How do you satisfy your needs in a sexless relationship?

[PleasePeesMe]

I masturbate and chat with other men who like cock. With the right guy, it can be very satisfying.

 

[zcraft5]

great question

masturbate a lot from reading submissive stories on here chatting etc

 

[marf2200]

Watch porn, read Lit, chat with people, scroll through Reddit, fantasize- all while I masturbate.

(I'm looking for new chat partners)

 

[Lonestar79]

Almost 2 years for me. Stories on Lit helped. Now trying to meet new friends to chat with here.

 

[RoanMtn]

My marriage has been sexless for over two decades now. So I masturbate.

 

[falkor207]

Porn which gets boring, then Lit for the stories, and finally coming here to the boards and a few chats when a connection exists. A long winded way of saying I masturbate a lot

 

[Lonestar79]

What part of Texas are u in?

Dallas area

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

I find that I’m pretty much able to get all that I could want….

I think women can always get sex if they want.

 

[Dirtyoldhornyman]

Porn and lilt help with the frustration.
Chatting with some wonderful Lit ladies are a great distraction, but can sometimes leave me frustrated in a different way!!!

 

[trinething1ns]

I write a lot but haven’t posted anything here yet. Working on that. I masturbate often.

I had a fwb, but it ended.

 

[PFWilly]

Gosh, I thought I was the only one who relied on lit, fantasies, and masturbation.

Guess not!

 

[your_viking_master]

Lit, writing erotica, concocting elaborate scenarioes in my head...

 

[EbersMoll]

Isn’t this what the internet was invented for?

 

[Boat1]

How do you satisfy your needs in a sexless relationship?

I walked away from the relationship.
Yes, it was expensive AF, yes, it was worth every penny of it.

 

[Boat1]

It should be titled
"50 Ways To Leave Your Not-Lover"

 

[Badkitty40]

Reading smutty fiction, masterbation after he is asleep. Occationally watch porn. Not often. I tried trying to go without thinking about it or wanting it for a long time but it didn't work. I just felt worse. We try to be open and communicate. We touch, cuddle, and have a good relatuinship that is monogamous. But he is not a very sexual person and feels a lot of guilt about it. We have been together 12 years. We just get through it as we go.

 

[trinething1ns]

Reading smutty fiction, masterbation after he is asleep. Occationally watch porn. Not often. I tried trying to go without thinking about it or wanting it for a long time but it didn't work. I just felt worse. We try to be open and communicate. We touch, cuddle, and have a good relatuinship that is monogamous. But he is not a very sexual person and feels a lot of guilt about it. We have been together 12 years. We just get through it as we go.

I feel all of that, and try coping the same ways. I even took supplements for a while to try to decrease my libido, but it just didn’t “take”.

 

[Tastingurjuices]

I think a married man in a sexless marriage is the ideal lover for my wife. Chances are he would only be interested in her for the pussy. Not looking to start any drama in our marriage. He tells his wife that him and I have become friends. Then say once a week he tells her he’s coming over to our place to watch the game and have a beer. But really he’s got my wife up in our bedroom.

What are friend's for

 

[Melody_Lightdraft2]

How do you satisfy your needs in a sexless relationship?

Usually my hand.

 

[screwher]

No marriage should be sexless. Discounting the cases of age and health, of course. But if the wife (I’m just generalizing here) loses her sex drive and basically renders the marriage sexless for her husband, she should give her blessing to open up the marriage so the husband can indulge with another woman.

 

[trinething1ns]

No marriage should be sexless. Discounting the cases of age and health, of course. But if the wife (I’m just generalizing here) loses her sex drive and basically renders the marriage sexless for her husband, she should give her blessing to open up the marriage so the husband can indulge with another woman.

I think either spouse should do that.

 

[Curvyscotswoman]

I think either spouse should do that.

I agree that they should but it's not always the case.
Sometimes you have to be careful

 

[matureman32]

Mainly the sexy ladies of Lit help me out plus a kinky imagination.

 

[Yarglenurp]

I agree that they should but it's not always the case.
Sometimes you have to be careful

Yeah, this is basically divorce territory in either case. If your spouse is basically completely asexual and you’re not OK with that, I’d say start getting some divorce prep just in case.

 

[Curvyscotswoman]

Yeah, this is basically divorce territory in either case. If your spouse is basically completely asexual and you’re not OK with that, I’d say start getting some divorce prep just in case.

Yes it is, Still one kid at home but making preparations for the not too distant future