What (if any) Sexual Word or Term or Reference do you dislike hearing ?

[NiceSlice]

My most offensive term to be heard is when a woman is called a “Cunt”. Second Place most offensive is “Slut”

When we admit to having a strong appreciation for good sex…those two words are often quickly used to describe us.
If a man speaks of enjoying creative sex, he gets much nicer descriptions.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I think the word, "dick" is a very juvenile term.
I'd rather hear the word penis than dick.

 

[Saint_Ann]

Cunnilingus. Who the fuck came up with that? "Cunnilingus me please."

 

[cdstefi]

Personally I like slut when reclaimed by a woman with genuine agency. Not when used as a pejorative by a man though.

Tranny drives me fucking nuts, it's such a lazy term applied to a whole spectrum of sexuality and gender identity and I'll totally judge people (guys) who use it as a catchall for any kinky shit that turns them on but dehumanises and belittles.

Also, nectar. Dude, your jizz isn't nectar, and neither is any kind of orgasmic discharge.

 

[Maturelickr]

Cunnilingus. Who the fuck came up with that? "Cunnilingus me please."

Eat me works, pun intended

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Boobies

 

[Ricardus]

Cunnilingus. Who the fuck came up with that? "Cunnilingus me please."

It's not a verb...

 

[HollyS]

I don't mind slut in certain situations, by which I mean when I use it or it's in the context of a relationship. I don't like hearing it used as a performative, obviously.

The main word I really dislike is cunt. There is just no context in which I want to hear that word.

I don't mind dick, really, but it conveys a different vibe than penis or even cock. I usually say cock, myself.

 

[HollyS]

There's something else I just thought of.

Swampy. I've read this and even has people use it in PMs. They describe a pussy as "swampy." Ugh.

Have you ever been to a swamp? What I remember is oppressive heat, black stinky gooey mud that tried to trap me, the smell of decaying flora and fauna, flies and mosquitoes that buzzed and bit and itched. Swamps are certainly ecological treasures, and all untamed nature has a wild beauty, but...

I do NOT want my pussy described as swampy. Bleh. If it ever got swampy, it would be time to seriously up my hygiene game!

I know they just mean warm and wet, but I just can't get rid of the image of an actual swamp.

 

[AlwaysDancing]

“Nasty”

Nothing wrong with the word per se.

But I think it’s colloquially started to slant misogynistic.

 

[Saint_Ann]

It's not a verb...

Perhaps a gerund...

 

[FataMorgana]

There's something else I just thought of.

Swampy. I've read this and even has people use it in PMs. They describe a pussy as "swampy." Ugh.

Have you ever been to a swamp? What I remember is oppressive heat, black stinky gooey mud that tried to trap me, the smell of decaying flora and fauna, flies and mosquitoes that buzzed and bit and itched. Swamps are certainly ecological treasures, and all untamed nature has a wild beauty, but...

I do NOT want my pussy described as swampy. Bleh. If it ever got swampy, it would be time to seriously up my hygiene game!

I know they just mean warm and wet, but I just can't get rid of the image of an actual swamp.

I can't stop laughing at this. What imbecile would liken your nethers to a swamp. I bloody love it.

"I'm gonna get you real swampy, sugar tits."

Like fucking Yeats that.

 

[Ricardus]

There's something else I just thought of.

Swampy. I've read this and even has people use it in PMs. They describe a pussy as "swampy." Ugh.

Have you ever been to a swamp? What I remember is oppressive heat, black stinky gooey mud that tried to trap me, the smell of decaying flora and fauna, flies and mosquitoes that buzzed and bit and itched. Swamps are certainly ecological treasures, and all untamed nature has a wild beauty, but...

I do NOT want my pussy described as swampy. Bleh. If it ever got swampy, it would be time to seriously up my hygiene game!

I know they just mean warm and wet, but I just can't get rid of the image of an actual swamp.

Swampy is definitely awful. I can't imagine someone being so clueless as to use that as a compliment! When I started reading your sentence, I thought it was going to be about an insult to do with bad hygiene.

I do disagree with you about "cunt," though. Not that it's horrible if misused as an insult addressed to a person; that's disgustingly reductive. But the word itself, in its real meaning, I think is strong and sensual and deep and hot and generally....delicious.

 

[Ricardus]

Perhaps a gerund...

