About that prostrate...

[cymbidia]

About that prostate gland...

Women have a G-spot. Men have a prostate gland.

The function of this gland is to produce a fluid that helps create semen and to close the urine duct to allow for safe passage of sperm.

It's also a source of pretty intense pleasure for many men.

You know what it is? Where to find it? How to stimulate it? Or does the thought of putting your finger into his ass - or your own - to find and massage it just sorta leave you cold?

 

[bluntforcemama]

I can do it, I know where it is, I just have to find a man secure enough to let me do it for him.

 

[JenJ]

I know where it is as does my husband it excites him more when I press against his prostate gland. Stimulating it gives us both a lot of pleasure

 

[MysteryJKR]

hehe. i was reading that and i was thinking. hmm. i have some kinda glad and i can be having more pleasure? then i hit the last bits and noticed howd id have to go about doing so and im gonna have to pass. *shrugs* sowwy.

Im not to partial to anything like that. and being a virgin I dont wanna be trying out to many diff things on my own. lol.

 

[Guest]

Well,

My answer was:
I know where it is, how to stimulate it, etc.

My Man will not let me anywhere near His butt (and, I've been trying for a while now, lol...even subtly). So far, the closest I've been allowed to stimulating it has been while rubbing the gland along the ouotside of His body while going down on Him.

 

[lavender]

 

[Valdimer]

I just cant see myself with my finger up my ass, stimulant or not, tryin to get it on with a chick..............*sniffs finger* ewwwwwww

 

[lavender]

 

[Svedish_Chef]

I think you're missing out Valdi.

How about you other guys out there? Do you enjoy it? Or is that a no-go zone?

Never had a finger... just some deep dicking.

I'd say I enjoy THAT yes...

 

[His Whimsicality]

I can do it, I know where it is, I just have to find a man secure enough to let me do it for him.

I´d love to take you up on the offer Myst. Come here, sweetie

 

[notenufsx4me]

[WEG]

 

[Renegade]

How about you other guys out there? Do you enjoy it? Or is that a no-go zone?

Haven't done it yet, but am actualy interested in trying it sometime.

 

[Orlanth]

I am an open minded guy, so if my parneter wants to try it, then we will if not, then it is ok.

I have never tried, but am very willing to try it.

 

[cymbidia]

Good points, Lav.

I've been with men who'd never had thier prostate touched in a sexual manner before i came along. After we parted, our time together having run its course, they were wildly enthusiastic about the whole experience. It wasn't cuz i'm so great but because, honestly, when done correctly, this is something that gives men incredible pleasure.

Also, Vlad, any time anyone brings a dirty body to any kinda lovemaking, the pleasure is reduced for everyone, i think. That definitely includes a dirty butt since, like Lav, i don't consider any part of my body or my partner's off limits in any way for touching. Our anuses have an immense concentration of nerve endings in the outer couple of inches; why ignore that source of deep and wild pleasure?

Finally, the more we know about our own sexual responses, the more we know about what pleases us, gets us hot, and gets us off, the better a lover we can be with our partner. For men, especially (because women seem to know this almost instinctually), there's more than one way to get the job done, sexually speaking.


Women who want to try this:
1. Talk to him a little bit about ass play in advance, just so you know if he's *totally* opposed to it.
2. I've found the best way to begin this kinda thing is while your sucking him off.
3. Play around on the outside of his anus first, just to get him used to the sensations - and they're more intense than many men realize. (If he's homophobic at all [~yawn~ what a boring waste of time homophobia is, hmmm?] THIS is when it'll show up, After all, nice boys aren't supposed to like anything feeling good while it pokes into his ass, right? Only queers like that kinda crap.)
4. After he's used to your finger playing round the outside of his ass, LUBE IT UP A LITTLE and insert it very gently, just a little bit, inside. All this is while you're sucking him, remember. (If he's pretty much an anal virgin, he may freak out on you if you don't use some kinda lube. Your spit works and you ought to have a bunch of that from sucking him off. Also, my personal favorite, dip your finger down between your own legs and get some of that slippery stuff - but DON'T do this if your finger has already been playing around his ass - too many germs then, and you don't want those in your vagina.)
5. After he's used to the feeling of a little bit of your finger, you can begin a deeper massage. If you find and rub his prostrate while he's orgasming, the top of his head will blow off and he'll follow you around slavishly forever begging for more.

Guys, seriously, you're missing out if you pass on this kinda play.

 

[lavender]

 

[Barb Dwyer]

cym, I agree with you and lavender whole-heartedly! And most enthusiastically. Our entire body is an erogenous zone to be attended to. I see no shame or embarrassment in the human body or the exploration thereof.

If you communicate either verbally (I almost said orally!) or through gestures and take your time, most men will come to appreciate your efforts to please them in this way. I, too, have been told (and shown) that this is a most welcome addition to sexual relations.

And a loving lick or kiss or even penetration with a warm, wet tongue can do wonders to both soothe a man's fears and stimulate his appetite.

 

[lilfrk]

I know where it is. I know how to find it. And YES! He likes it.

 

[beckbabe]

*blushing* coolness, I needed to learn something new today! Now if I can only figure out how to master that darn cock ring...

 

[bluntforcemama]

Oh my goodness.... I'm getting aroused. Sheesh.... I need to get something or someone to get all this sexual energy out of me.

 

[SpectreT]

I've had my (now long since ex-) girlfriend's fingers and even her vibe back there, and nearly passed out during her little "prostate massage". It was very wild! To other straight guys on the board: Be secure! Be strong! And let her try it if she wants to! You'll thank her for it (with or without her telling you to )

 

[cymbidia]

*blushing* coolness, I needed to learn something new today! Now if I can only figure out how to master that darn cock ring...

The key is to put it on before he's fully aroused, babes.

 

[beckbabe]

He he, I kinda figured that , but I bought one , and never used it. It's kind of intimidating me...when do you take it off, was more what I was wondering. This is cool, thanks woman

 

[scylis]

i love my prostate!

though i rarely stimulate it.. cum too damn fast when i do.. no time to enjoy, though it feels damn good for that short burst of time

 

[Guru]

 

[beckbabe]

I'm printing the directions so I don't mess up...