when the three tribes were formed, one tribe had a Fire Department Captain and a young woman who is a PhD candidate. I missed what she confided to the Fire Captain and didn't think much of it at the time. Fast forward to when the three tribes are reformed since some participants were voted off. The Fire Captain and the PhD candidate ended up on different tribes. During an immunity challenge the PhD candidate who was representing as the fourth member of her tribe and was the last one that either win or lose, she had a meltdown. She was trying hard to complete the challenge only to fail at each attempt. The Fire Captain tried giving her emotional support even though he was a member of another tribe. The PhD candidate pulled herself together to complete the challenge which meant her tribe would not be going to tribal council. The PhD candidate still needed support so the show's moderator said she needs a hug. The Fire Captain went over to her, embracing her and telling her to breathe deep. Eventually she composed herself and explained what just happened and why. She revealed she is autistic but her parents made sure to get her the therapy needed to succeed. She explained she felt overwhelmed during the last part of the challenge and suffered a meltdown.

To say the least, this got to me. I was totally in awe that someone with autism would try out for Survivor knowing they might get overwhelmed but yet thought they could succeed. The PhD candidate said autism is who I am, a part of me.
 
US Health Secretary Robert F Kennedy Jr has pledged "a massive testing and research effort" to determine the cause of autism in five months.
It's been a month and a half; 30% of the time allotted. They must be getting close because it'll take at least a month to write it up. And publish it........where? It seem reputable medical journals are off the table.
 
It's been a month and a half; 30% of the time allotted. They must be getting close because it'll take at least a month to write it up. And publish it........where? It seem reputable medical journals are off the table.
Is the assume that the cause will provide the cure?
 
The irony of the search for a cause for Autism is that I wonder how many of those who are doing the research are ASD. Actually, I sometimes wonder how academia would function without ASD people. There's a remarkable number of us hiding in plain sight. Academics are meant to be awkward and a bit bonkers, so it makes a good hide out. ;)
 
The irony of the search for a cause for Autism is that I wonder how many of those who are doing the research are ASD. Actually, I sometimes wonder how academia would function without ASD people. There's a remarkable number of us hiding in plain sight. Academics are meant to be awkward and a bit bonkers, so it makes a good hide out. ;)
It's more a question of how many of them *know* they are autistic.
 
I make no assumptions.....
But they seem to make them. Assuming that they'll at least find a way to prevent new cases at the very least. They seem to even assume that they actually know the cause and just need to prove it.
 
But they seem to make them. Assuming that they'll at least find a way to prevent new cases at the very least. They seem to even assume that they actually know the cause and just need to prove it.
Most of our Nobel laureates, much of the Silicon Valley are/were on the spectrum, and same with the silicon Glen, I think preventing autism is very short sighted.
 
Most of our Nobel laureates, much of the Silicon Valley are/were on the spectrum, and same with the silicon Glen, I think preventing autism is very short sighted.
Assumptions and presumptions... since the Reps thrive on contradiction, I assume they think they can identify an autistic fetus and demand to abort it at specially designated purity control centres. They're not exactly going to fix it by... oh, I don't know, like providing drinking water without mercury or clean air or food not laced with hormones. But then since everyone's a bit on the spectrum, they'll just have to abort babies from mothers with dark hair and brown eyes.

I heard JFK ( edit Oops, meant RFK ) is thinking of banning defibrillators for heart attacks because it's proven they cause Alzheimer's...
 
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Most of our Nobel laureates, much of the Silicon Valley are/were on the spectrum, and same with the silicon Glen, I think preventing autism is very short sighted.
Much of the scientists in general. Also many associations wouldn't run without neurodivergent people.

The whole idea that we'd need to prevent autism is bonkers. It's based on prejudices and misinformation.
 
Assumptions and presumptions... since the Reps thrive on contradiction, I assume they think they can identify an autistic fetus and demand to abort it at specially designated purity control centres. They're not exactly going to fix it by... oh, I don't know, like providing drinking water without mercury or clean air or food not laced with hormones. But then since everyone's a bit on the spectrum, they'll just have to abort babies from mothers with dark hair and brown eyes.

I heard JFK is thinking of banning defibrillators for heart attacks because it's proven they cause Alzheimer's...
I like your post, but I don't think JFK can think about anything since he has been dead for over 60 years. Maybe RFK can or will try.
 
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