Are you sure that your children are yours?

[funloverwife]

Hi,

Its just an erotic thought, not to hurt anybody's feelings. I just got an idea, if my children are not born from my sperm but my somebody else's sperm?
Its so kinky thought, its just fantasising your wife as slut and the children with you are of other man born secretly to her.what an idea.
So i would be observing my friends/colleagues/her friends or colleagues whom my children resemble.
Whats your opinion?

 

[funloverwife]

No reply? afraid?

 

[twister947]

My opinion is, it happens more often than you might think, not so much from hotwifing as from garden variety cheating.

 

[screwher]

100%. When our child was conceived, my wife was adamant about fidelity, loyalty and honesty in our relationship.

That said, sometimes I do get that nice feeling in my cock fantasizing about my wife with a baby bump. Knowing it came from a one night stand in a sleazy motel with some guy she just met!

 

[eigenschwarz]

They aren't mine. They aren't my wife's, either. They belong entirely to themselves; we're just their caretakers until they're 18.

 

[twister947]

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeand...-dna-tests-reveal-more-than-you-bargained-for

 

[BillTheKatt90]

My kids all have a harmless genetic defect that came from me. So yes.

 

[jharp]

1 in 4 men are raising children that they didn't father. Most often don't know the fact that their Wife or Girlfriend was unfaithful and got pregnant from the result. It's fucking rancid and not all erotic.

 

[ag2507]

The statistic used to be 20% (pre the pill): i'm not convinced by your 25% - it has to own in the 5-10% bracketr by now.

 

[jharp]

The statistic used to be 20% (pre the pill): i'm not convinced by your 25% - it has to own in the 5-10% bracketr by now.

There are quite a few factors at play. I used to believe it was between 5 and 10%. Some older articles claim that. But as DNA tests have become cheaper and easier to use they are finding those numbers rising. Going from 10% to as much as 25 to 30%.

Here are some citations on this.

https://immigrationdnatestonline.co...ud is very common,to be the biological father.

https://dnatesting.com/30-of-men-not-the-father/

https://dadsdivorce.com/articles/paternity-fraud-a-national-epidemic/

Still. I'd hate to be the guy who finds out I'm not the daddy. Statistics don't quite tell the gut wrenching story of your buddy, already suffering from depression, learn that his child isn't his as his wife got pregnant fucking some random guy on a girl's night out. Then later that night learning he ate his gun. I wish that on no one.

 

[funloverwife]

In my neighbourhood I had seen a couple with a child having the features of an Asian man. The child was not adopted but was born to the lady. They were very happy with the child and what may be the case I could imagine. Its all the mindset of the people.

 

[Bbl87]

Well, we ended up doing IVF, so barring doctor's office shenanigans, pretty certain. Plus, one son is a spitting image of me at his age.

 

[KatieDoes]

There are quite a few factors at play. I used to believe it was between 5 and 10%. Some older articles claim that. But as DNA tests have become cheaper and easier to use they are finding those numbers rising. Going from 10% to as much as 25 to 30%.

Here are some citations on this.

https://immigrationdnatestonline.com/paternity-fraud-2/#:~:text=Paternity fraud is very common,to be the biological father.

https://dnatesting.com/30-of-men-not-the-father/

https://dadsdivorce.com/articles/paternity-fraud-a-national-epidemic/

Still. I'd hate to be the guy who finds out I'm not the daddy. Statistics don't quite tell the gut wrenching story of your buddy, already suffering from depression, learn that his child isn't his as his wife got pregnant fucking some random guy on a girl's night out. Then later that night learning he ate his gun. I wish that on no one.

Absolutely none of your sources are valid. They‘re all from places that are trying to sell paternity tests. They even admit that their numbers are skewed and the percentage only includes men that had a reason to take a paternity test.

 

[Sigmund7]

One of ours is adopted so I'm 100% sure I am not the biological father. The others may or may not be genetically related to me.

 

[Susscrofa]

Hi,

Its just an erotic thought, not to hurt anybody's feelings. I just got an idea, if my children are not born from my sperm but my somebody else's sperm?
Its so kinky thought, its just fantasising your wife as slut and the children with you are of other man born secretly to her.what an idea.
So i would be observing my friends/colleagues/her friends or colleagues whom my children resemble.
Whats your opinion?

