any couples curious about sharing,etc..but to scared or stuck on how to go about this

[JohnnyFun]

love to hear from you,and love to know if there was any success or regrets by your decisions..or if most are like me wondering how to approach this issue or keep it as a sad fantasy...sighs...lol..plz no fiction stories..like to hear real stories...smiles...ty

 

[Guttergoddess]

BF and I have shared...we've brought in single guys, and single girls..and a group of guys....

Each experience was unique, like the individuals we chose. I think you have to know what you're looking for before you just invite anyone in. You also have to be secure in your relationship. You need to decide if you're looking for basically one night stands...or someone you can bring in on an occassional..or regular basis. What are your limits? (For BF and I, anal is only between us) Set the rules, and stick to them.

 

[JohnnyFun]

nice to hear a happy story

its quite refreshing to hear a happy union of two people,fulfilling there fantasies..in a safe and loving way..as long as know one gets hurt by this ..ty for sharing your experince and valuable advice in this matter,love the part about setting ground rules and sticking by them...how true and very wise..hope i can be so lucky in this endeaver...smiles.bye

 

[JohnnyFun]

went barhopping lastnight

we went to a few nightclubs lastnight,had fun.we drank alot and man did it loosen her inhibitions alot she was dancing very sexy and alot of eyes were on her.. she was very aware of this and i think she even loosened a few buttons on her blouse during the night..can't say for sure after all i was seeing doubles...lmaol but i can say one thing when we got home that night,she was extremely hot and horny...we made love for hours...she was insatiable...maybe going to the bars more often is the KEY???...LOL

 

[SteveNJen]

first time is the hardest

Great thread!

Gutter Goddess, Mad props on your posts, birthday party, and your great relationship. I have a very long-winded anecdote relating to this thread:

I met my girlfriend ten months ago and that very night she asked if I would consider making our soon-to-be private party a MFM marathon with the mutual close friend that accidentally caused us to be in the same bar and meet. I didn't know if it was a one night stand or something more. I initially agreed, because she was hot, and admitted she was into girls and I figured it would swing back my way (FMF) very soon if it was meant to be. She had the time of her life. All night, and into the morning.

We are very honest and open, and I have given her my blessings to have some real wild sexual times without me (FF, FMF) especially since we live over an hour apart and she deserves it. But now I sometimes find myself pushing too hard for my turn at bat and it annoys her. She picks a girl, sets my expectations, and then it falls through for whatever dumb reason out of my control, but not always hers. The 'elusive' threesome is such a touchy subject because every relationship is built on trust and respect and sometimes when the door is swung open too wide one way, it can harbor jealousy and dissapointment.

Any insight on this subject is welcomed. Especially from a female point of view. The few friends I have say she is dangling the carrot, or jerking me around. I don't think that's the case, but at the same time we make sure we see each other every week, and neither of us are unattractive. I know if she wanted to return the favor bad enough, it would have happened months ago.

So if anyone has any insight besides the usual 'dump her', or 'stop wasting your time thinking about it'. let me know. And if you are in a similar situation, try to make that person's fantasies come true. Telling them "I just wanted you for myself last night" only makes it harder to wait. Sooner or later, even if they are only in love with you, the dissapointment will permiate and destroy what you have fought so hard to achieve.

That's my first post on this site. I wish you all well in making your dreams and fantasy's come true. SOON!

 

[Guttergoddess]

make it a 4some...then we all get someone to play with!

 

[SteveNJen]

Goddess;

If Jen is diggin' your man, and vice versa, then that's a very nice plan. But I know first hand she would like to give and receive alot of attention from you!

I also sent you a private message. Hope to hear back.