Are Women really as Taboo as men ???

[Mothersdirtyson1]

I peeped on my son masturbating once. And have had him watch as I cheated on my husband

How’s that go?

 

[old_hippy_46]

I think us women are far more taboo
But men are able to express themselves more easily
I have to trust someone a lot before I start sharing kinks. I just worry they’ll tell other people I’m a total weirdo, so I need to know them well
Of course, with the gift of anonymity here, it doesn’t take much for me to share what I’m into!

My two cents worth is far greater. I've worked construction most of my life, I think construction workers vocabulary is known to be crude.
I was sleeping in an adjacent room when GF had some of her bff's over. They started a conversation about guys cocks, what they like and don't like. It progressed about guys jacking off, and how much they like seeing a guy cum.
I just remained fake sleeping so I could near their bawdy conversation. Guys on the other seem to fixate around one word that gets thrown into a conversation, like; what the fuck.....

 

[poppypopper]

I’m in my early 50’s and have always been on the taboo / perv side of life. One of my favorite taboos that I’ve always found very intriguing is incest. I’ve always wanted to meet a woman who shared this taboo but never have, even when I hinted that I was interested, they’ve never expressed interest. Incest is extremely popular on this site as well as just about every porn site which really makes me curious as to how common this topic might be amongst women, or is it really just men for some reason.. I would love to meet women that share this interest for friendship and possibly more, but where are they ???

If you are still here I am 55, female, and have similar desires! I am in the UK, would love to explore thoughts and 'fantasies' Will keep looking here for a reply. xx

 

[Bayzapper10]

What do you all think the vin-diagram of kinks for general male/female looks like? Like threesomes fall inside but does cuckolding fall more one of the other? Bisexuality? I agree …

One of my favorite taboos that I’ve always found very intriguing is incest

… probably leans more outside the common window and on more the male side. I know in my own relationship I that is true, my wife finds incest “deplorable” while I don’t in certain cases.

She and I are even now talking about making a personal vin-diagram for ourselves.

 

[CincyGurl66]

No, I do not think we are in general. But there are always exceptions. I’m in my 30’s and anytime I’ve ever talked about fantasies with friends it all revolves around still wanting to feel taken care of at the end. So, for me, the most taboo I have ever been is in a trusted relationship where afterward we spent time reconnecting and making sure each other felt safe and satisfied. If you can provide that environment for a woman (i am bi but feel the same with female taboo roleplay) then she will do the best she can to meet your needs if you make her feel safe. I think it’s really cool that “taboo” interests become more intense the safer one feels. That is a healthy sex life imo.

 

[SmokingFap]

No, I do not think we are in general. But there are always exceptions. I’m in my 30’s and anytime I’ve ever talked about fantasies with friends it all revolves around still wanting to feel taken care of at the end. So, for me, the most taboo I have ever been is in a trusted relationship where afterward we spent time reconnecting and making sure each other felt safe and satisfied. If you can provide that environment for a woman (i am bi but feel the same with female taboo roleplay) then she will do the best she can to meet your needs if you make her feel safe. I think it’s really cool that “taboo” interests become more intense the safer one feels. That is a healthy sex life imo.

I absolutely agree with all of that. It takes a very high degree of trust and comfort with someone to share your deepest and most twisted fetishes and fantasies. But when you reach that level with someone, sharing all of those things can make an otherwise very satisfactory sex life into a legendary one. And a super passionate, adventurous, and even perverted session with someone is always better when you lovingly "come down" together, cuddle, and mentally prepare yourselves to be "normal" again.

 

[CincyGurl66]

I am always a bit confused when people say they’re into incest. Like, my first question in mind is whether they mean they like to roleplay with someone as relatives or if they quite literally want to fuck their family members. I have done the Daddy/daughter or Mother/son roleplay before, but I would never actually want to have sex with someone related to me.

