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[Sweetness_15]

Give you a nice blush like this beauty

Ooh! Where have I been? Goodness, I do like to think how much sting I would feel from a nice thick branch.

 

[LadyAria]

Can you give me a bit more info on the liquid latex?? The just pour it on you and then it hardens to the contours of your body?? Is this like a one shot costume then?? All I seem to have is questions and no answers, damn the noobishness.

Leeroy, here is a good website: http://www.liquid-latex.com/applica.htm

It doesn't completely harden and it flexible with your body. Ripping it off in play can be very stimulating as well. Read that and let me know if you have further personal questions. It was real hot in my circle about 2 or 3 years ago, but I honestly don't see it as much in scene play. The latex can irritate skin and some brands can have a funny smell. It has become more novelty thing these days. I still like it. Though, I haven't used it in quite a few months.

 

[LadyAria]

More than anything that picture just makes explicit the vast gulf between cyber and RL.

Anyway, an excuse for another nice picture. This could be called "Tea time with a blank canvas."

That is beautiful and an unbridgeable gap. *sigh*

 

[LadyAria]

Ooh! Where have I been? Goodness, I do like to think how much sting I would feel from a nice thick branch.

And I wouldn't mind applying it

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Leeroy, here is a good website: http://www.liquid-latex.com/applica.htm

It doesn't completely harden and it flexible with your body. Ripping it off in play can be very stimulating as well. Read that and let me know if you have further personal questions. It was real hot in my circle about 2 or 3 years ago, but I honestly don't see it as much in scene play. The latex can irritate skin and some brands can have a funny smell. It has become more novelty thing these days. I still like it. Though, I haven't used it in quite a few months.

Well Lady Aria the BDSM gods must have looked down and decide to bless me tonight. I got an invite to a private party by a friend, so I go. I am sitting around talking when someone pulls out the liquid latex and I got a small patch attached to my arm. I liked it so much that I had my chest shaved and had the front part of my chest to the bakini line covered. I had it on over 1 hour at least and besides some minor itching it was great. I would love to do it again if given the choice too.

 

[LadyAria]

Well Lady Aria the BDSM gods must have looked down and decide to bless me tonight. I got an invite to a private party by a friend, so I go. I am sitting around talking when someone pulls out the liquid latex and I got a small patch attached to my arm. I liked it so much that I had my chest shaved and had the front part of my chest to the bakini line covered. I had it on over 1 hour at least and besides some minor itching it was great. I would love to do it again if given the choice too.

I guess we talked the devil up.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Lady Aria seeing you were so kind to answer my first question about liquid latex maybe you can help me with some more of your knowledge. I want a full shirt of latex, but before it gets removed I want to be flogged. The latex won't lessen a good floggings effects. Being a bit of an artist I am looking for another good picture and having the latex being removed from me by a flogger sounds like it might fit the bill. The plus side is will also add some sensations that just a flogging lack, but what I need to know is are there any extra risk attached to doing this?? Not even sure what the risk might be so I come to seek the knowledge from the board.

 

[kittentamer]

Leeroy, here is a good website: http://www.liquid-latex.com/applica.htm

It doesn't completely harden and it flexible with your body. Ripping it off in play can be very stimulating as well. Read that and let me know if you have further personal questions. It was real hot in my circle about 2 or 3 years ago, but I honestly don't see it as much in scene play. The latex can irritate skin and some brands can have a funny smell. It has become more novelty thing these days. I still like it. Though, I haven't used it in quite a few months.

but how much does it hurt to remove it or how you remove it my wife and I
are want to try it,but I dont want to wast it

 

[LadyAria]

Lady Aria seeing you were so kind to answer my first question about liquid latex maybe you can help me with some more of your knowledge. I want a full shirt of latex, but before it gets removed I want to be flogged. The latex won't lessen a good floggings effects. Being a bit of an artist I am looking for another good picture and having the latex being removed from me by a flogger sounds like it might fit the bill. The plus side is will also add some sensations that just a flogging lack, but what I need to know is are there any extra risk attached to doing this?? Not even sure what the risk might be so I come to seek the knowledge from the board.

