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[Wild_Honey_66]

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[TheSilverLining]

11.06.19

Who feels like a sexy hump day question??

Wet spots.

Does seeing visible evidence of your partners arousal turn you on? Wet panties? Spotted boxers? Streaked sheets?
Do you prefer clean over messy? Is it fine if it happens but you dont seek it out or do you love the evidence?

Visible evidence? Fuck yes.
I love cum, but I really love pre-cum. On us both. On clothes, on sheets, on skin. That feeling when I’m fully dressed and outwardly presentable, but soaked through beneath it all.
I read something recently elsewhere that resonated with me, in which the OP described subconsciously recognising the scent of arousal. Not fully appreciating until afterwards exactly what it was that their body was reacting to. Something very primal.

As for visible evidence, seeing is believing; And it’s that undeniable, uncontrollable evidence of what I’m doing to him (or the reverse) that gets me. I’ll take the mess, thanks.

 

[AlpineFresco]

11.06.19

Who feels like a sexy hump day question??

Wet spots.

Does seeing visible evidence of your partners arousal turn you on? Wet panties? Spotted boxers? Streaked sheets?
Do you prefer clean over messy? Is it fine if it happens but you dont seek it out or do you love the evidence?

Oh god yes, I love evidence. Seeing wet panties after a play/teasing session? Hot as fuck.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.11.19

Friendship Stables

There's been a lot of talk about sexy stables lately but what about the idea of friendship stables? In Lit or life, do you feel like there are people whose goal is to know as many people as possible regardless of who they are, commonality, etc? Are you one of those people? What makes you hesitate before befriending someone? Has your experience on Lit made you think differently or more deeply about friendships?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

11.11.19

Friendship Stables

There's been a lot of talk about sexy stables lately but what about the idea of friendship stables? In Lit or life, do you feel like there are people whose goal is to know as many people as possible regardless of who they are, commonality, etc? Are you one of those people? What makes you hesitate before befriending someone? Has your experience on Lit made you think differently or more deeply about friendships?

Well, the stable reference is lost on me, so skipping that, therefore I may be very off topic. My young years, yes, I set goals to meet as many people from as many different walks of life, explore as many different paths, and do as many different things as I could. It was an actual goal to have as many unique experiences as I could before I was 30 and I did it fairly well.. Then at 30, the plan was to really settle down into a more traditional mindset, buckle down into a career, family, kids, 401k, picket fence etc. I still very much look to engage with people I have less commonality with and am attracted to unique and unusual. Not meeting new people with new ideas and new perspectives tends to lead people to shrink their world, miss out on things and concepts they had no idea they were even missing, lessen growth and change, encourage rigid conformity among the social group, develop confirmation biases, and often just general stagnation. The thing that would make me less like to befriend someone is not them exactly, but their closed mindedness to those that do not share the same sociological background or standing. That said, sometimes things are more smooth with shared commonalities but many of my most meaningful friendships contained a significant to complete lack of similitude, and were built on the openness to step outside of ones comfort zone by both parties. At this point in my life, my focus is more elsewhere, so I don't have the priority to develop new experiences and new relationships as I once did. Careers, kids, priorities change with time, which I expected, hence my 30 plan. While I am still very much attracted to unique, but I also look for enough commonality to fit into my life right now.

I came to Lit with no expectations and still have no expectations. I do not think Lit has changed my thought process on friendship and it doesn't seem likely that it will. In all honesty, forming a significant friendship via a virtual interface seems near impossible to me. The amount of experiences we can share is significantly hampered. I can't see them, feel them, and just don't think I can form the level of intimacy I need to make it become a very significant friendship. I am just walking through Lit where ever it takes me today, and enjoying the scenery and experiences.

 

[Apisto42]

11.11.19

Friendship Stables

There's been a lot of talk about sexy stables lately but what about the idea of friendship stables? In Lit or life, do you feel like there are people whose goal is to know as many people as possible regardless of who they are, commonality, etc? Are you one of those people? What makes you hesitate before befriending someone? Has your experience on Lit made you think differently or more deeply about friendships?

I like to talk to people on lit. It’s fun to learn new things and find out what others think and get excited about it. It can open up new avenues of thought and change my perspective on things.

It’s easy to go through life with a set line of thinking, but it’s richer if I’m open to what others have to say.

Lit can be difficult to develop that much though from the aspect that sometimes it can be difficult to get to the underlying thoughts when the expectation is often “I want to see your boobs/cock”. For example, one time I sent a pm to someone who had posted something I was interested in, but my pm wasn’t “I want to role play that with you” it was “why does this interest you?” But that got lost in translation.

