An Exhibitionist

[angelsrose]

When I was in a realtionship with a man a few years ago, I had no problem with masterbating in front of him, nor him I. It was fun, it turned us both on and we sorta bonded over the whole thing. However I have not masterbated in fron t of my last 2 partners, because it just didnt feel right, or comfortable. Each person that I have dated is distinctly different sexually and many do not understand what my ideas are sexually, nor do they quite grasp my submissive nature. And that is ok. It just measn that we play differently and sex is more vanilla then not. Although something always seems to be missing. Its also about trust for me, to trust another watching me be so intamite with myself is totally amazing.
And also I love being an exhibitionist. I will masterbate anywhere really, just to enjoy myself. Its fun.
the last place i did it was on an airplane...

 

[cfnmparty]

When I was in a realtionship with a man a few years ago, I had no problem with masterbating in front of him, nor him I. It was fun, it turned us both on and we sorta bonded over the whole thing. However I have not masterbated in fron t of my last 2 partners, because it just didnt feel right, or comfortable. Each person that I have dated is distinctly different sexually and many do not understand what my ideas are sexually, nor do they quite grasp my submissive nature. And that is ok. It just measn that we play differently and sex is more vanilla then not. Although something always seems to be missing. Its also about trust for me, to trust another watching me be so intamite with myself is totally amazing.
And also I love being an exhibitionist. I will masterbate anywhere really, just to enjoy myself. Its fun.
the last place i did it was on an airplane...

I fully understand all you said. I used to have a GF who would bring me the bottle of baby oil and say "I want to watch" any old time of day. She was totally turned on and amazed by watching me jack off. Other GF's I've had like it in the heat of a sex session only, and some have not been into it at all.

I am a total exhibitionist too, but shy at heart as I suspect you are. I am reserved about it around friends, but around strangers I'll go nude, wear a thong, jack off, or anything.

 

[sharpchick]

Watching a man stroke himself is incredibly hot. Even better is when he cums all over my clit and pussy as I'm masturbating with him - gets me off every time. . .

 

[cfnmparty]

Watching a man stroke himself is incredibly hot. Even better is when he cums all over my clit and pussy as I'm masturbating with him - gets me off every time. . .

Oh, you are my kind of woman!

 

[LadyJeanne]

I guess I don't see masturbating for your lover as either exhibitionist or voyeur...to me, that's just sex play between a couple.

Exhibitionist and voyeur, in my mind, involves people who aren't in a relationship.

*shrug*

Just my definition of the labels.

 

[cfnmparty]

I guess I don't see masturbating for your lover as either exhibitionist or voyeur...to me, that's just sex play between a couple.

Exhibitionist and voyeur, in my mind, involves people who aren't in a relationship.

*shrug*

Just my definition of the labels.

Thanks. I agree....I'm talking about masturbating for strangers. Do you like to see or be seen? What are you favorite exhibitionist/voyeuristic things?

i'm not just into masturbating for a woman. I like all kinds of exhibitionist situations. I have a lot of good stories (see my AV for example....) but I'd love for someone to share a good Ex/Voy experience with us!

Everyone interested in the topic of this thread must read this. I recommend visiting this group if you can.

http://www.clubrelate.net/

"If you are over 21 and would like to become involved with new people that share and live an alternate lifestyle but don't know how..... maybe we can help? We think we have a lot to offer folks who are interested in MASTURBATION, EXHIBITIONISM, and VOYEURISM!"


http://www.masturbationpage.com/clubrelate.html

 

[jase_conner]

Great topic, I don't have time to write much just wanted to say I love the thought of CFNM.

 

[cfnmparty]

Great topic, I don't have time to write much just wanted to say I love the thought of CFNM.

Come back when you have more time. Let's get some discussion going.

Does anyone else here have a minor obsession with this like me? It's like a second life where I'm always looking for ways to get into exhibitionist situations. I would love to hear male and female points of view on this. It's much easier I think for women to live out tis fantasy without repercussions...

 

[francypants]

I don't know if this counts ...

... but when I'm in a relationship, I love holding my BF's cock while he pees. It's more of a fun thing than a masturbating thing, though ... I'll come running from wherever I am if I hear him go into the bathroom. I guess it's just that it's such a cool toy I never got to play with growing up ... so I like to hold his and learn all his little tricks ... like how he aims and how he shakes off. I make him show me.

I am not into golden showers or any kind of pee pee play ... just steering it while it spews!

Francy

 

[cfnmparty]

... but when I'm in a relationship, I love holding my BF's cock while he pees. It's more of a fun thing than a masturbating thing, though ... I'll come running from wherever I am if I hear him go into the bathroom. I guess it's just that it's such a cool toy I never got to play with growing up ... so I like to hold his and learn all his little tricks ... like how he aims and how he shakes off. I make him show me.

I am not into golden showers or any kind of pee pee play ... just steering it while it spews!

Francy

interesting...

 

[venus_can]

With my ex-bf, we used to masturbate for each other. Again like LadyJeanne says, I dont consider this exhibitionitic, just foreplay. It always turns me on watching my lover stroke himself.
Also like francy, I love holding my bf's cock while peeing.