Honestly, a whip will take it off clean it if the person using the whip is proficient with it. I don't really see the flogger get the job done as they have more of a "shattering" effect on latex in my experience.

Risk...well latex allergeries and general rashing are alway big on the list. Test a patch on the underside of your arm 48 hours before scene. You want to make sure their is no bubbling, cracking or redness/swelling in the area. Also, it is a good idea if you are going to whip to clean the area with alcohol before apply the latex and try not to break the skin underneath if it is coated. If you do, flush out the wounds immediately. Well, basically the same treatment you'd apply you you ever break something off in a subs skin: Remove, clean it and watch it...if it gets worse, get help. Infections can kill people.

 

[LadyAria]

but how much does it hurt to remove it or how you remove it my wife and I
are want to try it,but I dont want to wast it

It really depends on the brand. The good kind with give you a nice pull like removing a bandaid. Wax or shave if you don't like your hairs being pulled out in the courser area. I've never had an issue with on me as a woman, but I have rip a few men bald spots.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Honestly, a whip will take it off clean it if the person using the whip is proficient with it. I don't really see the flogger get the job done as they have more of a "shattering" effect on latex in my experience.

Risk...well latex allergeries and general rashing are alway big on the list. Test a patch on the underside of your arm 48 hours before scene. You want to make sure their is no bubbling, cracking or redness/swelling in the area. Also, it is a good idea if you are going to whip to clean the area with alcohol before apply the latex and try not to break the skin underneath if it is coated. If you do, flush out the wounds immediately. Well, basically the same treatment you'd apply you you ever break something off in a subs skin: Remove, clean it and watch it...if it gets worse, get help. Infections can kill people.

Your talking single tails I assume and I am not up to that yet so that is why I say floggers. I have had the latex off me and don't see any issues with my chest you described. So maybe this is something to try when I have more exprience with my pain limits then if a flogger will not remove or break up the latex in a strip like quaity that I want.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Your talking single tails I assume and I am not up to that yet so that is why I say floggers. I have had the latex off me and don't see any issues with my chest you described. So maybe this is something to try when I have more exprience with my pain limits then if a flogger will not remove or break up the latex in a strip like quaity that I want.

Sorry to hijack but had to say great AV...and single tails are great.

Catalina

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Sorry to hijack but had to say great AV...and single tails are great.

Catalina

Thank you very much Catalina, that picture for me has a primal feel to it, but its just the picture of my first hard flogging didn't get pictures of the last one. I am sure single tails are great and you can use them lightly but not sure I am ready for them.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Thank you very much Catalina, that picture for me has a primal feel to it, but its just the picture of my first hard flogging didn't get pictures of the last one. I am sure single tails are great and you can use them lightly but not sure I am ready for them.

All things in time otherwise you stand the risk of hindering the pace of your journey. This pic is the result of our first flogging session when we met...LOL, those were the days when I would mark some, now it takes a lot to get me there and in recent times that has not been possible but we are getting back to where I was. It is one exciting journey though which I believe never stops.

http://static.flickr.com/42/96207161_7c7df6df6e_m.jpg


Catalina

 

[leeroy jenkins]

All things in time otherwise you stand the risk of hindering the pace of your journey. This pic is the result of our first flogging session when we met...LOL, those were the days when I would mark some, now it takes a lot to get me there and in recent times that has not been possible but we are getting back to where I was. It is one exciting journey though which I believe never stops.

http://static.flickr.com/42/96207161_7c7df6df6e_m.jpg


Catalina

I hope its a long and winding road through the countryside this journey you speak of Catalina. I am at this time pleading myself to a femdom in hopes to get some training and to explore my need to submit. I know that just saying that might fly in the face of all I have presented here on Lit. I know that I am part submissive but I can't say that I knew my need for it to be this great.

 

[LadyAria]

Sorry to hijack but had to say great AV...and single tails are great.

Catalina

You can hijack my thread anytime.

