Getting cuckolded by black men?

[CurtGiles46]

This is one of those issues which some people find controversial. The desire of white men for their wives or girlfriends to cheat on them with black men.

A lot of people will say this feeds into a racist stereotype of black men being brutish and virile. However. I tend to think there’s other elements which add to the arousal.

First, because of the prevailing cultural climate of heightened sensitivity around issues of racism, the average white man tends to be shy and accommodating to black men trying to prove he doesn’t have prejudice. This can lead naturally into a situation where white men are being submissive toward black men.

As a result, the desire for black men to have sex with your girlfriend or wife may occur directly from these submissive feelings.

Of course porn stereotypes will play a role, perceptions that your white penis is far smaller than the penis of a black man, but I’m saying the issue is more complex than the virile, penis factors alone.

 

[nowisthetime]

Interesting, you do not (vocally) hear of black men wanting to share their black wives or girlfriends with white men, as a matter of fact, many black men despise seeing black women date or let alone fuck white men. Perhaps this is due to the control factor of many black men when it comes to black women, or it reminds some of the most disturbing situations during slavery, or colonialism (for non-black Americans). Few black women are willing to be involved in interracial cuckolding, as well. If a black woman is gonna fuck a white man, she just does it as a single woman.

I don't particularly like any person being used as just a body part. That cuckolding never really sat right with me, in fact, I think it's weird.

 

[magicalmoments]

Cuckolding is the word that has been used for centuries to describe the man whose wife has taken a lover. It has traditionally been used as a term of derision and pity.

It continues to have that meaning today but in the last couple of decadesIt has come to have the added meaning of describing a man who desires his wife to fucked by other men primarily because he is turned on by the thought of humiliation. This seems to have an added impetus when the wife's lover is a black man, and she is white.

In my opinion the black man cuckold or the BBC fantasy is all rooted in racism. It is the taboo of the black barbarian taking a sweet little innocent white girl. In some couples this fantasy is driven by the husband who seeks to be cuckolded in others it is driven by the wife who justs wants to know what a big black cock feels like fucking her. Such women should qualify for a medal.

 

[CurtGiles46]

Cuckolding is the word that has been used for centuries to describe the man whose wife has taken a lover. It has traditionally been used as a term of derision and pity.

It continues to have that meaning today but in the last couple of decadesIt has come to have the added meaning of describing a man who desires his wife to fucked by other men primarily because he is turned on by the thought of humiliation. This seems to have an added impetus when the wife's lover is a black man, and she is white.

In my opinion the black man cuckold or the BBC fantasy is all rooted in racism. It is the taboo of the black barbarian taking a sweet little innocent white girl. In some couples this fantasy is driven by the husband who seeks to be cuckolded in others it is driven by the wife who justs wants to know what a big black cock feels like fucking her. Such women should qualify for a medal.

Then is it racist if the white wife wants to know what a big black cock feels like?

 

[canopy]

This convo is making me curious to know if black men get just as excited as a white man when his wife fucks another black man?

 

[magicalmoments]

Then is it racist if the white wife wants to know what a big black cock feels like?

I shall look forward to the responses to this statement/question.

 

[artgorden]

A black man with a big dick can fuck my wife all day if he lets me blow him.

 

[screwher]

Then is it racist if the white wife wants to know what a big black cock feels like?

Not at all. I personally wouldn’t call sex attraction or curiosity any kind of racism. Just the opposite actually.

 

[SlutAddicted]

Not at all. I personally wouldn’t call sex attraction or curiosity any kind of racism. Just the opposite actually.

I don't think that it is intrinsically racist. We are all attracted to various physical characteristics, including skin colour.

But I do think that whether or not racism enters into depends upon what aspect of the situation appeals to you. I think that the best test of that is how would you and people in general feel about it if the races were reversed but the portrayal and the behaviour remained unchanged. If it isn't ok for a white man to treat a black woman in a certain way it cannot logically be any more acceptable for a black man to treat a white woman that way. The implicit premise that historical context should give rise to a double standard is problematic.

 

[policywank]

This is one of those issues which some people find controversial. The desire of white men for their wives or girlfriends to cheat on them with black men.

A lot of people will say this feeds into a racist stereotype of black men being brutish and virile. However. I tend to think there’s other elements which add to the arousal.

First, because of the prevailing cultural climate of heightened sensitivity around issues of racism, the average white man tends to be shy and accommodating to black men trying to prove he doesn’t have prejudice. This can lead naturally into a situation where white men are being submissive toward black men.

As a result, the desire for black men to have sex with your girlfriend or wife may occur directly from these submissive feelings.

Of course porn stereotypes will play a role, perceptions that your white penis is far smaller than the penis of a black man, but I’m saying the issue is more complex than the virile, penis factors alone.

I agree that it is more complex than the "virile, penis factor."

