If 18 year old you knew what you know now...

When I was eighteen I shared my room with another girl most weekends. She and I did everything together but we were incredibly innocent by modern standards. Over a few months, we both caught the other one masturbating. Once the secret was out we would lie in the dark, each in her own bed and masturbate while we discussed the boys we had dated or wanted to.

If I could I'd go back and whisper in my eighteen-year-old self's ear that maybe she should get out of her own bed and into her friend's bed....
 
When I was eighteen I shared my room with another girl most weekends. She and I did everything together but we were incredibly innocent by modern standards. Over a few months, we both caught the other one masturbating. Once the secret was out we would lie in the dark, each in her own bed and masturbate while we discussed the boys we had dated or wanted to.

If I could I'd go back and whisper in my eighteen-year-old self's ear that maybe she should get out of her own bed and into her friend's bed....
That is such a sweet memory.

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He would be the smartest most forward thinking 18year old!

Above all, he would not criticize himself so harshly! And would forgive himself for stupid naive comments.
 
I would have fucked my sisters friend. I would have had sex with my second oldest sister. I would have been eating pussy a lot sooner in life.
 
I would tell any young person that marriage is wonderful and worth the hard work.

But I would also advise them to make sure that you and your partner have sex drives that are at least in the same ballpark before marrying, because any desire discrepancy that exists on your wedding day is only likely to get wider and become more problematic as the decades go by.
 
I would tell any young person that marriage is wonderful and worth the hard work.

But I would also advise them to make sure that you and your partner have sex drives that are at least in the same ballpark before marrying, because any desire discrepancy that exists on your wedding day is only likely to get wider and become more problematic as the decades go by.
I don’t disagree, but, being human means change and we don’t all change at the same speed or in the same direction.
 
I would have convinced myself that most girls wanted sex as much (or nearly as much) as I do, some of them even with me.

When I caught my best friend riding my roommate, and left mad, I would have gone back when they invited me to come back and talk….
 
I don’t disagree, but, being human means change and we don’t all change at the same speed or in the same direction.
this is true, but to start a marriage where one loves sex and the other is ambivalent about it spells disaster. ..And I've known people who made that mistake. ..But yes, people do change. For example, when my wife and I married the idea of letting her being w/ other men would have made me cringe. If she asked I would have said, "no way would I ever allow that." ..But now, after 30+ years, I think it's actually quite a healthy (and normal) thing to do now and again. ..Her and I both.
 
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