If 18 year old you knew what you know now...

[KaitlynW1993]

Not sure. I would def embrace the lifestyle. Maybe do porn for a few years. Prob teach and educate other girls my age to also open up.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

With my body then and my knowledge/experience now I would have been unstoppable, lol.

I would have definitely manscaped earlier, approached more women directly (instead of relying on liquid courage), and paid better attention at the girls throwing themselves at me. I was a bit oblivious.

 

[queen_keira69]

I‘d embrace my inner slut right away and would support every woman who’s interested to embrace that lifestyle.

Too many are missing out on so much and stay in their vanilla bubble.

 

[magicalmoments]

I haven't read every post on the thread, but if I kinew at 18 what I know now I doubt I would have made it to 20 years of age!

 

[chapter6plan]

I haven't read every post on the thread, but if I kinew at 18 what I know now I doubt I would have made it to 20 years of age!

I gotta ask ... what forbidden knowledge have you gained that the 18yo you could not have handled?

 

[LeinadVirgo]

I gotta ask ... what forbidden knowledge have you gained that the 18yo you could not have handled?

Mostly nihilism that i know young me would understand. So nothing would change.
They know everything, until they don't.

 

[BisForBritany]

I think 18 year old me knew everything there was to know

 

[summer_reine]

Poor 18 year old me. If I could swap places with her my life would be very different.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Poor 18 year old me. If I could swap places with her my life would be very different.

No kidding!

 

[neon_noodle]

Probably cum with a lot more guys. Wasn't until college that I really started, and only after college did I suck cock.

I'd tear through college now, sucking cocks every weekend.

 

[lilmissdarling]

Goodness. I would have had a lot more fulfilling sex. Also, probably would have avoided some shit.

 

[wallio]

I never would have married would have been gay or BI and would have stayed down south

 

[DpropertyofR]

I am thankful that I don’t have regrets in that regard. I had a lot of fun and did a lot of experimenting. Then, I met my late husband, who made me the happiest woman alive for 24 joyful, satisfying years. Even though he didn’t see himself in the role of Dom, he was willing to indulge me a bit in my fantasies. Then, almost two years ago, I met my Master, and he is making all my fantasies come true.

 

[Terrylipstick]

I would have spent a lot more time treating myself right, not trying to fit into the expectations and perceptions of others, but being what I always wanted to be. I’d have stepped out of the closet, rather than embracing it.

 

[your_viking_master]

I'd come out as a BDSMer, and damn be the backlash.

 

[Jordanjack]

Oh man. So many things!

• explored my bi-side more openly
• be more vocal about what I want, in regard to sex, in a relationship
• taken every available opportunity to have sex with as many people and genders as possible
• masturbated with the intent to gain more control over my ejaculation so I can last for hours
• learned to separate ejaculation from orgasm

 

[ConfusinglyDelerious]

I don't know if I would have wanted to tell 18 year old me anything, and try to make me do things differently.

On the one hand, that guy could stand to learn a thing or two. He was in absofuckinglutely no way perfect.

On the other hand, would I want to imagine the butterfly effect it could cause to do things differently?

There are things I have done after I was 18, that I wouldn't want undone.
There are things I have done, that I would have liked to not to have done. But would I have the same view on things if I hadn't made mistake, and had to come to terms with them?

Maybe "Quality over quantity". But YOU go and try to tell that to an 18 year old about to go going the Air Force. Hint: It wont work

 

[blondebreeze]

As both my former 18 y.o and I are very stubborn... I seriously doubt it would work.
But I would try to warn her about asshole n.1 &2.
Give her a few suggestions and tell her she had the answer all along.

 

[SmokingFap]

I would have bought as much Apple stock as I could afford. I was 18 when the Apple 2se came out.

The sex would have followed the millions of dollars that I made.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I wish I'd had a better idea what a hot piece of ass I was. A lot of girls obviously threw themselves at me but I didn't always catch on.

Me too!

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I would have bought as much Apple stock as I could afford. I was 18 when the Apple 2se came out.

The sex would have followed the millions of dollars that I made.

Classic!

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I wish I knew what I know now at that age. I feel as if I have wasted years of a shit sex life and living in a world where I could never just be me

Be easy on yourself. There’s still time and we’ll all be back!!

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Mrs. WhO2 was raised is an extended household with a whole crew of busy bodies telling her how to live every aspect of her life. As a result, she was very late to the world of sexual enjoyment. Luckily, as we explored those joys she became an enthusiastic practitioner.

I recently asked her that if 18 year old Mrs. WhO2 knew what grown Mrs. WhO2 knows, would she do things differently, and she enthusiastically said she would have much more sex.

Me personally, my earliest experiences were with long-time girl friends. I thought all girls wanted relationships first, and sex came later. As a result, I missed out on some fun short-term experiences early in college. If I could do it again I would want to know at a younger age that women enjoy 1nighters as well.

How about the rest of the Lit community- what would you do differently?

Fearless honesty and vast self confidence. My heart has always been big. I’d take things a bit more lightly. Great post with beautiful replies.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I had soooo many insecurities when I was 18 ... sexual, social, needing approval from parents and peers, thinking my entire future depended on doing the right thing all the time......

If I had known then what I know now, my social anxiety might have gone away sooner and I would not have been afraid to suck cock and eat pussy.

I had a pretty nice body back then .... skinny, kind of a twink ... nice ass and legs thanks to my bike .... and nobody got to enjoy it. Not even me.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I would slow down and fuck every girl that wanted me. I was so serious and focused, and the eldest, golden child. I was a HS/college athlete and scholar. Not bragging, just true. I was prudish and too careful. I was taught to stay pure and wait for marriage. Married young. Happy life and professional career. Recently retired, still in great physical shape, running, walking, good workouts, youthful in attitude. My Wifey and I have a great sex life, and I would like to explore with others before we leave this world.

Beautiful.