I have cuckolded my husband with many black men. I found them attractive on their own - not because my husband wanted me to cuckold him with them. Skin colour and cultural differences are legitimate factors in sexual attraction IMO. But the real attraction exists at the individual person-to-person level. That man is a whole package. It would be absurd (and possibly nudging towards racist) if I like him solely because he is black.

For my husband there is something "other" about a black man fucking me. It is something that he can never be in a way that is very tangible and obvious. There are other things that other men offer that my husband doesn't offer, but they tend to be less tangible and obvious.

To the extent that there is an inclination for a white man to be more passive or submissive around black men because of heightened issues around racial sensitivity that does raise some concerns. When those heightened sensitivities nudge us towards being more open-minded, humble and accepting of others I think that is a good thing. But that should be a two-way street where all people of good will seek to build bridges. The idea of a white men feeling compelled to be submissive as some kind of compensation for past racial injustice is problematic. Should they go out of their way to build bridges? Sure. Should they seek to better understand the circumstance of racial minorities and their own privilege? Sure. Should they be obliged to take the blame for something they didn't do? Nope. Should black men get away with holding themselves to a lesser standard of decorum because of past injustice (committed by other white men against other black men - neither of whom are in the discussion)? Nope.

It is a difficult line to find. To the extent that my husband is open-minded enough to accept a black man as a strong or stronger presence and perhaps even sees his unique racial and cultural characteristics as being intrinsically strong in that individual black man I think that works. But if he started to veer into thinking that black men are intrinsically stronger across the board or that he owes something to this black man I would have a problem with that.

 

[lc69hunter]

My second wife and I had what you would call a stag/vixen, hotwife type of relationship. Maybe once or so a year she would get a taste for some "chocolate" as she put it. She likened it to a decadent dessert that you wouldn't want a steady diet of.

We both enjoyed the eroticism of the color contrast, but that was the extent of any fetish about it, and often it would be a double team on her with the two of us, and she always wanted pictures.

 

[HornyMarriedMale]

I wouldn’t mind seeing my wife take a big black cock in her pussy , or her mouth or both actually

 

[pumperguy191]

Mine has had at least one black lover. We both have actually. I would live to hear the details of her adventure but she has yet to divulge. I also would love to see her do it again.

 

[Swuchmann]

I get excited when a Blackman pounds my boipussy if has a big cock. I say the same for a white guy too.

 

[white65]

I do find it difficult to understand the concept of a physically superior black man being 'taken advantage of' by a cuckolded husband and his presumably white wife/gf. If it plays to a racist theme, that the black man is somehow being 'used' for his body, this is surely outdated when I see white women 'going black' en masse. And indeed, never going back.

 

[VikingPhoenix]

As a hetero black woman, I would enjoy being used by a couple

You are lovely. I'd be happy to use you if you'll use me back. You pick the third as i love both an extra man or an extra woman...color less important that loveliness and attraction. I love black women and think that most women see black men in the exact way I see black women. If they're lovely in one way or more, then that's it, they're lovely.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I wouldn’t mind seeing my wife take a big black cock in her pussy , or her mouth or both actually

I would want them to let me kiss and lick them afterwards

 

[Bisexguy70]

I never really understood cuckolding fetish until a few months ago. Me and my older buddy meet regularly and we suck each other and i top him. I know my cock is satisfactory and we make each other moan. We invited a black guy to join is. Hes around the same age and were all older married men. We did our normal foreplay of kissing and stroking before he arrived. He walked through the door and admitted he was nervous. But we told him to get comfortable, get naked and join us. As soon as he took his underwire off my jaw dropped. He had an amazing big cock and we told him to lay back on the bed. We both started sucking his cock and i licked his balls too. After I fucked my buddy some we had him step in and take over. My buddy started to moan as i spread his cheeks apart and watched the black guy slowly work his cock in. OMG he started moaning and it was so hot watching him be satisfied like that. I loved watching that black guy fuck my buddy. I think theres something so hot about watching someone you care about receive that much pleasure. The contrast between the colors of the flesh was erotic too. My cock throbbed, I positioned myself so that my buddy could suck me as i continued watching him be screwed by that big burly black guy. I then turned around in a 69 position and cant describe in words how hot it was licking that black guys balls as his thick big cock thrusted in and out of my buddies ass. I could literally feel my buddy suck my cock a little harder as he was penetrated deeper. I can imagine the same situation watching a guy like that fuck some guys hot wife. Watching him stretch her pussy lips and see the look of bliss on her face. So now i totally get it!!!

 

[fullofsin]

I love to cuck hubby with handsome black men. He loves it, too. Sometimes he like to watch. Othe times he likes when I do on a date an dhe gets all the salacious details afterwards. Just works for us. Nothing but pleasure and enjoyment for all involved.

 

[lc69hunter]

My second wife and I had what you would call a stag/vixen, hotwife type of relationship. Maybe once or so a year she would get a taste for some "chocolate" as she put it. She likened it to a decadent dessert that you wouldn't want a steady diet of.

We both enjoyed the eroticism of the color contrast, but that was the extent of any fetish about it, and often it would be a double team on her with the two of us, and she always wanted pictures.

