advice from the ladies needed

[christophe]

Ladies of Lit was just pondering a question...

If your mate, spouse or SO was to do something romantic or sexy on the spur of the moment , what would it be....what would get you umm...flustered and left wanting more'

 

[lilminx]

Are you talking about in terms of inside or outside the bedroom?

 

[christophe]

Are you talking about in terms of inside or outside the bedroom?

Ladies choice...one or both

 

[bluntforcemama]

Well.....

Juspar and I were visiting Jodessa at work, and when she had to lock up she had to turn the alarm on, which meant that we couldn't move for about 30 seconds while she armed it. So Juspar moved in really close while Jodessa was in the back and suckled my neck and kept my hips against his until the alarm was set. That was pretty unexpected. I suppose it's the little intimate things that really make me swoon. So what would make me frustrated to the point where I'd drag him into the bedroom, or nearest available private place so that I can ravish him? I'll have to get back to you on that. He's doing something right now.

 

[lovetoread]

Two things that would get to me..

One,if he came up to me and whispered things in my ear,and kept on going.

The other is if you find a suggestive note,email,or letter and he isnt around.

 

[lilminx]

Ladies of Lit was just pondering a question...

If your mate, spouse or SO was to do something romantic or sexy on the spur of the moment , what would it be....what would get you umm...flustered and left wanting more'

Romantic- I would love it if a guy actually ever got me flowers that I really liked- roses are beautiful, but they're not my favorite. Getting me my favorite flowers shows that he's thoughtful and that's ALWAYS a turnon for me.

Sexy- ooh, teasing is always sexy- at dinner, whispering dirty things to me, him slipping a hand under the table, and if I'm wearing a skirt, well, just use your imagination...

 

[Savage Kitten]

If your mate, spouse or SO was to do something romantic or sexy on the spur of the moment ,

If he was to pick me up from work unexpectantly, with a change of clothes, and an evening out on the town planned, I would be so totally impressed. Suprises like that are really nice.

 

[christophe]

Thank you LTR, whispering in the ear is definitley nice, especially when its something you were not expecting...say in a crowded room...or when your just waking up.......

 

[Elizabeth]

Coming up behind me...hands on my hips...slowly grinding against me...yep, that will do it.

 

[christophe]

It would seem I have much to ponder this evening....thanks ladies for your thoughts

 

[AStormyOne]

What gets me all hot and bothered

is anticipation. To wake up, and he whisper something in my ear.. a compliment, a phrase of love, maybe something a little dirty (though I don't care for anything REALLY dirty myself.. it just doesn't do anything for me). Then during the day, he passes me looks that tell me just what he has planned for later, touches me for no reason. Light carresses that raise goosebumps on my arms. Maybe finding a note he wrote me at an unexpected place. It's the anticipation of things to come, and the thoughtfulness of my lover.... it just does WONDERFUL things to me.

Storm

 

[sexy-girl]

being woken up in bed in the morning (in a very beautiful and romantic way) and being told that i was being whisked away to paris for the weekend

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Buying me flowers or clothes in my fav colours. It then shows he was thinking of buying for me and not just buying "some" flowers or a piece of clothing......

Also I love it when he stop while walking along a street and stops to pick a wild flower off the side grass.... to think he was thinking of me right then and thinking of how much I would like it.

As for sensual things.. I hope he knows me well enough to know what I like..... but I do enjoy when I'm cooking dinner at he just stands there telling me how sexy I am and what he wants to do to me later, not actually touching me then and there, but a build up and tease for later.....

 

[TigerClaw]

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[lovetoread]

Hunting.......

I hear a Tiger escaped from the Zoo Last Night and is making his way South.

Cant wait till you get here darlin.

 

[Cocoa]

Re: Re: advice from the ladies needed

Sexy- ooh, teasing is always sexy- at dinner, whispering dirty things to me, him slipping a hand under the table, and if I'm wearing a skirt, well, just use your imagination...

Yep! That would do it for me too, LOL.

I also like the romantic stuff, though - like all those small little acts of consideration that tell me he's thinking about me.

Oh yes, and occasionally jewelry works too.

 

[tigerjen]

Ladies of Lit was just pondering a question...
If your mate, spouse or SO was to do something
romantic or sexy on the spur of the moment ,
what would it be....what would get you umm...
flustered and left wanting more'

Oh my.....him giving me flowers, esp. red roses!
Maybe a little gift of real nice jewelry.......