I would never use the “i” word at all. I like my roleplay partner to just know I am playing younger for older and then we can explore from there. When I first embraced my kink for wanting to play younger for older I would feel shame afterward bc i thought my fetish was wrong. I have had a couple partners along the way be very undertanding aand patient as I explored what was turning me on, what drove the intensity of wanting to submit to a daddy figure. consenting adults should be able to understand one another as far as where they are coming from with this fetish so no lines are crossed. there is power in playing a younger sub, it’s just nuanced. If you like playing younger for older, do not let your partner make you feel powerless. As the sub, he should be respectful and in his own ways let you know he appreciates your vulnerabilty the same way you honor him by being his obedient little girl

 

[CincyGurl66]

I absolutely agree with all of that. It takes a very high degree of trust and comfort with someone to share your deepest and most twisted fetishes and fantasies. But when you reach that level with someone, sharing all of those things can make an otherwise very satisfactory sex life into a legendary one. And a super passionate, adventurous, and even perverted session with someone is always better when you lovingly "come down" together, cuddle, and mentally prepare yourselves to be "normal" again.

And to be clear, that’s just my opinion. I have zero professional take on the topic. lol. I could be way off I suppose

 

[CincyGurl66]

Had a girlfriend that was into forced...had to roleplay bunch of crazy sh#it with that one.
Also, had another one that nearly sucked her brother off in front of me.
Nearly, she sad she was joking, but his cock was half of inch from her mouth.
So, yeah, I would say even relatively vanilla guy like me had experiences with very into-taboo girls.

 

[SmokingFap]

And to be clear, that’s just my opinion. I have zero professional take on the topic. lol. I could be way off I suppose

I don't think any of us are licensed sex therapists or clinical psychologists. We're all just semi-professional perverts on here. And I don't think you're off at all. I would bet that the vast majority of the folks on here agree with you.

 

[CincyGurl66]

Holy cow. That’s a lot.

 

[MichelleSwan]

I’m in my early 50’s and have always been on the taboo / perv side of life. One of my favorite taboos that I’ve always found very intriguing is incest. I’ve always wanted to meet a woman who shared this taboo but never have, even when I hinted that I was interested, they’ve never expressed interest. Incest is extremely popular on this site as well as just about every porn site which really makes me curious as to how common this topic might be amongst women, or is it really just men for some reason.. I would love to meet women that share this interest for friendship and possibly more, but where are they ???

I think we all love to be appreciated one way or another. We know most of us are your first fancy, the first woman you see nude. Wouldn't it be spectacular if you picked up where your father left off?

 

[RjThoughts]

I think we all love to be appreciated one way or another. We know most of us are your first fancy, the first woman you see nude. Wouldn't it be spectacular if you picked up where your father left off?

My sisters and mother were less inhibited than most, so yes, mom was the first woman I saw naked. I found her reading material, the incest paperbacks of the 1970s (copies of which I've found on the internet!).

 

[JohnyJ09]

Growing up it was clear that my mom had a very sexual side to her. Even though she tried to hide it during her everyday life, he would still pop through from time to time. Eventually it was confirmed by my dad that my mom was quite wild and she was actually the one that turned him on onto a lot of things that he wasn't originally into. As luck would have it, I would end up falling for a girl that turned out to be a lot like my mom. Came across as proper to everyone, but in reality she had a super wild side to her which also included relationships with multiple family members. So, at least in my experience, yes, women can absolutely be as taboo as men. I just think that women do a much better job of controlling it and hiding it.

 

[goodsonformom]

Growing up it was clear that my mom had a very sexual side to her. Even though she tried to hide it during her everyday life, he would still pop through from time to time. Eventually it was confirmed by my dad that my mom was quite wild and she was actually the one that turned him on onto a lot of things that he wasn't originally into. As luck would have it, I would end up falling for a girl that turned out to be a lot like my mom. Came across as proper to everyone, but in reality she had a super wild side to her which also included relationships with multiple family members. So, at least in my experience, yes, women can absolutely be as taboo as men. I just think that women do a much better job of controlling it and hiding it.