Venus

 

[danmone]

I guess I don't see masturbating for your lover as either exhibitionist or voyeur...to me, that's just sex play between a couple.

I kinda agree with this but I think masturbating for your lover and being an exhibitionist are sort of like second cousins.


My wife and I had been going through a bit af a dry spell a few years back, so I decided to search for other methods of release. I stumbled upon Yahoo chat rooms. I lurked for a while until I found a great room with some pretty normal people. Lets just say my solo life took a huge turn for the better. After a while I found myself putting on shows for as many people that my webcam would allow. Women, men and couples were all watching me and inviting me to watch them. It was amazing. It was like a virtual orgy (at least in my mind). Plus I learned things from other people that would probably never have entered my mind. This went on for months. I was introduced to a completely new level of excitement. I wasn't hiding this from my wife, but I wasn't advertising it to her either.

I decided it was time to either get her involved or to at least come clean.
I was sort of feeling guilty about it but I didn't know how to tell her. So instead of just coming out and telling her I left some of my toys out for her to stumble upon. I came home from work the next night not sure of what her reaction would be. It had the potential for disaster. At first it was definitely pointing in the direction of disaster but I somehow turned it into one of defining moments in our marriage. I told her everything. It totally turned her on. We started to masturbate together every so often. We became a lot more open with each other in and out of the bedroom.

 

[venus_can]

I kinda agree with this but I think masturbating for your lover and being an exhibitionist are sort of like second cousins.


My wife and I had been going through a bit af a dry spell a few years back, so I decided to search for other methods of release. I stumbled upon Yahoo chat rooms. I lurked for a while until I found a great room with some pretty normal people. Lets just say my solo life took a huge turn for the better. After a while I found myself putting on shows for as many people that my webcam would allow. Women, men and couples were all watching me and inviting me to watch them. It was amazing. It was like a virtual orgy (at least in my mind). Plus I learned things from other people that would probably never have entered my mind. This went on for months. I was introduced to a completely new level of excitement. I wasn't hiding this from my wife, but I wasn't advertising it to her either.

I decided it was time to either get her involved or to at least come clean.
I was sort of feeling guilty about it but I didn't know how to tell her. So instead of just coming out and telling her I left some of my toys out for her to stumble upon. I came home from work the next night not sure of what her reaction would be. It had the potential for disaster. At first it was definitely pointing in the direction of disaster but I somehow turned it into one of defining moments in our marriage. I told her everything. It totally turned her on. We started to masturbate together every so often. We became a lot more open with each other in and out of the bedroom.

Great to hear that things worked out and you both have become very open with each other...

 

[cfnmparty]

I kinda agree with this but I think masturbating for your lover and being an exhibitionist are sort of like second cousins.


My wife and I had been going through a bit af a dry spell a few years back, so I decided to search for other methods of release. I stumbled upon Yahoo chat rooms. I lurked for a while until I found a great room with some pretty normal people. Lets just say my solo life took a huge turn for the better. After a while I found myself putting on shows for as many people that my webcam would allow. Women, men and couples were all watching me and inviting me to watch them. It was amazing. It was like a virtual orgy (at least in my mind). Plus I learned things from other people that would probably never have entered my mind. This went on for months. I was introduced to a completely new level of excitement. I wasn't hiding this from my wife, but I wasn't advertising it to her either.

I decided it was time to either get her involved or to at least come clean.
I was sort of feeling guilty about it but I didn't know how to tell her. So instead of just coming out and telling her I left some of my toys out for her to stumble upon. I came home from work the next night not sure of what her reaction would be. It had the potential for disaster. At first it was definitely pointing in the direction of disaster but I somehow turned it into one of defining moments in our marriage. I told her everything. It totally turned her on. We started to masturbate together every so often. We became a lot more open with each other in and out of the bedroom.

Have you and your wife participated in the "virtual orgy?"

 

[danmone]

Have you and your wife participated in the "virtual orgy?"

Not yet.

 

[Gaildarling]

Oooooh that's a really good idea. I would LOOOOVE to see someone masturbate while looking at pictures of me

A man once sent me a video clip of himself cumming all over my pictures. Which in turn made me masturbate like CRAZY!! Seemed like a virtual mutual masturbation!! Fun!

 

[jase_conner]

A man once sent me a video clip of him cumming all over my pictures. Which in turn made me masturbate like CRAZY!! Seemed like a virtual mutual masturbation!! Fun!

I'd love to be a man like that...

 

[Gaildarling]

I'd love to be a man like that...

Well you've seen my pics... time to make me a video!

 

[jase_conner]

Well you've seen my pics... time to make me a video!

Yes Ma'am! I'll have it for you tonight or tomorrow!

 

[Gaildarling]

Yes Ma'am! I'll have it for you tonight or tomorrow!

OH yummy, yummy, yummy!!
*jumping up and down, smiling ear to ear*
I can't wait!!!!

 

[cfnmparty]

What about jacking off to you in person, not just your pics.

 

[jase_conner]

What about jacking off to you in person, not just your pics.

I wish she would allow me that, but distance is a difficult thing to conquer.