storm1969 said:OK Vix, here goes:
Thinking as a lesbian, what would it take for you to hit on me? Or to not rebuff my hitting on you?
respect and courtesy, or a great sense of humour.
One of my best friends is gay, and he has a grand old time hitting on women, and he loves being hit on. But it's just in fun (and you KNOW he's gay when you meet him, so it's a mutual thing). I was actually one of the only girls to ever let him slip past my gaydar when we met (I hadn't developed the gaydar yet) and I had the BIGGEST crush on him.... now, I'm much like him.. I love to flirt with either gender, and were I ever to be a lesbian, I wouldn't be a man-hating one... I'd just not be interested in the sex. Personalities are awesome, and a great way to get to know someone is to flirt.