I wouldn't find that thought erotic at all. I'd feel like I had been conned: putting all of my time, money, and resources raising someone else's kid under false pretenses.

It probably happens a lot more than people think. I vaguely remember reading a study that used DNA taken from families where the fathers claimed that the children were theirs biologically, and that something like 2% or 5% of samples had to be discarded because the kids weren't really the father's.

 

[twister947]

It's child support for somebody else's kid.
What's it cost to raise and educate a child these days?

 

[Strixaluco]

My ex had all the time suspected his then-girlfriend's baby wasn't his. Finally he required a test, and he didn't find the result sexy at all - he broke up.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

Thanks to 23 and me, my 43 year old neice knows the secret her mother expected to take to the grave.
My sister is calling her daughter selfish for wanting the truth revealed.
It's been horrible. I hold my sister responsible and accountable. Her daughter was picked on in school about being bi racial. And instead of facing the truth and allowing her to explore her heritage, my sister lied about all these years. Even after confronted with lab results.

There is nothing sexy in this scenario at all.

 

[littlecordelera]

Then later that night learning he ate his gun.

I had to Google that one. Never heard that phrase before.

A guy who commits suicide because his wife cheated has far greater problems than his wife's cheating.

 

[Strixaluco]

A guy who commits suicide because his wife cheated has far greater problems than his wife's cheating.

True, but cheating a depressed person is mean as hell.

 

[Susscrofa]

I had to Google that one. Never heard that phrase before.

A guy who commits suicide because his wife cheated has far greater problems than his wife's cheating.

The problem isn't just that his wife cheated. The problem is that he spent years of his life, a considerable amount of his income, and a great deal of emotional energy investing into children that weren't his. In those situations, the mother and whoever got her pregnant should be held responsible financially for every cent and every minute the duped husband spent on the kids. Nobody wants to be a wren to somebody else's cuckoo.

 

[littlecordelera]

The problem isn't just that his wife cheated. The problem is that he spent years of his life, a considerable amount of his income, and a great deal of emotional energy investing into children that weren't his. In those situations, the mother and whoever got her pregnant should be help responsible financially for every cent and every minute the duped husband spent on the kids. Nobody wants to be a wren to somebody else's cuckoo.

So a typical guy would commit suicide because he unwittingly raised someone else's child?

 

[Susscrofa]

So a typical guy would commit suicide because he unwittingly raised someone else's child

You hear cases of people who snap and kill their wives, kids, and themselves. I'm guessing that a lot of these are men who've been conned into raising someone else's kids and just got the news. I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, but I can certainly understand why someone might snap if they find this out - imagine you've just found out that you've been throwing away most your income, your time, and your life, year after year, tricked into raising some deadbeat's kid for him. They react the same way as someone might react if a crook cleaned out their bank accounts and wiped out their savings.

If throwing your money and life away like this sounds appealing to you, have at it!

 

[Strixaluco]

You hear cases of people who snap and kill their wives, kids, and themselves. I'm guessing that a lot of these are men who've been conned into raising someone else's kids and just got the news.

Nope, you are wrong. Many of them have actually been treating their family badly for a long time already. Often the snap comes, because the wife finally dares to leave.

Some are depressed and think it's better they are all dead.

 

[littlecordelera]

You hear cases of people who snap and kill their wives, kids, and themselves. I'm guessing that a lot of these are men who've been conned into raising someone else's kids and just got the news. I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, but I can certainly understand why someone might snap if they find this out - imagine you've just found out that you've been throwing away most your income, your time, and your life, year after year, tricked into raising some deadbeat's kid for him. They react the same way as someone might react if a crook cleaned out their bank accounts and wiped out their savings.

If throwing your money and life away like this sounds appealing to you, have at it!

I would never consider raising a child to be throwing away money. I feel sorry for any guy who does, but I am sure there are plenty of them. But how many? Would a typical guy commit suicide because he unwittingly raised someone else's kid? Or, as I originally stated, would a guy who commits suicide because of this have bigger problems than his wife's cheating?