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LeahLo519

LeahLo519

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Sometimes I just don't understand women. :mad:

One of my good guy friends (an old roommate of my boyfriend's) just got a call from his ex-girlfriend. She's pregnant. As far as my friend knew, she was on birth control...he even watched her take the pills. Turns out, she was taking the blank pills in the end of the package (the ones that contain no hormones, they're only there to keep you in the habit of taking them). She did it because she suspected that he was going to break up with her and she wanted to seal the deal. She practically admitted it.

What a fucking selfish bitch! Okay, I'm a woman. I understand being scared and heartbroken and maybe even a little desperate to keep a guy around. But what the hell?! She's like 20 years old and he's barely 21! I hear women complaining all the time about how psycho men can be, and yes, some are completely fucking nuts when it comes to being "in love" but women are just as bad, if not worse in some cases.

Sorry for the rant, but I figure you men always screaming about man haters would appreciate it. And it's true.
 
Good Lord. Allow me to wrench the Sisterhood card right out of her grubby little hand...
 
lizaveta said:
Good Lord. Allow me to wrench the Sisterhood card right out of her grubby little hand...
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No shit! Shame on her! Ugh! :mad:
 
I became a father when I was 16. Tell your friend not to give the baby up. I mother and I also had/have our problems, and we are not together, but for the baby's sake stay friends at least, and keep in contact. What's done is done.
 
There is NEVER an excuse to do that. It is desperate and juvenile and downright sick.

I feel sorry for the kid already.
 
RazorSplitClit said:
I became a father when I was 16. Tell your friend not to give the baby up. I mother and I also had/have our problems, and we are not together, but for the baby's sake stay friends at least, and keep in contact. What's done is done.
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That's the thing, my friend would never abandon them. He is going to stay with her and try to work it out for the sake of the kid. He's also going to be paying for everything through the pregnancy while she sits on her ass....makes me fucking sick.
 
FinePhilly said:
There is NEVER an excuse to do that. It is desperate and juvenile and downright sick.

I feel sorry for the kid already.
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God, me too! That is fucked up!
 
What a great reason to bring a child into the world; because you're needy and childish. :rolleyes:
 
LeahLo519 said:
That's the thing, my friend would never abandon them. He is going to stay with her and try to work it out for the sake of the kid. He's also going to be paying for everything through the pregnancy while she sits on her ass....makes me fucking sick.
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If she really isn't going to do anything, then someone needs to MAKE her work.
 
I have never seen the point of holding onto to someone by deliberately getting pregnant. There's no law (even societal ones now) that says he has to marry the girl. She tricked him by getting pregnant, what's her next trick going to be?
 
LeahLo519 said:
That's the thing, my friend would never abandon them. He is going to stay with her and try to work it out for the sake of the kid. He's also going to be paying for everything through the pregnancy while she sits on her ass....makes me fucking sick.
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She sounds like my ex.

For the sake of the child and for his own sake he should not marry her, or stay with her or anything like that.

Pay support, yeah. Be in the child's life, sure. But being in the same household with a psycho bitch like that is a mistake and never works out.

This is why if I get involved with anyone again (yeah, right, like that's gonna happen - who am I fooling? :rolleyes: ) I am going to get myself fixed whether they are on birth control, sterile, whatever. It would just be better for everybody concerned.
 
Reminds me of a friend of mine. During the going away party for him when he was joining the navy (he was 19) his 16 year old girlfriend told him she was pregnant in an attempt to get him to stay. He couldn't of course, and she later confessed to making it up. But he nearly had a nervous breakdown right then and there.

He was fucked up for all night long.
 
rosco rathbone said:
Hell yes.

This is exactly why men must retain control of the seed.
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Agreed. Pill or no pill, boys, cover that thing up for sure. You never know when a whore dressed in Prada might slip right by you.
 
I have a hard time feeling sorry for either of them.

Why do people think it's okay if someone is on birthcontrol and still not take control of their own fate by slipping on that condom? This isn't just about unwanted pregnancies, but diseases people.

The only person in all of this that should have sympathy is that poor child. The mother only conceived it to use it as a tool against the father.
 
What steps did he take to prevent her getting pregnant?
Did he take any precautions to make sure he did not become a dad?
Unless she gave him a blow job and was dexterous enough to spit the load in her own twat, I would still say he has to pay the piper.
 
lizaveta said:
Agreed. Pill or no pill, boys, cover that thing up for sure. You never know when a whore dressed in Prada might slip right by you.
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Retaining control of the seed is a political act. It's the only way for men to exert any control over the matter.
 
JinXed said:
I have a hard time feeling sorry for either of them.

Why do people think it's okay if someone is on birthcontrol and still not take control of their own fate by slipping on that condom? This isn't just about unwanted pregnancies, but diseases people.

The only person in all of this that should have sympathy is that poor child. The mother only conceived it to use it as a tool against the father.
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Precisely!

Yes, I thought this needed to be repeated.
 
JinXed said:
I have a hard time feeling sorry for either of them.

Why do people think it's okay if someone is on birthcontrol and still not take control of their own fate by slipping on that condom? This isn't just about unwanted pregnancies, but diseases people.

The only person in all of this that should have sympathy is that poor child. The mother only conceived it to use it as a tool against the father.
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I agree, he has to take responsibility because he didn't do anything to prevent it. But it's still unfair because she made him presume that she was taking all the responsibility. I'm the same way. I take care of myself with my birth control and he doesn't hear much about it. I think a lot of relationships are that way.
 
This woman has effectively "fenced in" this man and, if he's not an animal now, the ingredients are there for him to be one in the future.

RazorSplitClit said:
What's done is done.
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:rolleyes:
 
LeahLo519 said:
I agree, he has to take responsibility because he didn't do anything to prevent it. But it's still unfair because she made him presume that she was taking all the responsibility. I'm the same way. I take care of myself with my birth control and he doesn't hear much about it. I think a lot of relationships are that way.
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I think most relationships are that way. It does not make it right. The pill can fail too.
 
why would he stay with a witch like that? Raise the kid, granted, but stay with the bitch? Fuck no.
 
I dunno bout all of that...

I wonder how many women here have ever worn a female condom...

Ya know how ya bitch about sex without an orgasm.....well there ya go. I hate condoms. I only wear them because I have to. And in a committed relationship I don't.

Seems like you're saying, 'Trust me but if I fuck you over it's your fault'.

That's like saying a person cheated on is at fault for being cheated on.
 
LeahLo519 said:
I agree, he has to take responsibility because he didn't do anything to prevent it. But it's still unfair because she made him presume that she was taking all the responsibility. I'm the same way. I take care of myself with my birth control and he doesn't hear much about it. I think a lot of relationships are that way.
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she didn't make him do anything - he was lazy and probably goes along with the whole "if I wear a condom I can't feel anything" bullshit line of thinking.

Yeah, she fooled him by pretending to take her pills when she wasn't, but he's the bigger fool for not protecting himself.

What's unfair isn't to him or to her, but to their child. Sure it sucks that he now has this responsibility that he wasn't wanting at this stage in his life, but that's what happens when you don't take the responsibility in making sure that it doesn't happen. A wise man once told me - "Never have sex with someone that you may not wish to ever marry, or to be a part of your life forever". It's sound.

The only time I would take care of the birthcontrol, and not use condoms in conjunction, would be if we were married - or in a very stable relationship for a long period of time. Other than that, we're going to double bag the situation.
 
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