❓ PLP Inquires❓

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

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[JenniferSimms]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

I was with a guy last weekend who had a really big libido and it fit very nicely in mine so we were a perfect match even though the relationship was short lived.

 

[Apisto42]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

Fairly consistent baring illness, sleep deprivation and parenting. Oh, well shit. I guess it’s all over the damn place.

Working out is the single biggest boost to my libido. Work stress actually increases my libido.

We’re a pretty good match, though the whole parenting thing can still get us out of sync.

Sex actually has helped keep us together through some tough times. The bonding and stress relief provided by good sex can be a saver.

 

[LostGirlTink]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

Fairly unless I’m not sleeping or sick or something.
I don’t think I do anything to affect it, other than allow myself to embrace that side of myself.
I think his is a bit higher than mine but we are very compatible sexually which impacts it in all the best ways.

 

[Paul_Chance]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

Yes, it's pretty consistent. Yes, I do things to actively affect it - mainly indulging in the sensual things of life and trying to move through the day with an awareness of the innate human sensuality. Yes, they're currently a fairly close match. It puts a certain passionate fire into the relationships.

*I'm not in a monogamous relationship and by the definitions of mainstream society, I'm single, in that both of my current sexual partners are in non-traditional relationships as well and we think of each other as friends and lovers, not as a couple.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

My libido is consistently cyclic, both over the month and over the year. End of the year, it is overall lower, it is cold, life is super busy etc etc. Then during each month there are higher points and lower points. My spouse has a lower libido. Sometimes it does suck, but I do what I can.

 

[AlwaysFara]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

It is. It’s pretty high. My ex had a low libido, and that was part of what ended things.

Yes. He matches me.

 

[TheSilverLining]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

Consistently inconsistent.
I don’t change my lifestyle to intentionally affect my libido, but I’m always hornier when I’m more active and have a better diet. Or conversely when I’ve had a drink...
Otherwise it’s completely cyclical. I had to take some time off from my hormonal contraception recently and it was an absolute revelation to me. My body knows exactly what it wants and when it wants it.

 

[RcyMtnGrl]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

Sleep is the single biggest factor that affects my libido. When I am sleeping well my libido is quite high. When my sleep is irregular it impacts my mental health and then my libido starts to drop, (which then impacts my mental health, which impacts my sleep and it becomes a vicious circle). So I closely guard my sleep and I’m working on actively caring for my mental health.
Hubby’s libido has always been lower than mine though we’re probably at our closest match ever in our near 25 years together. It used to be a HUGE issue between us.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.06.19

Who feels like a sexy hump day question??

Wet spots.

Does seeing visible evidence of your partners arousal turn you on? Wet panties? Spotted boxers? Streaked sheets?
Do you prefer clean over messy? Is it fine if it happens but you dont seek it out or do you love the evidence?

 

[Apisto42]

11.06.19

Who feels like a sexy hump day question??

Wet spots.

Does seeing visible evidence of your partners arousal turn you on? Wet panties? Spotted boxers? Streaked sheets?
Do you prefer clean over messy? Is it fine if it happens but you dont seek it out or do you love the evidence?

One of the most erotic things ever whispered in my ear at a party - “You’re still leaking out, I’ve got to go change my panties.”

Moist panties are pretty fabulous...

And I don’t mind the wet spot either.

 

[AveryElle]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

No, and I'm surprised at the women who say it is consistent! Mine ebbs and flows with my cycles. Working out and eating better obviously gives me more energy so I am hornier when I'm doing well on that front. So I obviously try to keep that up when I'm able.

Ours match well enough, but we're both parents and work full time and overall tired. I went through a phase of feeling like I needed to do it to make him happy, and not enjoying myself. Now we just know it's not the be all end all and sometimes just surviving the week as parents holding down busy jobs is intimate enough.

 

[Mtnmike]

Gimme all the wetness

I love seeing my panties all slick/wet when I’m aroused and I LOVEEEE seeing a little glistening wet spot on the front of a mans boxers when I undo his pants (or if he’s undoing them and I’m watching remotely) to me it’s such a sexy visual of just how turned on they are for me

Now streaked sheets are okay until you roll over into a cold, sticky wet spot..then it’s no fun anymore

Lol, my thoughts exactly

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

Gimme all the wetness

I love seeing my panties all slick/wet when I’m aroused and I LOVEEEE seeing a little glistening wet spot on the front of a mans boxers when I undo his pants (or if he’s undoing them and I’m watching remotely) to me it’s such a sexy visual of just how turned on they are for me

Now streaked sheets are okay until you roll over into a cold, sticky wet spot..then it’s no fun anymore

What she said, just flip it to the male perspective....wetter the better.

