Anal fingering..

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Id like my boyfriend to finger me anally but am firstly unsure how to approach the subject and secondly unsure how I will react to having his finger inserted inside me. Any advice please?
 
I once read a paperback sex novel in which the heroine, during sex, whispered in her lover's ear, "Play inside my ass, baby."

For some reason, the vision that evoked really turned me on. I've just been hoping for someone to say that to me ever since. Maybe it'd work for you and your guy.

If you're too shy for words, though, well then the next time he has his hands on your bottom, moving in and out of ya with passion, his fingers will likely be in the valley between your cheeks, all slippery.

With a little strategic squirming of your bottom, you should be able to bring your anus and his finger into contact; then push back hard to let him know you like that. If he once gets the idea that that makes you hotter, well ... maybe he'll follow your lead and you'll both have a great time.

I sure as heck would.
 
yeah, if he gets kina close I just moan and he usually gets the idea... but I want him to WANT to do it as well. He may take it as I want anal sex, but am worried about the pain.. any help?
 
Okay, I need to start off w/ a question first. Have you ever had any type of anal play done to you? (Be it from a b/f or from yourself, etc.) If so, did you enjoy it? I think you're jumping way ahead of yourself there about worrying about anal sex. Slow down! :) Do you two ever watch pornos together or visit adult bookstores? If so, find material that has anal sex/play in it. Most often when a couple is looking at porn together it'll get them both hot. During the anal scenes find out what his reaction is. Does he seem turned off? Turned on? :) Maybe hint that you've "always" wondered what it felt like to have a finger (or small toy) in there. Some men like it when a woman is willing to try new things. Good luck! If you have more questions just ask! :)

~Tiggs~
:D
 
I have only anally stimulated myself, never had it done. He knows I enjoy it, but I think he thinks I want to go straight for the kill with anal penetration. How can I coax him into just inserting a finger?
 
How about saying "Would you like to finger my ass?". That way, if he would like to he will, and if he doesn't he'll say I'd rather not. Then you can sort out where to go.

MADDOG
 
Watch "Last Tango In Paris" while eating a baked potato with lots and lots of butter. Every now and then say things like, "Isn't Brando sexy?" and "THAT looks interesting."
 
My suggestion would be to visit a bookstore and buy a "sex book" together. One complete with pictures and all sorts of steamy ideas. Look at this together as a form of foreplay. Ask him if anything appeals to him, and I am sure in return he will ask if anything appeals to you. Perhaps point out the anal section and mention that you arent sure about heading straight for anal penetration. Perhaps he could try a finger or a small toy first. If he is like most men he will drag you to the bedroom!

Good Luck~
~Southern~
 
Did you ever consider doing it to him first? That's one way to show interest. If he likes it you could ask him to return the favor.
 
I would suggest getting him to watch you masterbate and while your fingering yourself slide a finger in your ass and tell him how wonderful it feels, then ask him to take over. I know myself and most other guys enjoy watching a women masterbate and I'm sure he will to. After that maybe you could try the same on him while giving him a Blow Job I know the first time my wife did that to me I blew like a gusher. Most of all relax and have fun.
 
How about showing up with some new toys? Go out and get an anal starter set of sorts.
Get some butt plugs 3 sizes small, medium, and large go get some beads , dildo's . Hell if the see's the set of but plugs you can start with the small one and then maybe a finger and if you feel up to it then move to a larger one and so on.
Anal done best is a slow thing ,letting your body work up to anal. Let your body relax and you will enjoy it so much more.
This has worked for us in the past, the wife and I love anal now.

Go for it, buy a set of plugs!!!!
 
And, Me888, if your boyfriend's anything like Wiz and me, you may also need to get some StayHard cream for him to keep him from blasting off way too soon at the sight of his lady all plugged up!! Some things just are big turn-ons ... (Guys often think: "Man, I'd like to make her air-tight!) ;)
 
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