Asphyxia

[perks]

thoughts comments? How come there is nothing in this forum about this subject?

 

[P. B. Walker]

Good topic, oh perkiest of the perky!

I think this topic definitely falls into this forum. However, it is probably not discussed as much due to it's delicate nature. I would put forth that this should only be tried by very experienced people. I think we've all heard about the disasterous results this form of play can cause. And, whoa, talk about needing to have alot of trust.

Anyhoo... hopefully some of the more experienced people here have tried this a time or two.

- PBW

 

[NemoAlia]

You know, pb, I had a dream about erotic asphyxiation just the other night! (Don't try this at home, kids.)

In the dream, my lover and I were fucking on a hotel elevator when it dropped, and we were both killed. However, we came back to life. We realized that every time we died while having sex, we would return, more powerful than before. Anyway, we ended up having a lot of fatal sex (finding really erotic ways of killing ourselves and each other) so that we could come back to life and fuck even harder. By the time I woke up, we were both lions who could fly and who could stretch out our limbs like Gumby in order to claw at each other from far away. While we were flying, he caught me with a lasso-type rope around my ankle, penetrated me, and started shoving his fist down my throat at the same time. (Of course in the dream, this was painless and very exciting.)

I woke up choking (for no good physical reason) and soaking wet.

 

[NemoAlia]

Re: my dream

By the way, I swear that dream wasn't as morbid and role-playing-game-ish as it sounds!

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Good question Perky. There have been discussions on this topic. Alot of times its also called breath play.

I remember reading this thread shortly after I found this board... http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=87739&highlight=breath+play

I'm not familar with this by person experience. Hope this helps.


dixi

 

[P. B. Walker]

Wow NemoAlia, that is some dream. I find hearing about other's dreams so fancinating. I guess because it helps me not to feel totally weird about some of the dreams I have. I rarely ever remember any of my dreams. Sometimes a dream will wake me up, and I can remember it for a few fleeting moments, and then it's gone. One of them I remember pretty good, I went thru the entire dream with this one girl (a friend of mine) and we were doing stuff in front of people, women mostly (can't remember what... but mostly everyday mundane things). Near the end of the dream it turned totally erotic and I can remember having a raging erection. Then suddenly, it was revealed to me that I'd been naked in front of all these women the entire time. Normally, I would have ran like crazy covering my privates, but in the dream for some reason, I stood tall, proud of my nudity... boner and all. LOL. Shrug... go figure.

- PBW

 

[MzChrista]

thoughts comments? How come there is nothing in this forum about this subject?

Im a little shy to talk about the more dangerous stuff here for being afraid that someone might try something I say and fuck up big time.
But I got some bit of experience in this area and if you got specific questions I will try to give a careful answer.

 

[P. B. Walker]

Re: Re: Asphyxia

Im a little shy to talk about the more dangerous stuff here for being afraid that someone might try something I say and fuck up big time.

No kidding. Considering the number of idiots out there, everything should come with a "Do not try this at home" label.

- PBW

Editted to say: not that I'm implying anyone here is an idiot... cus I don't think that at all.

 

[James Blandings]

I agree with Christa that I have some reservations about discussing breath play in an open forum. If my words were only going to be read by the known members of the forum I think I would be OK with sharing what little I know about it, but I would be leery of what lurkers might read, misunderstand and harm themselves.
Perky baby, or anyone else, if you want any personal insights or advice, please don't hesitate to PM me.

 

[Quint]

I'm always surprised to enter a thread and find myself indirectly described as "hardcore" or "edgy." I really don't consider myself a hard player, although I admit that I'm thinking more about pain and my inability (yet) to do much with it than all the weeeeeird shit that I am into. Breath control happens to be one of my favorite things. Perhaps the familiarity I have with my, um, two partners in BDSM contributes to my surprise; I just don't worry about putting my life in their hands. I kinda like that. But I do agree that it is not for the more excitable, less experienced players. I just got lucky in my choice of controllers. The invitation to PM me bout all the fun times I've had and will have again goes out as well.

 

[MissTaken]

I am not sure that asphyxiation in the pure form are anything that interests me now or will in the future.

I will submit that the closest I have come to it is gagging. Gagging on a man or something of equal erotic nature does lead to an incredible orgasm especially when I can't breathe.

My entire body tenses and releases.

Hmmmm does that count?