Exactly; which is a noun

 

[Saint_Ann]

Exactly; which is a noun

If I asked you to cunnilingus me, would you refuse on the grounds of poor grammar?

 

[Ricardus]

If I asked you to cunnilingus me, would you refuse on the grounds of poor grammar?

Of course not. I would deliver the appropriate grammatical lecture in a manner that would best be described as cunnifuscus.

Depending on our relationship at the time, and what I knew of you and your preferences, I may also spank you.

 

[cdstefi]

“Nasty”

Nothing wrong with the word per se.

But I think it’s colloquially started to slant misogynistic.

All those terms that kind of connote violence or maliciousness and equate them with sex turn me the fuck OFF.

Like really, has anybody who really enjoys anal sex also enjoyed having it called smashing your back doors in?

 

[Escierto]

Personally I like slut when reclaimed by a woman with genuine agency. Not when used as a pejorative by a man though.

Tranny drives me fucking nuts, it's such a lazy term applied to a whole spectrum of sexuality and gender identity and I'll totally judge people (guys) who use it as a catchall for any kinky shit that turns them on but dehumanises and belittles.

Also, nectar. Dude, your jizz isn't nectar, and neither is any kind of orgasmic discharge.

I absolutely agree with you about tranny - I hate it and it is used so much by people who don't think there is anything wrong with it. To me it's like the N word. It just makes my blood boil.

 

[Yesok1]

All those terms that kind of connote violence or maliciousness and equate them with sex turn me the fuck OFF.

Like really, has anybody who really enjoys anal sex also enjoyed having it called smashing your back doors in?

I might say that to my girlfriend, "please smash my back door in!" She'd likely put her foot through my kitchen door!

 

[Not Normal]

The T and F slurs bother me. If the person wants to use that for themselves, it's OK but they throw me off.

I don't use cunt sexually often, but I do like the British style of referring to certain people, usually in reaction to their personality, or actions.

The opposite is true (for me) of slut. I don't like it outside of the bedroom. People referring to someone as a slut as a put down bugs me. The double standard of it all. But within sexual activity, it can be really hot, if used well.

 

[Yesok1]

I absolutely agree with you about tranny - I hate it and it is used so much by people who don't think there is anything wrong with it. To me it's like the N word. It just makes my blood boil.

I don't like it either, I cringed when that musician won the whammy and announced they were a tranny with a whammy.

I also didn't used to like the term queer, but my partner uses it to describe herself and dyke, I thought was derogatory, But, now I'm more comfortable with them both.

 

[Escierto]

I don't like it either, I cringed when that musician won the whammy and announced they were a tranny with a whammy.

I also didn't used to like the term queer, but my partner uses it to describe herself and dyke, I thought was derogatory, But, now I'm more comfortable with them both.

Yes, I used to have issues with queer but it seems to have been reclaimed with a positive spin.

 

[cdstefi]

I don't like it either, I cringed when that musician won the whammy and announced they were a tranny with a whammy.

I also didn't used to like the term queer, but my partner uses it to describe herself and dyke, I thought was derogatory, But, now I'm more comfortable with them both.

My wife refers to herself as queer, quite distinctly as opposed to bi. I'm honestly not sure what the distinction is really.

I do know it grips my shit when other CD/TVs use pejoratives to describe themselves e.g. as whore or bimbo. Slut I don't mind so much as I equate that with a certain hedonistic attitude which I kind of admire, but when guys dressing as women (NB I do not include women AMAB here) use the kind of language regular Neanderthal guys use about women, that's not sexy. It's just projecting more misogyny and you wearing a skirt and knickers doesn't make it less so.

 

[LMWM321]

Spunk, spooge, jiz... Totally gross. ...Just say cum or semen.

 

[Escierto]

My wife refers to herself as queer, quite distinctly as opposed to bi. I'm honestly not sure what the distinction is really.

I do know it grips my shit when other CD/TVs use pejoratives to describe themselves e.g. as whore or bimbo. Slut I don't mind so much as I equate that with a certain hedonistic attitude which I kind of admire, but when guys dressing as women (NB I do not include women AMAB here) use the kind of language regular Neanderthal guys use about women, that's not sexy. It's just projecting more misogyny and you wearing a skirt and knickers doesn't make it less so.

YES.