The_gladiator
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45 minutes of the same thing in a row seems excessive to me. I like to take my time but still. If she's going down on me I can garentee you I will not be lasting any 45 minutes, haha.
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I don't disagree. I have completely lost track of time before.
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For me, when my orgasm means something to someone else always makes it better than a sologasm. And when I've been worked up but havent had the chance to cum, that first or second one is... AMAZING. I do remember my best ever orgasm. It left me feeling high all day.
Great discussion folks!
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Ooh... the meaning of the orgasm. Hmm. That's an interesting point, and one I do feel. Now, I've yet to be intimate with anyone I didn't have an emotional connection with, so if I do then does that orgasm kind of mean less than when that connection is present? I expect so. But that's my most vulnerable moment - will sharing that with just another person make the emotionally-connected ones mean less? After that, what I'd share would be actually less special, right? Certainly you no longer have to be very meaningful to me for me to share that moment, as is the case right now. Or would it just feel like a different kind of thing, like getting off solo? I have no answer right now, but I'm curious.
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For me, almost the worst orgasm with a partner is better than almost all the solo ones. I personally have never had a truly intense orgasm without the involvement of someone else, even if that is text based on the internet, the payoff is so much better than just on my own. If I am getting off completely on my own without the help of another it’s pretty mechanical it serves a purpose, to help me sleep, or relax, it isn’t as much to enjoy. The enjoyment times come when someone else is involved. Even if I’m just reading a story someone wrote for me, the orgasm is more intense because of the connection for me.
I have had some pretty great experiences but cannot pinpoint my best orgasm off the top of my head. I remember firsts like the first blow job or first really good hand job that made me practically pass out afterward. I also remember a few weekends where I came multiple times a day, that was pretty intense.
So many good memories honestly.
I have had some pretty great experiences but cannot pinpoint my best orgasm off the top of my head. I remember firsts like the first blow job or first really good hand job that made me practically pass out afterward. I also remember a few weekends where I came multiple times a day, that was pretty intense.
So many good memories honestly.
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How do you determine if someone has good judgement? In life and on Lit.
How do you determine if someone has good judgement? In life and on Lit.
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I usually focus on things that are clearly destructive/self-destructive. If I see those traits, I'm out.
Otherwise, I try to avoid judging other peoples' judgments. My own judgment has certainly is questionable and flawed as fuck - so I try to remember that and realize that people are human...and thus inherently untrustworthy, myself included.
I don't have anything specific that I peg as "good" judgment...I just know bad when I see it, I guess.
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That's a very good point!
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This. Myself included.
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Yeah, I'm feeling this response as well, Fara sees within the depths of innermost thoughts really well and is inordinately insightful. Sometimes taking the feels out of the equation is a good way to find clarity.
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With hindsight.
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Truth...but sadly so.
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I don’t think I do. For the people I care about, both in life and on lit, it eventually shows itself. And I tend to think I have good gut instincts. They haven’t let me down often, at least. So if something seems off, j tend to trust that.
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I’m not going to wander into the RL good judgement stuff. Pretty sure it’s an endless list of circumstances and scenarios.
*Ok. Alright. Takes a deep breath.*
I have a pretty big who’s rocking a good judgement call here on Lit that straight up blows my mind. I won’t turn into a judgy cheeky bitch, I mean you made your bed now lay in it.
But I need answers.
Showing your face on a thread and your tits and bits in another thread. Or hell, maybe it’s on the same thread.
I really, truly and honestly don’t get the thought process in ones thinking that this is a smart decision. Why?!
Why is it that one trusts this little niche of the world wide web so much to chance nothing malice will come from this decision? The thrill, need for validation from strangers that toss a slew of sparkly adjectives your way like candy at a parade? Bathing you in the upmost sincere compliments as if they are the judge, jury and truth defining of who you are based on a 55K pic from your cellphone?
IMO I feel this is the biggest naïve lapse of judgement and red flags that tops WTF are you thinking here.
This all ^^^ is said with truth in failing to understand the rational behind it.
And perhaps in all honestly theres no answer that would make me smile and say “yeah, ok I get it.”
I’m the last person here to tell someone their Lit ways are right or wrong, to each their own. But to say when logic is misplaced, it’s disheartening to see.
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I try not to be a judgmental person, and I realize everyone has their own story and there are exceptions to every rule, but in general there are a few things that make me question a person's judgement. Like the people they choose to surround themselves with. "Those that lie with dogs come up with fleas" as they say. Also, if a person is below a certain age and smokes, or ESPECIALLY if they dip. They are both such nasty habits and the science has been out for so long on how addictive and bad for you they are, so why on earth would you start doing it to begin with? I'm not going to think you're a bad person, but I will question your judgement. Older generations can plead ignorance, but definitely not mine. Last but not least... if you are in the left lane but not passing traffic!!
On Lit it's harder to say. I definitely see people sharing details and posting things that I never would, but some people might not care about the risks of people looking them up or potentially saving and/or reposting the particular image without their permission like I would. I'm sure I've posted things that others wouldn't as well.
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My judgement is impeccable. It's not my fault life doesn't always live up to it.
[Actually, this is not true. I have done things here which have been buttock-clenchingly stupid.]
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I swear, this thread has made me vow to never post my face again. Which is tragic bc I feel cute today...
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Just send it to me
Send 'em that photo, Pulpy. You know the one.
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