BustyTheClown
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I've recently been posting in the thread, "We made our baby deaf on purpose" (http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76491). This is a fascinating debate, but it makes me think that I am more firm in my opinion that having children by means other than natural ones is just too much for society to deal with. We have enough of a problem with the children who exist out of the normal means of production. 
Seriously, though, I wonder whether it wouldn't just be better to deny fertility treatments, artificial treatments, etc., to anyone who requests them? This would be unconstitutional or illegal if people had the right to have children (see my thread about entitlement and children: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76303), but they don't. Infertility, homosexuality, sterility -- these can all be translated as nature's way of making people unable to have children in order to manage the population. So why complicate matters by going "against nature"?
I'm not trying to say that the infertile, the sterile, the homosexual, etc., don't deserve to have your own children. I'm not attacking your abilities to be parents -- I'm attacking the idea that it's ok to create life where there "shouldn't" be any; a better way to word that might be "where there *wouldn't normally* be any." Why not just adopt? Why do people feel the need to have their genetic identity carried on in their children? Isn't being a parent all about the love you give, not just the genes?
Let me just say something that may not seem relevant at first, but actually is: I'm pro-choice, and think that abortions should *always* be allowed, no matter when in the pregnancy or what the circumstances. I think it is our duty to pregnant women to respect their autonomy, and therefore it is our duty to grant them "permission" to do whatever they want with their bodies, whenever they wish. They shouldn't even have to ask permission. This may seem strange, but I don't regard the fetus as a person in the moral sense, and I think that as long as it is in the mother's body, it's her choice to do with it what she will. Hopefully she will make an informed decision, but it is up to her.
Now, what does this have to do with what the thread is about? It seems to stand to reason that if I am all for protecting mothers' rights when it comes to abortion, I would naturally be all for protecting parents' rights when it comes to artificial insemination and the like. But I am not, and here's why: abortions deal with a form of life that is already in existence; artificial insemination deals with a form of life that isn't yet in existence. That is where the difference lies. If a woman needs an abortion, for health reasons, for autonomy reasons, for whatever, she should be able to get one; her rights outweigh those of the fetus inside her. However, I don't think that the rights of those who are not ABLE to conceive for whatever reason outweigh the rights of their potential offspring. There is nothing to weigh their rights against, and hence, I don't think there is any reason good enough to make it absolutely necessary for people to conceive through any way other than the one they teach in kids' books. An abortion may be necessary for the woman; becoming artificially pregnant, or having a surrogate mother bear your child, or whatever, is never *necessary*.
That's what I think, anyway. What do you think? Should artificial insemination, etc., be allowed? Do you think it's playing god? Do you think that having children is really is a right that people have, so they should be able to have children by any means necessary? Talk to me.

Seriously, though, I wonder whether it wouldn't just be better to deny fertility treatments, artificial treatments, etc., to anyone who requests them? This would be unconstitutional or illegal if people had the right to have children (see my thread about entitlement and children: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76303), but they don't. Infertility, homosexuality, sterility -- these can all be translated as nature's way of making people unable to have children in order to manage the population. So why complicate matters by going "against nature"?
I'm not trying to say that the infertile, the sterile, the homosexual, etc., don't deserve to have your own children. I'm not attacking your abilities to be parents -- I'm attacking the idea that it's ok to create life where there "shouldn't" be any; a better way to word that might be "where there *wouldn't normally* be any." Why not just adopt? Why do people feel the need to have their genetic identity carried on in their children? Isn't being a parent all about the love you give, not just the genes?
Let me just say something that may not seem relevant at first, but actually is: I'm pro-choice, and think that abortions should *always* be allowed, no matter when in the pregnancy or what the circumstances. I think it is our duty to pregnant women to respect their autonomy, and therefore it is our duty to grant them "permission" to do whatever they want with their bodies, whenever they wish. They shouldn't even have to ask permission. This may seem strange, but I don't regard the fetus as a person in the moral sense, and I think that as long as it is in the mother's body, it's her choice to do with it what she will. Hopefully she will make an informed decision, but it is up to her.
Now, what does this have to do with what the thread is about? It seems to stand to reason that if I am all for protecting mothers' rights when it comes to abortion, I would naturally be all for protecting parents' rights when it comes to artificial insemination and the like. But I am not, and here's why: abortions deal with a form of life that is already in existence; artificial insemination deals with a form of life that isn't yet in existence. That is where the difference lies. If a woman needs an abortion, for health reasons, for autonomy reasons, for whatever, she should be able to get one; her rights outweigh those of the fetus inside her. However, I don't think that the rights of those who are not ABLE to conceive for whatever reason outweigh the rights of their potential offspring. There is nothing to weigh their rights against, and hence, I don't think there is any reason good enough to make it absolutely necessary for people to conceive through any way other than the one they teach in kids' books. An abortion may be necessary for the woman; becoming artificially pregnant, or having a surrogate mother bear your child, or whatever, is never *necessary*.
That's what I think, anyway. What do you think? Should artificial insemination, etc., be allowed? Do you think it's playing god? Do you think that having children is really is a right that people have, so they should be able to have children by any means necessary? Talk to me.