Natalie Nessus
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blackguard said:First Observation:
BDSM can be expensive. I tried alt.com and thought I had hit the motherload - 530 people within Alberta with at least a passing interest in the subject. Surely I could find someone in Edmonton with a penchant for domination with a soft side...
3 measly views of profiles later, I find out that I am locked out until tomorrow - unless I come up with the cash to get unlimited access. I'll go broke before I find a Dominatrix!
It can indeed be expensive - and BB is WAY right about the expense going skyhigh when you begin buying toys, too.blackguard said:First Observation:
BDSM can be expensive. I tried alt.com and thought I had hit the motherload - 530 people within Alberta with at least a passing interest in the subject. Surely I could find someone in Edmonton with a penchant for domination with a soft side...
3 measly views of profiles later, I find out that I am locked out until tomorrow - unless I come up with the cash to get unlimited access. I'll go broke before I find a Dominatrix!
cymbidia said:It can indeed be expensive - and BB is WAY right about the expense going skyhigh when you begin buying toys, too.
If you don't want to pay for your entry into alt.com, be sure you are choosing wisely with your allotted 3 views/day.
Try these (and i can't verify them personally but you can go have a look anyway - some may be geographically specific, some may be worldwide):
http://www.iron-rose.com/IR/personals.htm
http://www.bound2love.com/central/free_bdsm_personals.htm
http://www.moonkissed.org/personals/personals_index.html
http://dreammall.com/dsm/bdsm/
http://www.bdsmcontacts.net/
http://www.sexslavewanted.com/
http://www.section12.com/editorial/personals.html
http://www.domsublifestyle.com/personals.html
http://www.kinkylove.com/entrance.htm
There are a zillion more site like these, too.
Do a google search using "BDSM personals" as you parameters.
And don't be discouraged.
Use the time to study and learn more about your leanings and your desires.
Check back, okay?
cymbidia said:Geeze.
I sent you the wrong book!
The book i sent you is good, it's got lots of kinky sex and really good plot, but it's not the one we were discussing.
cymbidia said:And tell, me - doesn't everything about Anita Blake scream KillerMuffin to you? I think Laurell K. Hamilton must know our Muffy irl.
Hecate said:.. am in a real hurry right now so shall mail you asap ... give me a day or two lilminx, ok?
Anything he expressed an interested in - besides pain? Is he into humiliation or such? that often is something men crave but wouldn't admit ... so there are options that do not involve pain but do reach the desires of some male subbies
Laurel said:This is a damn cool thread.
lilminx said:... he really wants me to dominate him. I have a couple of issues with this:
1) I really don't know what to do regarding domination and I'd be afraid that I would hurt him (even though he says that I couldn't hurt him- I guess he's a masochist)
2) Since I really am not experienced in this, I prefer at this time to be the submissive person (which is the role I've played when I was with the men who were more into the scene), but I wouldn't want HIM to dominate me
3) Any experience I have had has not involved pain such as whips, torture, etc.
Merelan said:Hecate, I know someone who would gladly send you any book you wanted.