Affairs

[bigleonardo]

This could be a sticky subject, since there are some hub and wifes here and significant others

But how many people on here , after married or making a pledge to a significant other have had an affair......

I did......

Will tell more later when I hope to get some answers

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

This could be a sticky subject, since there are some hub and wifes here and significant others

But how many people on here , after married or making a pledge to a significant other have had an affair......

I did......

Will tell more later when I hope to get some answers

To make all the cuckolds sick 23 years and never for me

 

[tendril]

This could be a sticky subject, since there are some hub and wifes here and significant others

But how many people on here , after married or making a pledge to a significant other have had an affair......

I did......

Will tell more later when I hope to get some answers

Well no I havent had an affair. But having said that my husband knows I'd like a few more sexuall partners, but thats more swinging I guess ?

 

[jfb4548]

Re: Re: Affairs

Well no I havent had an affair. But having said that my husband knows I'd like a few more sexuall partners, but thats more swinging I guess ?

Yea Tendril! Call it swinging or affairing it is what it is. Make love not war thats what matters!

 

[bigleonardo]

Re: Re: Affairs

Well no I havent had an affair. But having said that my husband knows I'd like a few more sexuall partners, but thats more swinging I guess ?

Swinging is when both parties do it...at least my interpretation.

So u have never had another man cept for your husband?

But you would like to.....Go for it.....

 

[Ladybird]

Re: Re: Re: Affairs

Swinging is when both parties do it...at least my interpretation.

Swinging is consentual, and affair is not.

One is open and honest, the other isn't.

In my 30yr marriage I was completely faithfull, I don't 'do' deceit very well.

 

[tendril]

Re: Re: Re: Affairs

Swinging is when both parties do it...at least my interpretation.

So u have never had another man cept for your husband?

But you would like to.....Go for it.....

Oh I intend to 'go for it' but it also goes without saying my husband would know about it and agree to it........he's not averse to the idea of an occassional 'swing' himself

 

[bigleonardo]

Re: Re: Affairs

Well no I havent had an affair. But having said that my husband knows I'd like a few more sexuall partners, but thats more swinging I guess ?

Yes it would be called swinging, would you want him to attend and have his own partners....there is so much to the world of swinging.. watching, being watched , joining.....

So maybe my post should have been any extra curricular activities.

An affair is totally going outside the marriage, swinging is normally within the marriage with both.s approval....



In any case....I love varied sexual partners..either way

big L

 

[bigleonardo]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Affairs

Swinging is consentual, and affair is not.

One is open and honest, the other isn't.

In my 30yr marriage I was completely faithfull, I don't 'do' deceit very well.

So since you believe and i do also that swinging is open and honest, have you weren't ok, this is

 

[sluttymama]

Affair

Yes I have had an affair, but my marriage is inches away from being relinquished my hubby probably wouldn't care. At least I'm happy and not so sexually frustrated.

 

[mjp351]

I have had an affair too. My marriage is over and I am just waiting to get finances together to pay for the divorce. I plan to leave her by the fall of this year. Mine is due to us not being sexually compatible and also intellectually different too. I am planning to get my masters and she has no interest to go father in her education. I have heard more excuses for not wanting sex to last a lifetime from her.