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Getting cuckolded by black men?

bizarrpaar said:
As a white wife who is married for 40 years i can Tell you it hardened our romantic relationship since i meet Black men.
I started at a caribean vacation with a muscular handsome Black stud... I am dominant to my husband and He is submissive... Always will - always was that way.
I told him to Go to the Bar and ordered the Black boy to our hotel suite.... That was 34 years ago and i meet bbc since then.... Black owned QOS
Black studs are manly and superior.
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Wonderful
 
lc69hunter said:
My second wife and I had what you would call a stag/vixen, hotwife type of relationship. Maybe once or so a year she would get a taste for some "chocolate" as she put it. She likened it to a decadent dessert that you wouldn't want a steady diet of.

We both enjoyed the eroticism of the color contrast, but that was the extent of any fetish about it, and often it would be a double team on her with the two of us, and she always wanted pictures.
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My wife also enjoys some “chocolate” from time to time. He is a true gentleman she has known from college. We both enjoy his company and the taboo effect and the contrast of our skin. She also likes both of us using her together, but initially it will be him and her playing…her sucking his beautiful black cock, fucking him, taking his cum wherever he likes to put it, all the while l am videoing for future enjoyment. I also perform oral on him as well. We all understand that this is for everyone’s enjoyment and the race factor is all part of the thrill of it.
 
We were together for a few years before my wife discovered she was very attracted to black men. I didn't think of it as different from any other type of sexual attraction. It just happens that it's handsome articulate black men. So, it's just a part of our married life together and has been since she went black. Here she is getting her needs taken care of.


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policywank said:
I agree that it is more complex than the "virile, penis factor."

I have cuckolded my husband with many black men. I found them attractive on their own - not because my husband wanted me to cuckold him with them. Skin colour and cultural differences are legitimate factors in sexual attraction IMO. But the real attraction exists at the individual person-to-person level. That man is a whole package. It would be absurd (and possibly nudging towards racist) if I like him solely because he is black.

For my husband there is something "other" about a black man fucking me. It is something that he can never be in a way that is very tangible and obvious. There are other things that other men offer that my husband doesn't offer, but they tend to be less tangible and obvious.

To the extent that there is an inclination for a white man to be more passive or submissive around black men because of heightened issues around racial sensitivity that does raise some concerns. When those heightened sensitivities nudge us towards being more open-minded, humble and accepting of others I think that is a good thing. But that should be a two-way street where all people of good will seek to build bridges. The idea of a white men feeling compelled to be submissive as some kind of compensation for past racial injustice is problematic. Should they go out of their way to build bridges? Sure. Should they seek to better understand the circumstance of racial minorities and their own privilege? Sure. Should they be obliged to take the blame for something they didn't do? Nope. Should black men get away with holding themselves to a lesser standard of decorum because of past injustice (committed by other white men against other black men - neither of whom are in the discussion)? Nope.

It is a difficult line to find. To the extent that my husband is open-minded enough to accept a black man as a strong or stronger presence and perhaps even sees his unique racial and cultural characteristics as being intrinsically strong in that individual black man I think that works. But if he started to veer into thinking that black men are intrinsically stronger across the board or that he owes something to this black man I would have a problem with that.
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Very well thought about and explained
 
magicalmoments said:
Cuckolding is the word that has been used for centuries to describe the man whose wife has taken a lover. It has traditionally been used as a term of derision and pity.

It continues to have that meaning today but in the last couple of decadesIt has come to have the added meaning of describing a man who desires his wife to fucked by other men primarily because he is turned on by the thought of humiliation. This seems to have an added impetus when the wife's lover is a black man, and she is white.

In my opinion the black man cuckold or the BBC fantasy is all rooted in racism. It is the taboo of the black barbarian taking a sweet little innocent white girl. In some couples this fantasy is driven by the husband who seeks to be cuckolded in others it is driven by the wife who justs wants to know what a big black cock feels like fucking her. Such women should qualify for a medal.
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I absolutely agree with everything you say here except the part about it humiliation. The humiliation aspect of cuckoldry is not at all new. In written literature, it dates back as far as Chaucer, and the cuckolded husband was an object of much derision and humor.

To add to what you say about the BBC phenomenon: it has direct roots to slavery, where a particularly large and muscular male for sale was assumed to be particularly virile, a “good breeder,” and was described as a “bull.” As such, he was an object of fascination to the wives and daughters of the slaveholders, and fueled insecurity on the parts of the owners themselves. I don't know whether the size of his cock was a part of what caused him to be considered a “good breeder”, or whether conversely, it was just assumed that he must have a big cock to be such a man, but either way the fascination led the myth.

In sum: it's a case of extreme objectification rooted directly in racial slavery, and the psychological dehumanization of black people that was required to justify that slavery.
 
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liqueur said:
I absolutely agree with everything you say here except the part about it humiliation. The humiliation aspect of cuckoldry is not at all new. And written literature at dates back as far as Chaucer, and the cuckolded husband was an object of much derision and humor.

To add to what you say about the BBC phenomenon: it has direct roots to slavery, where a particularly large and muscular male for sale was assumed to ago be particularly virile, a “good breeder,” and was described as a “bull.” As such, he was an object of fascination to the wives and daughters of the slaveholders, and fueled insecurity on the parts of the owners themselves. I don't know whether the size of his cock was a part of what caused him to be considered a “good breeder”, or whether conversely, it was just assumed that he must have a big cock to be such a man, but either way the fascination led the myth.

In sum: it's a case of extreme objectification rooted directly in racial slavery, and the psychological dehumanization of black people that was required to justify that slavery.
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Facts
 
I grew up in the south in a family that strongly disapproved of mixed race relations. Of course, it is my biggest turn on. After marriage my husband started encouraging activities with others. When we found that finding women was very difficult, we started fantasizing about black men and we were off to the races. (Pun intended.)
 
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