 

[LadyAria]

Greetings. My question is about trust. I served my ex-Wife for 8 years, and it was a total power exchange. i did many things under her control that i would have never even considered otherwise. Although She did eventually lose respect for me and go Her own way, i must say that i loved every minute of being her toy, property, slut, slave. i want desparately to serve again, but the few Dommes who have been willing to talk to me (online) tell me that a 100% power exchange is unsafe, and should not be practiced. Isn't trust the core of a BDSM relationship?
Please help this pitiful, confused male.

Yes, the core of a BDSM relationship is trust and communication to the depths that many people cannot understand. 100% power exchange with a new partner can be unsafe. As I have stated before in the thread, I believe the gift of choice or the collar commitment (depending of your circle's language) is the biggest committment you can make to another person. The interdependencies are so great that they cannot be thrust upon someone quickly by either Dom or sub.

I understand the desire or need to be in the comforts of that type of relationship can be almost painful at time for those of us who have had the privillege of enjoying such a closeness, but be patient. Being too intense toward complete committment upfront can scare people away. Many people, particularly sadist, prefer atleast the appearance of reluctance. The overt need for breaking or the indecision toward absolute submission is the sexist form of foreplay to many.

Have you tried meeting in groups in your area? The in person experience cannot be match (IMHO) to the online. Many MANY people on line are functioning purely from a fantasy approach and will basically was your time. I do believe your honesty about your ultimate desire is refreshing. However, a reconsideration of how to get to point A to point B might be worth rethinking. Do you really want to give over 100% power to someone you don't know who may not deserve; therefore, abuse it? Isn't the part of the beauty of any relationship the journey to the goal?

It is a great commitment not to be taken lightly and should be considered over time for either a sub or Dom.

 

[kayte]

Yes, the core of a BDSM relationship is trust and communication to the depths that many people cannot understand. 100% power exchange with a new partner can be unsafe. As I have stated before in the thread, I believe the gift of choice or the collar commitment (depending of your circle's language) is the biggest committment you can make to another person. The interdependencies are so great that they cannot be thrust upon someone quickly by either Dom or sub.

I understand the desire or need to be in the comforts of that type of relationship can be almost painful at time for those of us who have had the privillege of enjoying such a closeness, but be patient. Being too intense toward complete committment upfront can scare people away. Many people, particularly sadist, prefer atleast the appearance of reluctance. The overt need for breaking or the indecision toward absolute submission is the sexist form of foreplay to many.

Have you tried meeting in groups in your area? The in person experience cannot be match (IMHO) to the online. Many MANY people on line are functioning purely from a fantasy approach and will basically was your time. I do believe your honesty about your ultimate desire is refreshing. However, a reconsideration of how to get to point A to point B might be worth rethinking. Do you really want to give over 100% power to someone you don't know who may not deserve; therefore, abuse it? Isn't the part of the beauty of any relationship the journey to the goal?

It is a great commitment not to be taken lightly and should be considered over time for either a sub or Dom.

Good evening {{{{{{Lady Aria}}}}}}}}

I am always so impressed with the thoughtful responses you provide to all who come here with questions, or concerns.

 

[LadyAria]

Good evening {{{{{{Lady Aria}}}}}}}}

I am always so impressed with the thoughtful responses you provide to all who come here with questions, or concerns.

Thank you. I hope you are well. My regards to your Sir as always.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Lady Aria have to say the nurse AV rocks.

 

[LadyAria]

Lady Aria have to say the nurse AV rocks.

Doesn't it though? You into medical play?

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Doesn't it though? You into medical play?

Can't say I have tried it but I am willing to experience to see if I like it though.

 

[ThorkelGriersen]

More Than Needles

Doesn't it though? You into medical play?

Oh yeah!

But then you already know that!! BIG Van Burens!! Ouch!

 

[LadyAria]

Can't say I have tried it but I am willing to experience to see if I like it though.

As a masochist, it is right up your alley.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

As a masochist, it is right up your alley.

Right now the list of friend I have ia back to 0 so that means no play partners unless I beg someone to play with me. If I new someone that wanted to do a medical scene I would volunteer. The 31 we are again going to talk about needles and play piercings so I know I will be there.