Any Girls Here Interested in Talking About Their Reactions to Pain?

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I'm a submissive. Always had a submissive quality, and was trained as a slave 5 years ago. I'd be interested in hearing from girls about their sexual reactions to pain and discipline. For instance, I cum from being spanked. Is that the norm for all of you?
 
My wife has cum many times via a spirited pussy spanking, and once from some rather severe breast and nipple torment. Not that you asked, but my wife has made me cum many, many times simply by manipulating and squeezing my balls.
 
Pain alone does not make me come. However, if I am attempting to come-- I need some pain along with direct genital stimulation. Pussy spanking, yes-- ass spanking... not...quite.
 
Yeah I don't react sexually. Feels great, and I love it, but it's not really a sexual thing. If the act represents something mentally stimulating, then yeah, it could turn into a pseudo-sexual thing, but it's complicated and being a masochist isn't always about sexual stimulation. Mmm endorphins.
 
Meh. Used to be into it, but it loses its gloss more every year. Inflicting it on others never gets old.
 
Pain isn't the be-all/end-all for me...I'm rather fond of all of my nerve endings, be they pleasure or pain...but at the right time pain will tip me over much faster.

In some settings, pain is what I take FOR him, because he wants it (so I want it too). It's more of a sense of accomplishment than a direct line to my "ooh yeah" squishy parts. BUT, curiously enough, that can give a nudge to those same squishy parts to get with the program.

It's all good. :D
 
Pain doesn't get me off by itself, but it does help me get there. If I'm almost there, a spot of pain can push me over the edge, and often (but not always) the climax is more intense.

Mostly pinches, clamps, and slaps on sensitive areas like my nips and clit.

It has to be self-administered, though. Like I'm challenging myself to try it, and the pain is my reward.
 
For me, it depends on the manner the pain is inflicted.

If I'm getting my pussy or ass spanked, then yes, it's delicious and I respond splendidly to it.

If my pussy's hurting because I'm not used to his girth, eh, not so much.

Although last night, I figured if I focus on the pleasure instead, I can orgasm. So would those be "pain-gasms"? xD Pretty sure I saw stars.
 
I was rather surprised to learn howbi reacted to it. I tend to crave it although my question becomes do I crave it because of my relationship with who is giving it or would I crave it even with someone else?
 
I have mentioned this before, and I know it sounds kind of odd, but I taste pain. Yes, just like I taste food or drink. It is the exact same sensation to me, even though the signals don't feed from my mouth or my nose. Because of this, I am only in to short, light bursts of pain. Anything beyond that gets too... Hmmm, how to explain. Even if you like chocolate cake, you wouldn't want to chew a bite of it for 30 minutes. Well, most people wouldn't. So, to the OP, my reaction to pain is that I find some of it delicious, some distasteful, some too scary to try, some a staple to live on, etc. And yes, the correct pain will contribute to my orgasms, or even trigger them. (Pussy spanking... Yummmmmm... :heart: :cattail:) I think a varied diet is best :D
 
Pain helps topple me over the edge of an orgasm, but I haven't been so lucky as to actually orgasm strictly from pain. It's the best way to get me there though ;)
 
I have mentioned this before, and I know it sounds kind of odd, but I taste pain. Yes, just like I taste food or drink. It is the exact same sensation to me, even though the signals don't feed from my mouth or my nose. Because of this, I am only in to short, light bursts of pain. Anything beyond that gets too... Hmmm, how to explain. Even if you like chocolate cake, you wouldn't want to chew a bite of it for 30 minutes. Well, most people wouldn't. So, to the OP, my reaction to pain is that I find some of it delicious, some distasteful, some too scary to try, some a staple to live on, etc. And yes, the correct pain will contribute to my orgasms, or even trigger them. (Pussy spanking... Yummmmmm... :heart: :cattail:) I think a varied diet is best :D

Huh. Interesting.

I get a sweet/sour taste, vaguely like tequila, in the middle of my tongue. It only occurs with a, hmm, specific amount of pain? Haven't noticed any variation of flavor or pain type, but until reading above I hadn't really clicked as to what was going on.