And I don't care about the wet spot. I'll sleep in it, knowing I caused it.

 

[Paul_Chance]

11.06.19

Who feels like a sexy hump day question??

Wet spots.

Does seeing visible evidence of your partners arousal turn you on? Wet panties? Spotted boxers? Streaked sheets?
Do you prefer clean over messy? Is it fine if it happens but you dont seek it out or do you love the evidence?

My initial response to this one is "oh, hell yeah". It is incredibly arousing to slowly slide your hand under her dress, run your fingertips across her, and realize her panties are soaking through. Or to realize I'm so aroused that my underwear is starting to soak through from the pre-cum.

I definitely land in the messy group here, when it comes to sex. Nice and messy. I love "the evidence".

LOL - as for the infamous wet spot, I think it is great evidence of a wonderful encounter - but I always keep clean sheets handy. It might be great evidence, but it is a cold freaking encounter when you roll into it later on. Clean sheets, pillows, blankets, and towels must be handy.

 

[AlwaysFara]

11.06.19

Who feels like a sexy hump day question??

Wet spots.

Does seeing visible evidence of your partners arousal turn you on? Wet panties? Spotted boxers? Streaked sheets?
Do you prefer clean over messy? Is it fine if it happens but you dont seek it out or do you love the evidence?

The messier the better, for both of us.
I wanna see. Touch. Taste. Smell. All of it.

 

[AlpineFresco]

11.05.19

Libido

Is your libido consistent? Do you do anything to actively affect your libido?
Does your partner's libido match yours? How does that affect your relationship?

Not consistent, no. I'm the opposite of a lot of people it seems, stress really knocks mine down, as does an especially heavy work load even if it's relatively simple. Otherwise, I feel better if I'm a bit more active.

Hers is pretty much always a bit higher than mine. No complaints.

 

[RcyMtnGrl]

11.06.19

Who feels like a sexy hump day question??

Wet spots.

Does seeing visible evidence of your partners arousal turn you on? Wet panties? Spotted boxers? Streaked sheets?
Do you prefer clean over messy? Is it fine if it happens but you dont seek it out or do you love the evidence?

Messy. I more than contribute my share. I don’t set our seeking mess, but I’m not about to shy away from it.
And visible evidence of arousal is sexy af!

 

[AveryElle]

I love me some wet spots. It's always a good night if you need to do laundry afterwards.

Years ago I dated a girl. She was a squirter. She came over one day and, naturally, we got hump crazy. Left a GIGANTIC wetspot. It was glorious.

So later we're out hanging with friends. She's showing her friends a pic. I ask what it is. I find that she took a picture of my soaked sheets and was showing them off to her friends. Like "Look what this beautiful Itlian piece of fuckmeat made me do." My ego was huge.

Whenever I feel down on myself I think back to that moment. And I shortly bounce back.

You didn’t dump someone on the spot for calling you Italian fuckmeat?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

You didn’t dump someone on the spot for calling you Italian fuckmeat?

I think he was calling himself that, if you read it.

 

[AlwaysFara]

You didn’t dump someone on the spot for calling you Italian fuckmeat?

I think he was calling himself that, if you read it.

Neither here nor there... although, yes, NRJ called himself that...
He wouldn’t throw anyone outta bed that hurled that at him.

Just a hunch.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Neither here nor there... although, yes, NRJ called himself that...
He wouldn’t throw anyone outta bed that hurled that at him.

Just a hunch.

definitely not

 

[Trekka]

I love me some wet spots. It's always a good night if you need to do laundry afterwards.

Years ago I dated a girl. She was a squirter. She came over one day and, naturally, we got hump crazy. Left a GIGANTIC wetspot. It was glorious.

So later we're out hanging with friends. She's showing her friends a pic. I ask what it is. I find that she took a picture of my soaked sheets and was showing them off to her friends. Like "Look what this beautiful Itlian piece of fuckmeat made me do." My ego was huge.

Whenever I feel down on myself I think back to that moment. And I shortly bounce back.

Bahhahahaaa !!!

I confess. I have a photo of a particularly magnificent wet spot we made one night. It was so stupendous it required photo documentation. It looked like a snow angel of sex juice on the sheets.

 

[hotwords229_A]

First of all, Italian Fuckmeat would make a great user name.

Second, "What do you say we make some sex juice angels" would make an awesome Christmas song about fucking under the mistletoe.

Third, yes. Having a visual affect on someone is intensely arousing. In the beginning I used to be embarrassed because I'm a prodigious producer of precum and soaking my shorts is going to happen no matter how I try to hide it. But I got over it.

Of course, when I see that I have caused some hardened nipples and wet panties I just want to fuck uncontrollably!