My mother and first wife were much the same...

 

[Luvolderbbw74]

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Part of the reason why it may seem like it's so hard to find women like us, is that these topics aren't something that you can typically casually talk about in the real world. I've had a few experiences with incest in my lifetime, kept it secret for a long time. Even from my husband which I would tell everything to. It's not until a few years ago that I told my husband about my experiences and eventually led to some new experiences as well. So yes, we're definitely out there, we just can't be out there out there.

Would love to chat with you and share my experiences

 

[Likelace75]

I had a girlfriend who broke up with me to have a incestuous relationship with her first cousin. I am not friends with both and she tells me when they have sex. I get so hot and excited about her doing him I always cum from it

 

[FreckledSprite]

So, at least in my experience, yes, women can absolutely be as taboo as men. I just think that women do a much better job of controlling it and hiding it.

Often out of necessity. We’re still exposed to poor treatment from all sides when we act uninhibited. Men get high fives for being wild. Women get slut shamed.

There’s also the tendency for men to think women lose agency when we are sex positive. They approach acting entitled to our time because we enjoy kinky sex. Um…no. Just because we like to be absolutely filthy with our chosen partners doesn’t mean we want anything to do with every slob making a low effort approach and drooling on us.

 

[wideboybrown]

I would think so! Why not?

I like your point of view!

We are aligned!

 

[wideboybrown]

19f here. I have a few taboo thoughts

I'd like to exchange thoughts, taboo-style...

DM me?

 

[wideboybrown]

I peeped on my son masturbating once. And have had him watch as I cheated on my husband

I'd sooo love to hear more...

As the Son to my SexMom. We talk about discovering porn together. She discovered her large sexual side as a mature female

 

[JimDee676]

Based on my experience, I say yes, women are just as taboo as men. They might be more into taboo sex (whatever that is) than men. For them to engage in sexual activity -- again, based on my experience -- they need to be feel safe, liked and their secrets kept. I base this on the many years I played on CL when it was active. I found many a married lady who would have sex with me. They were typically in their 40s but some were older, in their 50s and 60s. They'd been married for decades and the relationship had gone stale and sexless. Some were more adventurous than others. But all were great ladies, great conversationalists, and really beautiful. They weren't about to grace a magazine cover; but they were truly beautiful ladies who were looking to be loved and appreciated. And I was looking for the same. Some relationships lasted months. Some lasted a couple of years.

As for incest, I can't speak to it. I've never engaged in that activity. But I'm not here to judge it either.

 

[lucy_anne21]

I’d say we were more so, much more. Some men I’ve been with have been quite shocked at some of the things I want them to do to me.

Lucy.

 

[FlirtyWordy]

I think there are just as many women out there, that are just as Taboo as men. Women just don't brag or talk about it (locker room talk) like most guys. Guys seem to need to stroke their ego more, than women. Plus there's always that double standard. Women get a bad rep. Labeled something that men won't be. Incest is a tough one. It's definitely NOT for everyone. So much that most people just wouldn't understand. Keeping everything secrets. TRUST! Mixed emotions and feelings! Pressure put on ones self! But between two, consenting, adults. Incest can be a wonderful and beautiful relationship! I know!

If it’s purely a matter of imagination, I find it quite strange how fussy and weirded out people are about taboo sex fantasy whether age play, incest, or anything else. We absolutely know from science that fantasies do not necessarily translate to real world, desires, and in fact, the vast majority do not. And just because one thinks about, say, incest, doesn’t say anything at all about that person on a moral level, we’re human. We have big brains. They are capable of imagining all kinds of things that we would never ever do. I find it deeply, disappointing and frankly embarrassing When people act as if imagination is somehow a crime. Sounds Orwellian to me.

 

[wideboybrown]

19f here. I have a few taboo thoughts

I'd be interested in listening...