One of the things she did, and of course I went along with it, as a supposedly shocked cuckold, was to play the standard black man fantasy of putting a black baby in a white wife back on them. You would casually let it slip at some point that we were trying to have a baby, and that she only about 5 days from her fertile period (she wasn't as she was on the pill), and that if he got lucky he just might beat me to the punch. She said the lover stepped up his game and gave her the best fucks thinking he might get lucky.

 

[BareBlackStud]

I regularly fuck white couples, it's a very popular kink rn.

 

[Dapperguy]

What a lot of inexperienced nonsense is rabbitted on here. Black guys are the worst cuckolders. My Handsome as Cheese visage, with my eight-inch and thick meat hook, is the best experience of cuckoldry that a couple could experience. My coup de grace is that I wear a codpiece before fucking them both senseless. Black guys are overrated and often useless at cuckoldry. The Black New World Order is mythical and is created by wannabes without a clue.

 

[artgorden]

I regularly fuck white couples, it's a very popular kink rn.

Tell me how much Mrs Gorden loves your cock while I'm blowing you and you own me.

 

[blkjames]

Well this is a subject that I know plenty about. The color contrast is the biggest turn on for most white couples, it's pure taboo and for the most part,it lets their inhibitions run wild. It's really got nothing to do with humiliation as it just pure lust. White husband told me long time ago that watching his wife with a black guy is like looking at a car accident, you just can't look away.

 

[BiDrew42]

I was married for almost 20 years, and for most of that time tried to convince my wife to take other lovers. The idea of her with other men, including black men, was a huge turn-on for me. I especially wanted her to get fucked while I was watching, and my ultimate fantasy was to clean her pussy and her lover's cock after he came inside her. She showed some interest from time to time, and got really aroused when we watched cuckold porn, but never would agree to actually try it.

A couple of years before we divorced, I began to suspect she was having an affair. It turned out she had finally granted my wish and turned me into a cuckold - she was having a steamy affair with her personal trainer, a tall, muscular, very attractive black man. While I was devastated that she was having an affair, the idea of her getting fucked by a well-hung black man got me hard as a rock every time I thought about it. Every time she was out late I imagined she was with him, sucking his cock and getting fucked in every position imaginable.

One night, she came home very late and got into bed, trying not to wake me. I was awake anyway, and I began kissing her. She tried to push me away, telling me she was too tired, but I was insistent, and she reluctantly gave in. She tried to stop me again when I maneuvered myself between her legs to eat her pussy. She was already soaking wet from her previous adventures, and I was hoping to lap up some of her lover's cum, but if he had cum inside her that night, it wasn't in her pussy or ass. She had several orgasms while I thoroughly ate her pussy and ass, and then I moved up and slid my cock into her wet cunt. It was probably my imagination, but it felt like her pussy was stretched wider than usual. It felt amazing, and I had a massive orgasm.

The next morning I told her I knew she was having an affair and we needed to have a serious talk. She tried to deny it, and continued to deny it later that day when we went out for drinks to discuss it. It made me more angry that she would deny it than the fact that she was having an affair in the first place. I told her I wanted a divorce, and the night ended with me sleeping on the couch. It took a few weeks, but she finally admitted to having an affair and that she had ended it and didn't want to get divorced. After several days of discussions I decided I wouldn't divorce her, and we established some ground rules for going forward. I told her if she ever wanted to have sex with other men, as long as she told me about it and didn't try to hide it from me, I would be supportive. I also mentioned I would love to participate in any capacity she was comfortable with. I also told her if she ever had another affair and didn't make me aware of it, I would divorce her.

The next several months were some of the best since early in our marriage. We were fucking like teenagers again, and were getting along better than we had in years. We traveled together quite a bit, and we did some sexual experimenting, but whenever I mentioned inviting another male to join us she brushed it off and said she had no need of another man since I was fulfilling all of her sexual needs.

About a year after her first affair (first that I was aware of, anyway), I began to suspect she was seeing someone again. It took another couple of months, but I was soon sure of it and hired a lawyer and private detective to confirm my suspicions. I was once again devastated when they provided me with clear evidence that she was fucking another black man. To my disgust, it still turned me on thinking of her with another man, but I was done. As soon as my lawyer had the papers drawn up, I confronted her. She tried to deny it again, really pissing me off, but caved in pretty quickly when I showed her the proof the private detective had acquired. I moved out, she agreed to an uncontested divorce, and it was finalized several months later.

To this day, I can't understand why she felt it necessary to try and hide it from me when I had very clearly indicated she could have other lovers as long as she told me about them. Anyway, divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me. I had been 100% monogamous while I was married to her, but after the divorce I once again immersed myself in the sexual lifestyle that I had been engaged in before we got married. I began a relationship with my long-time secretary who had also gotten divorced around the same time, and she was more than happy to satisfy all of my cuckold fantasies, along with many other fantasies that appealed to both of us.