Will pay attention and monitor developments. :)
 
synesthesia!

Of course I think that is totally cool. I can't say I've ever noticed it in myself... I'll have to ask around.

Tasting pain is interesting! I see many physical sensations as flashes of colors. Well I don't know if "see" is the correct word in this case, but it's the best I can come up with.

Stingy pain is vibrant, almost neon green. Thuddy pain is mustard-y. Unexpected pain like stubbing a toe is really pale yellow or white. The good kind of orgasm used to be bright blue, but it's changed into a more navy shade in the past year or so for some reason. The bad, too strong kind of orgasm is magenta. Cold is burgundy, hot is orange etc.
 
Tasting pain is interesting! I see many physical sensations as flashes of colors. Well I don't know if "see" is the correct word in this case, but it's the best I can come up with.

Stingy pain is vibrant, almost neon green. Thuddy pain is mustard-y. Unexpected pain like stubbing a toe is really pale yellow or white. The good kind of orgasm used to be bright blue, but it's changed into a more navy shade in the past year or so for some reason. The bad, too strong kind of orgasm is magenta. Cold is burgundy, hot is orange etc.

Early astronauts used to talk, offline, saying they were seeing "flashes of colors" but nobody knew what was going on, since cameras didn't record anything, so it was simply chalked off to "unknown phenomena".

What they found out years later was that those astronauts were sent up in, basically, aluminum cans, which offers no protection from solar radiation. The radiation would hit the aluminum and being what it is, the aluminum atoms would fracture and split, sending electrons all over the place. Thus, impacting with the astronauts nervous system and making them see flashes of light.

So, in other words, what you say makes perfect sense to me.
 
Thee are two types of pain for me. The one that hurts, and causes me to suck my breath in and take it and the one that feels like torment. For example a swipe with the crop can sometimes make me feel like I will throw up (that's a endurance pain) or the torturous feel of the hitachi wand on the clit at high speed. The latter hurts in a very sensitive way, and for this type of torture I have to be held or tied down because my natural instinct is to pull away. This is when I cum without any choice, through pain.
 
It's a time and place thing

It's all about mood, for me. If I am aroused and my partner understands what is going on, and the preparatio is right... then I can really get off on pain :cattail:
 
I have more intense orgasms that are pain only.

Cane across my breasts or bottom
Nipple and/or breast pulling, twisting, squeezing.

I can't do that with all pain, it depends on what pain and why - if they are doing it just because they know I like it and it does very little for them, then I would rather have a cup of tea and get some enjoyment that way. I need that mental headspace of knowing they really want to do that.

I definitely prefer pain orgasms to sex orgasms, they hit me mentally in a different way
 
Nipple clamps, caning, pulling, biting or internal electros both manage to do it for me any other pain and I just cry like a baby within 5 minutes and switch off totally.
 
Nipple clamps, caning, pulling, biting or internal electros both manage to do it for me any other pain and I just cry like a baby within 5 minutes and switch off totally.

I agree, the wrong type of pain and it is like a switch has been flicked. After that, nothing happens it is an endurance test until it is over and little more
 
Pain isn't the be-all/end-all for me...I'm rather fond of all of my nerve endings, be they pleasure or pain...but at the right time pain will tip me over much faster.

In some settings, pain is what I take FOR him, because he wants it (so I want it too). It's more of a sense of accomplishment than a direct line to my "ooh yeah" squishy parts. BUT, curiously enough, that can give a nudge to those same squishy parts to get with the program.

It's all good. :D
With me too i get to want it from his wanting it mostly. it also has to do with the power of it. the power is more my trigger than the pain itself,though sometimes it's hard to draw a line between them. And pain is also for me something that pushes me over the edge for an intense orgasm.
 
Yes, this is an old thread, but I chance upon it and am interested.
A bit of pain along with stimulation is kicks it up a notch.

Taste associated with pain? I’ve never experienced.
 
Oooh

My wife has cum many times via a spirited pussy spanking, and once from some rather severe breast and nipple torment. Not that you asked, but my wife has made me cum many, many times simply by manipulating and squeezing my balls.


Oh lucky her! Sounds sublime
 
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