Ask me anything - I'll give an honest answer!

[JenniZinc]

Since joining Lit a few months ago I have been able to do something never possible before - explain my past freely and openly without fear of judgement.

I have also had my inbox filled with questions, mostly sexual (99.99999%) which has made me wonder why. At almost 56 I'm guessing I'm one of the older patrons of the website. I'm also unlikely to be considered a 'hot bod' who has aged well, I'm pale and flabbyish, but still manage to feel sexually charged.

But I find one on one dialogues quite boring, that's not why I joined here. So if you would like to ask me question/s out in the open go ahead and I'll answer it with 100% honesty!

If you do send me a private message I'll simply direct you back to this thread xxx

 

[SamScribble]

Since joining Lit a few months ago I have been able to do something never possible before - explain my past freely and openly without fear of judgement.

I have also had my inbox filled with questions, mostly sexual (99.99999%) which has made me wonder why. At almost 56 I'm guessing I'm one of the older patrons of the website. I'm also unlikely to be considered a 'hot bod' who has aged well, I'm pale and flabbyish, but still manage to feel sexually charged.

But I find one on one dialogues quite boring, that's not why I joined here. So if you would like to ask me question/s out in the open go ahead and I'll answer it with 100% honesty!

If you do send me a private message I'll simply direct you back to this thread xxx

Hello, Jenni

What were you looking for when you discovered Lit?

 

[jaF0]

Mmmm ... k.

 

[JenniZinc]

Hello, Jenni

What were you looking for when you discovered Lit?

Originally I wanted to spill my story on working in the massage parlour industry for almost a decade. There had been plans to turn this into a book, but my previous employer had threatened myself and my publisher with legal action. I thought they were bluffing, but the publisher didn't want to take the risk.

This has lead to a few more threads, in fact the one about my nudity on the farm has attracted a lot of attention. There is a fairly strong chance that this could form part of a light hearted documentary series. If it goes ahead, nudity will only play a small part in it - it's mostly to do with the struggles of a small winemaker post Covid.

Some of my other threads, I'm not sure what I was thinking

 

[tristantrotsky]

Since joining Lit a few months ago I have been able to do something never possible before - explain my past freely and openly without fear of judgement.

I have also had my inbox filled with questions, mostly sexual (99.99999%) which has made me wonder why. At almost 56 I'm guessing I'm one of the older patrons of the website. I'm also unlikely to be considered a 'hot bod' who has aged well, I'm pale and flabbyish, but still manage to feel sexually charged.

But I find one on one dialogues quite boring, that's not why I joined here. So if you would like to ask me question/s out in the open go ahead and I'll answer it with 100% honesty!

If you do send me a private message I'll simply direct you back to this thread xxx

Never fear, 56 is the perfect age.
Old enough to know exactly what you want from life, young enough to enjoy it to the full

 

[Wonderer67]

Hey Jenn- Id love to hear more about nudity on the farm. My wife and I own a farm, and outdoor and farm sex is hot.

 

[JenniZinc]

Hey Jenn- Id love to hear more about nudity on the farm. My wife and I own a farm, and outdoor and farm sex is hot.

Hi, I have a whole thread on nudity you may want to take a read of. My approach to nudity has always been about confronting vulnerability. On a farm I have the opportunity of being able to walk a long way from home fully naked, which is both liberating and sexually arousing. In the first few years I would make sure I was only nude in places I could guarantee not being seen, but as time went on I would comfortably walk close to the roadside of our property. I also have not issues with being 'caught out' from time to time, although being an exhibitionist is not part of who I am.

As for farm sex, my partner is not into nudity, so any activity is self inflicted

 

[Gator66]

I really appreciate your post about your massage parlor experience, and you have answered a question or two for me on that thread. A little bit about me. I'm 56 years old and have been in a great relationship for the past three year. My gf and I enjoy each other very much, but she has boundaries around sex that frustrate me from time to time. I'm not sure if you would prefer your partner to be more into nudity or more adventurous. So my question is, how do you cope with his boundaries?

 

[JenniZinc]

I really appreciate your post about your massage parlor experience, and you have answered a question or two for me on that thread. A little bit about me. I'm 56 years old and have been in a great relationship for the past three year. My gf and I enjoy each other very much, but she has boundaries around sex that frustrate me from time to time. I'm not sure if you would prefer your partner to be more into nudity or more adventurous. So my question is, how do you cope with his boundaries?

Good question, there are so many things we compromise on (I like him fully smooth, he likes me fully hairy - go figure ), but the nudity never really bothers me. I am totally open about nudity and bodily functions, we even have an outdoor toilet and bath which I use and he doesn't. I'm perfectly okay that he's a little bit prudish. We both have boundaries, and it's just a matter of learning to live with them

 

[GregThickDix]

Question about your massage parlour industry. I've stumbled on rub and tug places and legit massage spa's. I consider myself to be comfortable with my body, I do work out, not fat and have decent muscle development. I am sure a lot of your clients you gave massages too are a little out of shape and may not be sexually attractive. When you do get a decent client in that you find attractive, do you give more attention to them, not saying anything obvious sexually, but boarding on teasing? I could swear my massage therapist that I have gone to in the past was attracted to me and loved the longer massage sessions that were always free, but still tipped really well, because I appreciated the attention. Also, the draping thing, since I can control my erections and would never pop a boner and do pull my junk up, to not expose myself, did you have clients that you were comfortable with not having to drape? Thanks

 

[Gator66]

Good question, there are so many things we compromise on (I like him fully smooth, he likes me fully hairy - go figure ), but the nudity never really bothers me. I am totally open about nudity and bodily functions, we even have an outdoor toilet and bath which I use and he doesn't. I'm perfectly okay that he's a little bit prudish. We both have boundaries, and it's just a matter of learning to live with them

So true! As if I don't have boundaries that she's not crazy about. Thanks!