 

[alltherage]

The notion that someone choking my breath off is far too horrible to me than to find anything at all erotic in it. The guy who raped me all those years ago had a belt around my neck. I still dream about that feeling sometimes and wake up sweating and nauseous. As with all things this is a personal view and is not expressed in order to judge. It does scare me though. The association of something so dangerous with sexuality.

 

[artful]

Humbly Offered

I will not do anykind of throat squeeze for asphyxiation purposes,...*BUT*,...I DO a form of breath play that both the sub and I enjoy. As with most actions,...to ME,...timing is EVERYTHING

There are times when a sub is bound,...her chest is heaving in an effort to supply MUCH needed oxygen as she nears her orgasm.

Her mouth is wide open,...gasping to replenish those overworked lungs,...at the height of the *MOMENT*,...I cover her mouth with mine as she struggles in her orgasm,...

WoW,...and give her a mind blowing passionate kiss where she can only breathe through her nose. YES!...Hell Yes!!!

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Humbly Offered

I will not do anykind of throat squeeze for asphyxiation purposes,...*BUT*,...I DO a form of breath play that both the sub and I enjoy. As with most actions,...to ME,...timing is EVERYTHING

There are times when a sub is bound,...her chest is heaving in an effort to supply MUCH needed oxygen as she nears her orgasm.

Her mouth is wide open,...gasping to replenish those overworked lungs,...at the height of the *MOMENT*,...I cover her mouth with mine as she struggles in her orgasm,...

WoW,...and give her a mind blowing passionate kiss where she can only breathe through her nose. YES!...Hell Yes!!!

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mmmm SO looking forward to THAT one baby hell yes!!

 

[artful]

Re: Re: Humbly Offered

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mmmm SO looking forward to THAT one baby hell yes!!

Oh,...and SO many more baby,...we have a LONG way to go.*chuckles*

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Re: Re: Humbly Offered

Oh,...and SO many more baby,...we have a LONG way to go.*chuckles*

I am looking so forward to each and every single minute Master xoxoox..I always anticipate MUCH pleasure from You as You ALWAYS deliver...

 

[zipman]

I agree with Christa that I have some reservations about discussing breath play in an open forum. If my words were only going to be read by the known members of the forum I think I would be OK with sharing what little I know about it, but I would be leery of what lurkers might read, misunderstand and harm themselves.
Perky baby, or anyone else, if you want any personal insights or advice, please don't hesitate to PM me.

It's not that I disagree with you James, or MzC, but isn't one of the purposes of the forum to educate. Perhaps, postings on what to do or how to do it might prevent an accident by someone who heard about it and wanted to try it without educating themselves. Just a thought.

Having said that, Asphyxia/Breathplay is not one of the activities that I enjoy, or that I would want to introduce into a scene.

 

[P. B. Walker]

It's not that I disagree with you James, or MzC, but isn't one of the purposes of the forum to educate. Perhaps, postings on what to do or how to do it might prevent an accident by someone who heard about it and wanted to try it without educating themselves. Just a thought.

My take on this is that they have both said they know about it and are willing to educate.. just not in an open forum, but rather thru PMs. This way they know who is asking and whether or not they want to provide the information. I think this is smart. If they just make a post about it, some 15 year old can read it as an Unregistered and quite possibly harm him or herself. I don't see the problem with PMs.

If I were interested in that kind of play, I would have no problem taking them up on their offer. And I encourage anyone who is, to PM them.

Just my two cents...

- PBW

 

[zipman]

Just my two cents...

- PBW

Yeah, but it was worth at least 4 cents!

I Got it!

 

[CarolineOh]

I am not sure that asphyxiation in the pure form are anything that interests me now or will in the future.

I will submit that the closest I have come to it is gagging. Gagging on a man or something of equal erotic nature does lead to an incredible orgasm especially when I can't breathe.

My entire body tenses and releases.

Hmmmm does that count?

That makes sense to me, Miss T. I pretty much agree. I can't imagine wanting to be choked or strangled, but that sensation of light hearted breathlessness you can get when you have a man in your mouth is a feeling I relish.

 

[James Blandings]

My take on this is that they have both said they know about it and are willing to educate.. just not in an open forum, but rather thru PMs. This way they know who is asking and whether or not they want to provide the information. I think this is smart. If they just make a post about it, some 15 year old can read it as an Unregistered and quite possibly harm him or herself. I don't see the problem with PMs.

If I were interested in that kind of play, I would have no problem taking them up on their offer. And I encourage anyone who is, to PM them.

Just my two cents...

- PBW

Thank you, P.B. that was exactly my train of thought on the issue.