Paul_Chance
The Watcher
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03.29.21
In your opinion....
What's your sexual strength?? Amazing dirty talk? Enchanting oral? Extra giddyup in your cowgirl?
Tell us your flex.
Let me find my trumpet for my solo...
Let me answer this two ways - what do I think is my strength?
I'd have to say two things make me a better than average lover - attention to detail and knowing what a feedback loop is. All sex is a duet (well, sometimes it can be everything from a jazz trio to a full orchestra, but essentially it's a duet). Know the instrument and paying attention to your partner and incorporating the things you feel, observe and are told are critical to the performance.
What have I been told is my strength?:
I've been sexually active for 40+ years, the consistent things I get feedback on are these:
I'm told I play wicked mind games and that I can get inside their head (both meant as compliments).
I've been told that I excel at dirty talk during sex - both in doing it and in coaxing it gently out of a partner. This usually comes in the form of "I've never done that, that was dirty and hot!".
I've got a position I am fond of that seems to bring intense orgasmic waves (basically, cowgirl with me sitting on a chair, them on top - excellent position to touch everything and watch the feedback loop, works across genders).
And oddly enough, I've been told "You're funny" more than once because quite often I bring my sense of humor to bed with me and I've been told "I never laughed and had an orgasm at the same time" more than once.
<----Finishes trumpet solo. Bows. Sit's down.