It almost seems easier to first do the sex stuff and then get to know the person. Which does cut out some of the crap early on. But is rather unfulfilling if what you’re interested in is learning about something.

I don’t know. I’m tired. Ramblings of a sleep deprived person. Read at your own risk.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.11.19

Friendship Stables

There's been a lot of talk about sexy stables lately but what about the idea of friendship stables? In Lit or life, do you feel like there are people whose goal is to know as many people as possible regardless of who they are, commonality, etc? Are you one of those people? What makes you hesitate before befriending someone? Has your experience on Lit made you think differently or more deeply about friendships?

I'm friendly with everyone and care about a great many people but I keep the people (in life and Lit) that I let close to me very limited. I need to feel an equality and trust there.

There are people on Lit who literally know everyone. And that's fine and good but it doesn't make me want to share myself with them. I would rather be special to one or two people that a person to check off a list. And when I find out that someone I feel close to is friends with a Collector there is always that moment of... aw man. I'm not sure how to explain it.

I like having friends that cross all spectrums of belief and personality but if you aren't respectful, thoughtful, and a clear communicator chances are things won't really take off.

Now, has Lit taught me anything about friendship? I think it's made me think more directly about the topic so.. yes. I've learned that no matter where you meet them some people just want to use you, that some people will always wait for you to come up with the plans or conversation topics, and that it's okay to walk away from people that make you feel bad. I've also learned that with the right people online friendship comes as naturally as meatspace friendship.

I'm lucky enough to have found a handful of people who I care very much about no matter the original circumstances of out meeting.

 

[UgliestSon]

11.11.19

Friendship Stables

There's been a lot of talk about sexy stables lately but what about the idea of friendship stables? In Lit or life, do you feel like there are people whose goal is to know as many people as possible regardless of who they are, commonality, etc? Are you one of those people? What makes you hesitate before befriending someone? Has your experience on Lit made you think differently or more deeply about friendships?

Friendship staples? Sex staples? What kind of weird perverted shit are you people into now? I thought getting your clit pierced and butt plugged up was enough but no way dude. Jesus Christ when will it end?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

 

[beachbaby179]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

Early. My gifts are already done. But I have been known to still be picking up stocking stuffers on Christmas Eve.

 

[Sexybritches69]

11.11.19

Friendship Stables

There's been a lot of talk about sexy stables lately but what about the idea of friendship stables? In Lit or life, do you feel like there are people whose goal is to know as many people as possible regardless of who they are, commonality, etc? Are you one of those people? What makes you hesitate before befriending someone? Has your experience on Lit made you think differently or more deeply about friendships?

For me, there’s a difference between enjoying someone’s company and being a true friend. I can enjoy many people’s company, joke around with them, find them attractive, care about their well-being, etc., but I feel like there are only a handful of people that I feel comfortable opening up to. Those (lucky?) few get to see the best and worst of me because I trust them. Once a person is in, they’re in. But it takes a lot for me to be close to someone.

To answer your question, I feel like I am friendly with a lot of people. I enjoy that. It takes very little effort to reach out to someone and be kind to them, check on them, tell them that they were on my mind, etc. That’s different than being a close friend. I feel it’s common courtesy to extend kindness to anyone I want to.

My experience on Lit and other online sites has made me more realistic about how easy it is for people to mislead others. That has caused me to learn some hard lessons. It’s made it harder and less willing to be open to deep friendships. It’s too bad because I’m sure that I’ve missed some opportunities but I’ve probably dodged some heartache too.

 

[Sexybritches69]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

I try to get ahead of it, but I usually end up waiting until winter break starts and then scramble around trying to get gifts. I’ve gotten a couple so far, but that’s it.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

Shopping is a hobby for me, I am pretty much done. Hell, I could die, and birthdays and Christmas would still be mostly covered for quite a while just by looking in the gift storage closets.

 

[Karabare]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

I'm disappointed with my lack of prep this year. This age is difficult to buy for. Gift cards for everyone.

 

[Suz_anne]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

About half of the people on my Christmas gift list live several states away. So I tend to buy their items pretty early and try to get everything wrapped and shipped out to them by the first week of December.

But I'm usually still buying gifts for nearby family and friends during the first few weeks of December. I enjoy perusing and thinking about what to get for people. And I enjoy wrapping gifts - it is soothing for me. I have been praised and taunted for my gift wrapping enjoyment. But getting a perfect crisp edge and the perfectly folded ends... my goodness, it is satisfying.

