Anyone have the urge to receive but not give?

love to give

Always have the urge to give. Multiple times, same or different guys
 
It eliminates the chance to develop a meaningful relationship. You may not even have that in mind but if you don’t you are missing out. If you do they could get better and better with the right person.
 
In a sexless marriage. Need my cock sucked so bad... Love to be deep in a creamy pussy. Love to eat pussy. Dont think im ready to jump to the other side yet. But i get so horny i do watch some good porn
 
I don't believe this would prevent you from getting a BJ, I have never given a BJ, but would prefer giving and not receiving and I'm sure there are plenty of us out there.
 
no problema

Love to be with woman, but being in a sexless marriage i read all types of lit. I would love to receive some deep throat, but a giver no not yet. When i get super horny might think about but still rather have my cock deep throated as i lay back and enjoy.


there are huge numbers of guys that would love to service you
 
Personally, I’d rather be giving than receiving. I think it’s because it’s a nice change from being a dominant man at work and in my life. Just need that submissive time....
 
Personally, I’d rather be giving than receiving. I think it’s because it’s a nice change from being a dominant man at work and in my life. Just need that submissive time....

I hear you. It's just nice to be able to be the sub. It's like being on vacation.
 
I used to have the urge to receive but not to give. Now, I want to give all the time. Still willing to receive but leaning much more top now.
 
Dream

I'm all about giving, but it's the fantasizing of receiving that gets me hard and wild.
 
Total receiver here in San Antonio. Love to suck and get fucked. I expect nothing in return other than your cum!
 
When I was new to m/m sex I got offered blow jobs a lot, no reciprocation expected. And I would take a blow job almost anytime from anyone. Once I learned to enjoy giving head it was usually mutual, often 69'ing. I enjoy giving head, whether I get sucked off or not. Now what I enjoy most is getting naked in bed, no limits, both of us wanting to blow a load or two, and swallow some cum too. No limits; kissing and fucking each other in turns.

I've never had man sex but one thing I know, I'm sure I would like to try with right man. Do what feels good.
 
Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?

Who is "giving" and who is "receiving" is a little bit in the eye of the beholder (see, I did not go for the obvious bad joke there. You're welcome.). There are plenty of guys who would be very happy to blow you with no reciprocation.
 
I think of the giver as the active partner and the receiver as the passive partner. Or to think of it another way, who is giving the cum and who is receiving the cum. My girlfriend always gives me the cum and I am happy to receive it as a precious gift in one of my holes. So we are both happy.
 
Who is "giving" and who is "receiving" is a little bit in the eye of the beholder (see, I did not go for the obvious bad joke there. You're welcome.). There are plenty of guys who would be very happy to blow you with no reciprocation.

You nailed it Blueser. The whole 'receive' or 'give' notion is in the mind of the participants. No matter which side of the cock you are on, there is someone available to supply what you are looking for. A lot of us older guys with some degree of E.D. are more likely to participate without reciprocation. Not always, but more likely.
 
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