Are hard men easy, and what's in it for women?

[Easy Boy]

This got started as an exchange with Whispersecret on the little-visited Editor's Forum. I'm bringing it here for wider input.

When my cock gets hard, my brain goes soft. As Robin Williams put it, it seems there's only enough blood to operate one of them at a time. A little skilled manipulation in the right places, and I become manipulable. Eager to please, sometimes even desperate. I can be led around by my erection, both literally and figuratively. It's easy for a woman to have her way with me. Hence my name.

Men, are you like this? Are you more willing to do it, or whatever, her way? Tell us about the 'whatever', OK? Do women have their way with you, once you're turned on? Do you resent it later?

Women, do you experience men this way? Do you have your way with them? How so? (Please tell!) And how does this affect your relationship?

Or is Easy Boy an anomaly?

 

[Expertise]

One of my many failings.....

I have been known, on occassion, to let the little head do the thinking for the big head.

And the little head is not exactly a neurosurgeon, if ya know what I mean.

 

[KillerMuffin]

No, you are not an anomaly, you are the norm, at least amongst the men I am familiar with. For the longest time I thought erectile dysfunction referred to what happened in a man's brain whenever he had an erection.

Happily though, the StudMuffin and my relationship has balance. He lets me have my way whether he has an erection or not.

The other thing that contributes is that he does not have to remain in my good graces to have sex. We can have sex when I'm highly pissed off at him. It's just a little, shall we say, rough. So he is permitted to have that inter-erection stupidity without worrying about repercussions.

 

[Ambrosious]

I've never been afflicted with this problem so I can't relate. What I can tell you though is that the women in my life have always assumed that I would be easily manipulated with a little sex. It was my ex's (all of them) to make me forget about the issues of a fight we might have been having. It always frustrated them beyond words when I didn't roll over and let them scratch my tummy. LOL Every one thought that if they gave me a little pussy, the bad feelings and anger would melt away. I never let them get to me this way.

The fantasy goddess is the same way I am so we never try to manipulate each other through sex. I think that is what makes it so good with her.

 

[Juliangel]

LOL why do you think my honey is on the roof. He hate the Christmas lights but there is always a blow job in it for him after he is done and another for taking them down after the holidays.

and before anyone asks NO our friend is not getting one too, his wife can handle that for him cause I'm not.

 

[Ambrosious]

but there is always a blow job in it for him after he is done and another for taking them down after the holidays.

When we meet next week, try not to kiss me on the lips, mmm k?

 

[Juliangel]

but there is always a blow job in it for him after he is done and another for taking them down after the holidays.

When we meet next week, try not to kiss me on the lips, mmm k?

LOL who said you were getting a kiss I said we should have lunch!!!