 

[Mei5ter]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

Christmas stuff is so much cheaper on 26 December. Why buy sooner?

 

[TheSilverLining]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

Last minute.
Sooooo last minute that I have a collection of gifts from previous years that missed the final airmail date.

I’ll send them this year.

 

[AlpineFresco]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

I try to shop early, but there's usually one or two small things that are last minute.

 

[AlpineFresco]

11.11.19

Friendship Stables

There's been a lot of talk about sexy stables lately but what about the idea of friendship stables? In Lit or life, do you feel like there are people whose goal is to know as many people as possible regardless of who they are, commonality, etc? Are you one of those people? What makes you hesitate before befriending someone? Has your experience on Lit made you think differently or more deeply about friendships?

Yes, some people are social butterflies and befriend everyone. Not my ideal, but if it's working for them then great. I'd rather have better connections with a smaller number of people.

What makes me hesitate? I'm hesitant anyway I tend to retreat a little bit when it comes to talking to people, but I guess I hesitate if they don't seen to know how to hold a 2-way conversation, or if they constantly talk themselves up, or if they're exhibiting broad asshatty behaviour.

On Lit? My experiences here haven't really changed anything.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

Occasionally I'll see something or think of something that someone I know would like, and I'll pick it up for them, so I get a few things out of the way early. But for the most part, I'm very much a last-minute shopper. Gift cards and lottery tickets for everyone!

 

[AlwaysFara]

Occasionally I'll see something or think of something that someone I know would like, and I'll pick it up for them, so I get a few things out of the way early. But for the most part, I'm very much a last-minute shopper. Gift cards and lottery tickets for everyone!

Hey. Welcome back.

I’m middle of the road. I’ve already asked people what they want. I like to be done the second week of December, excepting PEZ and other stupid stuff for the stockings.
I host Thanksgiving. So, that’s first.

 

[AlwaysFara]

11.11.19

Friendship Stables

There's been a lot of talk about sexy stables lately but what about the idea of friendship stables? In Lit or life, do you feel like there are people whose goal is to know as many people as possible regardless of who they are, commonality, etc? Are you one of those people? What makes you hesitate before befriending someone? Has your experience on Lit made you think differently or more deeply about friendships?

I’ve whittled down quite a bit, especially the men, and especially the men who really don’t want to be a part of my tangible life. So, I hesitate before becoming friends with a man.

Women? I stick to about 8 ladies here. Maybe 10? I’ve met a few of them, and I would eagerly meet the rest.
Only one was a dud.
I’m talking real life friends. Who know my voice and my last name and my kids and when I have my period. Who have heard me laugh and cry.

I’m friendlier with a lot of the women here, more so than the men, but recently I’ve drawn back on that. I end up liking people, then realize they maybe wanted to befriend me to see if I’m talking to their man. So, that’s kind of a bummer, but meh.

I’m not. Not like that. I’m happy. And I don’t want your man.

I can name names. I’m pretty proud of my friends list. They are the best.

 

[AveryElle]

11.12.19

With holidays fast approaching, are you an early shoppers or a wait to the last minute kind of person?

Everyone has been naughty, so no gifts.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Everyone has been naughty, so no gifts.

I like that.

I’m broke. Maybe I’ll use that as an excuse.

 

[AbsintheFather]

11.11.19

Friendship Stables

There's been a lot of talk about sexy stables lately but what about the idea of friendship stables? In Lit or life, do you feel like there are people whose goal is to know as many people as possible regardless of who they are, commonality, etc? Are you one of those people? What makes you hesitate before befriending someone? Has your experience on Lit made you think differently or more deeply about friendships?

Each of us comes to Lit for something. Something missing in our lives, friendships, a real life partner, a little titillation. Maybe just good reading material Lit is different things to each of us and different things at different times.

I can relate to the posts by PLP and SexyBritches up there too.

I've gone through several phases of Lit over the past 10 years. Each had different 'goals'. Initially, I just explored. I Posted and had a presence, but didn't get to know too many people. The second phase was to get to know a lot of people and to gain acceptance in the community. In that phase I chatted with a lot of people, not getting into any deep relationships, spreading myself around and befriending people in different cliques.

The third phase was the 'stable' phase. I had short or long relationships with Litsters. Several in the same week or even in the same day. I was, admittedly, fairly slutty at times. I'm now in my final phase here and I don't worry about how many people I know or who I know. I'm content with myself and place here in the community. I'm also very content with having a single filly in the pasture.