Bad time with threesomes

[redrock911]

A small thread on the How To board made me wonder. Has anyone had a bad experience with a threesome? My wife and I tried this a month or so ago and it went well and have done it once more after. Everything went well. Just didnt know how many people have had a bad time with it. Anyone?

Also was it a MMF or MFF? Guess for some it could be all of one sex..

 

[MNGuy]

My last threesome was the best, the two women fully explored their female sexuality with each other and were open to my suggestions. Of course, I had plenty of suggestions.

 

[bknight2602]

Mine went well, hope you continue to have success. The only problem might be of jealousy. That can kill the fun quickly.

 

[redrock911]

Anyone else?

 

[Bent]

I would do it again. The first one ended badly, but still I am pretty much open to it.

 

[Gilly Bean]

We haven't done it, but we 'tried' to set one up with friends. It never went through, but the hard feelings were all ready starting before it had even started, so I'm glad it didn't go through.

Now, we still want to try, but we're definatly not looking towards friends.

 

[Anna Leigh]

anyone else?

i've had lots...some good and some not so good....but it hasn't spoiled it 4 me!

 

[MNGuy]

After some thought, I guess the only bad threesome I ever had was when one 'candidate' would chicken out.

 

[Gil_Favor]

but we're definatly not looking towards friends.

Good point.

I have experienced the 3some thing,

and have determined, it is best to play with people at a neutral site.

They must not be allowed into your "real life"

 

[ozraven]

A small thread on the How To board made me wonder. Has anyone had a bad experience with a threesome? My wife and I tried this a month or so ago and it went well and have done it once more after. Everything went well. Just didnt know how many people have had a bad time with it. Anyone?

Also was it a MMF or MFF? Guess for some it could be all of one sex..

I voted never, which is mostly true......

Last week, akasha and I went to a have a couples erotic massage.....you're nude, so is the massuese, and she massages each of you in turn, with help from the watching partner, this includes a "bodyslide" which I have to say was amazing to watch....
She then assists in bringing you both to orgasm, but without actual penetration of herself in anyway.....
So not quite a threesome I guess, but very close, and we both loved it, and will be going back for more real soon.....

 

[unclej]

i've been involved in two threesomes in my life. one was with two lovely ladies and while there are some things i'd do different it was overall a wonderful experience.

the other was with a friend and his wife. they initiated it and quite frankly when the evening was over i felt like a dildo. just there to inhance their sex life with very little concern for making me a real part of the evening. wouldn't do that one again.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

I had one several years ago.

I did it to please someone else.

I ran the whole show. It was on my terms.

It was a major tick in our relationship.

It totally spoiled things for us.

A perfect couple, taking a wrong turn on a dead end road.

 

[ozraven]

I had one several years ago.

I did it to please someone else.

I ran the whole show. It was on my terms.

It was a major tick in our relationship.

It totally spoiled things for us.

A perfect couple, taking a wrong turn on a dead end road.

what was the spoiler, jealousy, if so who's?

 

[Alvin Brickrock]

In my last threesome, we only got in about 6 holes before it started raining. Up to that point, it was fun.

 

[Gil_Favor]

A perfect couple, taking a wrong turn on a dead end road.

I understand................

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Jealousy yes.

But I think it was a bit more then that.

I did it for him.

But then he wanted it all the time.

And when I would go through with it - he would question me afterwards.

Don't get me wrong - it's great for some people. But I really think it complicates things.

 

[ozraven]

Jealousy yes.

But I think it was a bit more then that.

I did it for him.

But then he wanted it all the time.

And when I would go through with it - he would question me afterwards.

Don't get me wrong - it's great for some people. But I really think it complicates things.

Yeah, I can see how that would happen, we are taking things very slowly, ken to explore but very careful for each other as well, which is why we did the "massage" thing as a first step, the mainconcern we both had was jealousy, more hers than mine, but all there was was pure excitement for both, we may never take the next step, but if we do we will do it togther in more ways than one......

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Yeah, I can see how that would happen, we are taking things very slowly, ken to explore but very careful for each other as well, which is why we did the "massage" thing as a first step, the mainconcern we both had was jealousy, more hers than mine, but all there was was pure excitement for both, we may never take the next step, but if we do we will do it togther in more ways than one......

That's great. Really.

Me - I'm way too jealous by nature to want to share anyone.

 

[ozraven]

That's great. Really.

Me - I'm way too jealous by nature to want to share anyone.

I thought that too.......and still am if another cock would be involved, but who knows what life twists will deliver.......

Have a great evening, I am offing to bed.....

 

[MNGuy]

I had one several years ago.

I did it to please someone else.

I ran the whole show. It was on my terms.

It was a major tick in our relationship.

It totally spoiled things for us.

A perfect couple, taking a wrong turn on a dead end road.

I never have gotten into threesomes with someone that I'm interested in a long-term relationship with. I used fuckbuddies.

If you are fuckbuddies with someone, generally they are more open to sexual ideas and more likely to see the threesome thing as a break from the 'routine.' We would mutually decide who the other person would be, generally my fuckbuddy was better at picking her out. She had a knack for spotting the right woman to complete the set.

It's really nice to have two fuckbuddies who like to hook up for the threesome thing on a regular basis.

(Sighs and reminisces)

I wonder were she is know, but Nikki was the best fuckbuddy. Thanks Nikki.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I've had several. The best were just casual sort of meet and greet types. Hookups for that particular night. The worst ended in the breakup of my relationship. They snuck around behind my back. *shrugs* In retrospect our relationship wasn't strong enough to handle what we were doing. He had a history of not being able to stay committed, and she had a history of snatching other people's men LOL...my dumb ass just stood there going WTF?

It depends on who you are as a couple and how you play it, I suppose. I had some excellent times *grin*. It's a pity that one time brought the whole thing crashing down.

~Anelize

 

[StarXChyld]

We've had two encounters with different ladies. The first (a girlfriend of mine) fell in love with Hubby. Not good. End of friendship. The second lady decided she was more interested in me than in Hubby. He wasn't too thrilled about that!

I'd love to try MMF but he's not interested in that and I respect his feelings.

Still I'd love to try another FFM again. . .I love watching him with another woman! Call me kooky but it's a major turn-on for me. ::swoon::

 

[Huggles]

Re: Re: Bad time with threesomes

this includes a "bodyslide" which I have to say was amazing to watch....

Tell me more about this "bodyslide"?

Sounds like fun..

 

[melligrl]

never

I've never had one . . . I'm still young and exploring.

I would totally be up for trying one though

 

[ozraven]

Re: Re: Re: Bad time with threesomes

Tell me more about this "bodyslide"?

Sounds like fun..

Essentially, you lie naked on the table, covered in hot oil, the massuese is also covered in hot oil and massages you with her naked body......breasts and grion being the main tools she uses......it felt great, but it looked even better.............


We are going back again very soon........