 

[JenniZinc]

Question about your massage parlour industry. I've stumbled on rub and tug places and legit massage spa's. I consider myself to be comfortable with my body, I do work out, not fat and have decent muscle development. I am sure a lot of your clients you gave massages too are a little out of shape and may not be sexually attractive. When you do get a decent client in that you find attractive, do you give more attention to them, not saying anything obvious sexually, but boarding on teasing? I could swear my massage therapist that I have gone to in the past was attracted to me and loved the longer massage sessions that were always free, but still tipped really well, because I appreciated the attention. Also, the draping thing, since I can control my erections and would never pop a boner and do pull my junk up, to not expose myself, did you have clients that you were comfortable with not having to drape? Thanks

Okay, first up in my type of parlour there was very little draping unless the client was particularly self conscious. But rarely an issue. In terms of paying more attention to 'attractive' bodies I would have to say human nature takes over. Regardless of preference I don't know a masseuse who doesn't love a smooth male body to massage. With the proviso that 'smooth' doesn't mean shaved his body 7 days ago and has regrowth. In terms of obese people, massaging them is really unpleasant. Some can barely fit on the table and even in saying this a table can only support so much weight. But in terms of teasing - no, there's no difference. Each client will have their penis massaged at some stage, so no teasing involved

 

[GregThickDix]

Thank you for the answer. I hoped that you would answer the way you did, because one of my kinks is being on display and getting someone turned on. Cheers.

 

[ILuv2Taste]

2 questions if I may:
1. When working in the massage industry did you ever orally copulate one of your male clients?
and
2. If you ever had female clients did you ever satisfy them digitally or orally?

 

[JenniZinc]

2 questions if I may:
1. When working in the massage industry did you ever orally copulate one of your male clients?
and
2. If you ever had female clients did you ever satisfy them digitally or orally?

Sorry, I totally missed this:

1. No, never. Firstly the parlour I worked for had strict rules about not going further than hands (and had cameras installed to ensure it didn't). Secondly, it's not something I would be prepared to do. I quite like giving oral sex, but the idea of performing on strangers isn't something I would do for money.

2. As I explained in my thread on the subject, I was responsible for most of the female clients. It was never with fingers or orally, but always with a clitoral vibrator (I would ask them to bring their own, but in the first instance it was a heavily sterilised supplied one). Girls or guys wanting to take on female clients make the mistake of attempting by hand. It's slow and rarely gets the intended results. Vibrators almost never fail

 

[Nightspeed]

Can I borrow a quarter? What? She said ask her anything!!!

 

[JenniZinc]

Can I borrow a quarter? What? She said ask her anything!!!

I would be we don't have quarters in my part of the world

 

[Nightspeed]

I would be we don't have quarters in my part of the world

Dammit!

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

Since joining Lit a few months ago I have been able to do something never possible before - explain my past freely and openly without fear of judgement.

I have also had my inbox filled with questions, mostly sexual (99.99999%) which has made me wonder why. At almost 56 I'm guessing I'm one of the older patrons of the website. I'm also unlikely to be considered a 'hot bod' who has aged well, I'm pale and flabbyish, but still manage to feel sexually charged.

But I find one on one dialogues quite boring, that's not why I joined here. So if you would like to ask me question/s out in the open go ahead and I'll answer it with 100% honesty!

If you do send me a private message I'll simply direct you back to this thread

Are you in a monogamous relationship or a free spirit ?

 

[Nightspeed]

How can you have any pudding if you don't eat your meat?

 

[JenniZinc]

Are you in a monogamous relationship or a free spirit ?

Technically monogomous - my partner and I like to 'play' with other males, but I never have sexual activity without him present (if that makes sense)

 

[JenniZinc]

How can you have any pudding if you don't eat your meat?

I used to think the lyrics were beans, not meat

 

[Bisexguy70]

Why didn't you put the k at the end of as?
And yes i’m being a smart as.

 

[JenniZinc]

Why didn't you put the k at the end of as?
And yes i’m being a smart as.

Ha ha, I can't believe I missed that

 

[Nightspeed]

I used to think the lyrics were beans, not meat

I went and checked at least six lyric sites and they all have it listed as "meat". However, the prescription muscle relaxer I've been taking lowers my IQ by at least 30% so I'm just glad I remembered that much.

I was once threatened with "disciplinary action" at a job I once held because during every mandatory monthly safety talk, I would ask things like the borrowing of a quarter or even this lyric. I was eventually told that if my questions didn't pertain EXACTLY to the subject, I'd be put on probation...LOL