are you gay or bi

[bruce99]

My wife and I enjoy multiple encounter and often find our selves in positions with a partner of the same sex. I have enjoyed being intimate with another man as she has with other women. Lately in a general discussion with friends it ws stated that if you do the same sex partner it makes you gay. As emotionally we do not share our feelings with these same sex partners at the best i would think that bi may be closer to the fact than gay. we both enjoy the plaesure we get from the same sex partners as well as the plaesure we receive from other opposite sex partners but only share intimate feelings with one another. So what doew it mean following the orginal conversation that if you do someone of the same sex you are gay. I think it is you ar very open minded and comfortable with your own sexuality.

Time for your nickle.

 

[His Whimsicality]

You must either be kidding or not particularly bright to ask such a question.

But to help you (and your seemingly not so intelligent friends) out of your misery: "homosexual" people only have sex with people of their own gender, bisexual people have sex with people of both genders - I guess that makes you bi.

Also, "makes you gay" gives the impression that they think of it as a disease as in "makes you sick", so you can also tell your buddies that "be/is/are gay" sounds less offensive, thank-you-very-much.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

arrrggghhh!!!

I hate discussions like this.

This is very obvious that you are BI and not GAY.

PowrDragn

 

[Ms_Lilith]

wow. Kinda closed-minded, eh?

Bi.

You like both. You dip your feet in both puddles. You fish on both sides of the river. You like neopolitan ice cream.

bi.

blah blah blah "makes you gay".....

"that statement makes them sound dumb."

 

[unskilled]

sorta like when some female kisses a girl and someone says right away..

'eww she is a lesbian'..

god I hate people like that. how you know she is a lesbian? does she hate dick? does she ONLY lick muff?

bi = both
lesbian (in regard to women) = no dick.. just pussy

just to clear it up for the slow starters that are lurking

 

[DelightfulDesires]

Everyone here is right...

You and your wife are bisexual. As others have stated, you are GAY/LEZ if you are sexually attracted to the same gender only. And, you are BISEXUAL when you are sexually attracted to both genders (sometimes equally, sometimes not). And, you are STRAIGHT when you are sexually attracted to the opposite gender only.

 

[erotichealingmist]

You are BI bi

 

[gimmeadaiquiri]

My advice is to not worry about defining yourself-- your personal preferences are unique to you, to each of us.

Who cares if you're gay or straight or bi?? You like who you like, and if your wife is down with it, you don't have a problem!