about Masochism

[Sea_Angel]

hi every body, ok i'm new here but i need all your help,i have start a relation with a new girl and i discover that she is a Masochistic or she like sex like that so i have to gave her what she wants regarding to what i know about this you know spanking on her ass during fuck and grap her hair and aggressive kisses but ok she is happy like that but i feel that she needs more but we didn't speak about this so i need to do more than this but i don't know enough about this so what you advice me to do ???
thanks in advance for your help

 

[CutieMouse]

hi every body, ok i'm new here but i need all your help,i have start a relation with a new girl and i discover that she is a Masochistic or she like sex like that so i have to gave her what she wants regarding to what i know about this you know spanking on her ass during fuck and grap her hair and aggressive kisses but ok she is happy like that but i feel that she needs more but we didn't speak about this so i need to do more than this but i don't know enough about this so what you advice me to do ???
thanks in advance for your help

Well... not all masochists are wired the same. Some people are masochistic in that they like their hair pulled during sex (and have no desire to go any further), and some are wired in such a way, that unless there is (responsible) knifeplay and bloodletting, they won't be happy.

You two *need* to discuss her secual desires, as well as your sexual desires, and figure out if they are compatable. Just because she is masochistic, does not mean you have to cause her pain. You both have a right to limits and boundaries, here. The only way to really know what you both want, is to talk about it. After you've had a good honest discussion on the subject, deal with how to go about riding the pain/pleasure roller coaster.

 

[Sea_Angel]

Well... not all masochists are wired the same. Some people are masochistic in that they like their hair pulled during sex (and have no desire to go any further), and some are wired in such a way, that unless there is (responsible) knifeplay and bloodletting, they won't be happy.

You two *need* to discuss her secual desires, as well as your sexual desires, and figure out if they are compatable. Just because she is masochistic, does not mean you have to cause her pain. You both have a right to limits and boundaries, here. The only way to really know what you both want, is to talk about it. After you've had a good honest discussion on the subject, deal with how to go about riding the pain/pleasure roller coaster.

thank you i think you are 100% right