If 18 year old you knew what you know now...

[steamboat610]

Wouldve taken a dick up the ass much sooner

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Sexually: Thankfully, my husband was accepting, but a much younger self was for several years was fearful of sharing up front with a man my bisexual nature. This did cost me a very painful breakup with the man I was with before meeting my husband. I have found being honest with one's spouse sexually can be beneficial up front. Even if not, at least one spares themself wasted time as I did.

Non-sexual: Avoid debt as much as possible. Use money wisely and not foolishly. Thankfully we worked our way out of unnecessary debt early on, did not live above our means, saved and invested. In our non-sexual times we worked hard, and were able to comfortably retire in our early fifties, working only when we want to.

 

[stiv837]

I have two marriages that I would of talked myself out of .

 

[Calistax]

Be less in my head and enjoy what I was doing.

 

[Solsurfer]

Date YouKnowWho instead and hold onto her forever.
Also invest in Apple. And Starbucks. And Amazon. Lol!

 

[Crownvic]

I told my 18 year old grandson, listen to the voices when making your choices..

 

[YourNewEnglandGirl]

That I had my entire life in front of me but that I didn't have to plan every minute of it right then. To take the year off and learn how to "live" before heading to college. That yes there would be things that I would regret doing but there would also be things I would regret not doing and that I needed to consider both before doing something. To NOT take the trip to New York because that definitely was a regret. When she asks you to go out for a movie, say yes because you will spend years wondering what if.

 

[MidKnight1378]

I turned 18 y/o in 1983. I think the things I would change would be buying up IT stocks. I would scrape up every penny I could and buy up stocks that hit it big.

 

[OneEyedSteve]

He'd be a billionaire because he'd have bought Bitcoin at $15 when he first heard about it in 2012
As far as sex is xincer, I'd already learned a lot of what I know now having had a relationship with an older woman at work when I was 17. I just would have had a lot more confidence, which probably would have been disastrous

 

[EmmAgain]

“Emma, don’t change a thing! Being a slutty cam girl overseas bought you two nice condos in Houston. Go right ahead, sign up for OnlyFans and go wild! College can wait. Use your experience from Privacy to make a kick-ass OF page. The only people who’ll hate you are the ones who already hated you. Oh - and make sure you don’t turn down a date with that sweet Australian exchange student!”

Everything has worked out.

 

[TallOne]

Christen that dorm room asap. Accept your bisexuality and have it be with either. Pay more attention to the people that were talking with you. Many were flirting but you didn't clock it or were too shy to respond in kind.

 

[storypost603]

Have more confidence. Those girls really do what to have sex with you that is one reason they are talking to you. If a girls asks to be alone with you when you are young see if they Do what to have sex. Also many more guys wanted to have m/m sex than you thought. At that point you already sucked one dick and others wanted you to suck them also. Wish I would have spend more time visiting glory holes and learning what really went on and not be scared.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Mrs. WhO2 was raised is an extended household with a whole crew of busy bodies telling her how to live every aspect of her life. As a result, she was very late to the world of sexual enjoyment. Luckily, as we explored those joys she became an enthusiastic practitioner.

I recently asked her that if 18 year old Mrs. WhO2 knew what grown Mrs. WhO2 knows, would she do things differently, and she enthusiastically said she would have much more sex.

Me personally, my earliest experiences were with long-time girl friends. I thought all girls wanted relationships first, and sex came later. As a result, I missed out on some fun short-term experiences early in college. If I could do it again I would want to know at a younger age that women enjoy 1nighters as well.

How about the rest of the Lit community- what would you do differently?

Complete honesty.

 

[luvslingerie200]

I was an early bloomer and at 18 was pretty sexually active and had quite a few memorable experiences. If I could do it all over again, I would have had more bisexual experiences. Back then it was very much taboo. I had a gf that had a mmf threesome in my early 20's I wish I would have told her I would love to do that too.

 

[DPQueen]

Mrs. WhO2 was raised is an extended household with a whole crew of busy bodies telling her how to live every aspect of her life. As a result, she was very late to the world of sexual enjoyment. Luckily, as we explored those joys she became an enthusiastic practitioner.

I recently asked her that if 18 year old Mrs. WhO2 knew what grown Mrs. WhO2 knows, would she do things differently, and she enthusiastically said she would have much more sex.

Me personally, my earliest experiences were with long-time girl friends. I thought all girls wanted relationships first, and sex came later. As a result, I missed out on some fun short-term experiences early in college. If I could do it again I would want to know at a younger age that women enjoy 1nighters as well.

How about the rest of the Lit community- what would you do differently?

I would have explored my kinks and not listened to the “you have to be a good girl” rubbish.

 

[ALovelyNudist]

Would have been either more care free and experimental.

 

[gk6h]

Wouldve taken a dick up the ass much sooner

That is a good one

 

[WhO2]

Mrs WhO2 and I took a long road trip this week and used talk of past sexual experiences to help pass the time. In retrospect i realized so many of my early encounters were awkward because i wasn't as good at it as I thought i was back then. I would love to tell 18 y.o. me to approach those experiences (especially the 1 nighters) telling her "teach me what I can do to make this feel good for you."

 

[MrMannson]

I was very sexually busy at 18, as I was in a relationship with someone described as a definitive slut. I wish I would have been more open to threesomes at the time, and exhibitionism and even enjoying the fact she was fucking all these guys and coming home to me.

On another note, I had an opportunity to fuck her roomate and passed on it. I was having a shower and her roomate wanted in the bathroom for a hairbrush. My ex wasn’t home, but apparently my 18 year old had morals or something and I didn’t let her in! Arrgh!

 

[rewinding]

I had very little confidence at 18, and as such missed many opportunities. I would tell myself to not worry and go for it!!