I dont know if this is posted in the right area of not, so I apologise if its in the wrong place.
I'm curious and really hope I dont offend anyone by asking this.... but how old are people?
The reason i ask is a lot of people on this site (or in BDSM generally that I've read comments by) seem to have children, that in some cases seem quite old/ grown up. Also many people seem to have been married or in previous long term relationships.... so... I was wondering....
If people know that they have kinks when they are young (when they are children, I think this was mentioned on a previous thread) how come it can take so long (or not maybe if people are younger than I think) to 'come out' (for want of a better phrase) or accept that their kinks are acceptable (which was the case for me about 4 years ago).
For example: I'm 28 (today actually! Yeay!) and knew that I liked 'being tied up' when I was small. But it wasnt till 4/5 years ago that i began to realise it was 'acceptable'.
Have other people experienced this? Or taken years to become aware? Or introduced to it?
Hmm... sorry this has turned into a bit of a ramble!
I'm curious and really hope I dont offend anyone by asking this.... but how old are people?
The reason i ask is a lot of people on this site (or in BDSM generally that I've read comments by) seem to have children, that in some cases seem quite old/ grown up. Also many people seem to have been married or in previous long term relationships.... so... I was wondering....
If people know that they have kinks when they are young (when they are children, I think this was mentioned on a previous thread) how come it can take so long (or not maybe if people are younger than I think) to 'come out' (for want of a better phrase) or accept that their kinks are acceptable (which was the case for me about 4 years ago).
For example: I'm 28 (today actually! Yeay!) and knew that I liked 'being tied up' when I was small. But it wasnt till 4/5 years ago that i began to realise it was 'acceptable'.
Have other people experienced this? Or taken years to become aware? Or introduced to it?
Hmm... sorry this has turned into a bit of a ramble!