What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

[cypressknee]

LOL, marriage counselor asked me what was different about a threesome, or watching, or having her be somewhere else and telling me about it. Wasn't it all her being with another man? I asked him, "What kind of football fan are you? The kind who PLAYS and has to be on the field, or the kind who has to be at the game? Or the kind who is content to hear the highlights on the news later? A threesome is like playing in the sex super bowl. Watching is like being kicked off the team and having to settle for being in the stands, and hearing about it later from her is like being banned from the stadium entirely and having to wait for the news." Counselor laughed and said that was the first time he really got the difference, he had played in the NFL for 6 years. "Put me in Coach!" I totally agree.

I also think to myself..after watching for a minute..you think that was good momma??…want me to show him how daddy does it right??….move over Jr…let me show you how she really likes it!

 

[cypressknee]

I also think to myself..after watching for a minute..you think that was good momma??…want me to show him how daddy does it right??….move over Jr…let me show you how she really likes it!

LOL, marriage counselor asked me what was different about a threesome, or watching, or having her be somewhere else and telling me about it. Wasn't it all her being with another man? I asked him, "What kind of football fan are you? The kind who PLAYS and has to be on the field, or the kind who has to be at the game? Or the kind who is content to hear the highlights on the news later? A threesome is like playing in the sex super bowl. Watching is like being kicked off the team and having to settle for being in the stands, and hearing about it later from her is like being banned from the stadium entirely and having to wait for the news." Counselor laughed and said that was the first time he really got the difference, he had played in the NFL for 6 years. "Put me in Coach!" I totally agree.

Or even better if “she” says…come play with my tits while my husband shows you how it’s done

 

[Beachsyrf]

Well, she denied for years that they ever slept together. It led to me craving her fucking other men. I told her often that I would love to see her fuck another man. She

“ ….. it led to me craving her fucking other men ……” perfectly stated and something to which so many of us can relate …

 

[Steve99699]

I came home one night when I was married to my ex-wife. It was obvious she had not been home all evening. I was working 2:00-10:00. The house was exactly as I had left it. I already suspected her of having an affair with her boss. This was the confirmation for me. I confronted her and of course she denied sleeping with him. She confessed that she went to his house with the intent of fucking him, but said that she couldn’t follow through with it. What a lie. I left with her pleading with me to stay. I went down the road and called a friend. She was available and I went to her apartment. I fuxjed her like a madman possessed. The entire time I was fucking her and wearing out her tight little pussy, I was imagining my wife fucking her boss. I was in fire imaging how they did it, what they did, how large is his cock, etc.

Totally fucking , stud. You've got my mature married cock beginning to leak precum. I'm not going to have to JO as I imagine my wife in the same position

 

[Tom_Brown]

LOL, marriage counselor asked me what was different about a threesome, or watching, or having her be somewhere else and telling me about it. Wasn't it all her being with another man? I asked him, "What kind of football fan are you? The kind who PLAYS and has to be on the field, or the kind who has to be at the game? Or the kind who is content to hear the highlights on the news later? A threesome is like playing in the sex super bowl. Watching is like being kicked off the team and having to settle for being in the stands, and hearing about it later from her is like being banned from the stadium entirely and having to wait for the news." Counselor laughed and said that was the first time he really got the difference, he had played in the NFL for 6 years. "Put me in Coach!" I totally agree.

Personally, I like being in the stands (or actually on the field but as a spectator). I’m not really into the two of us sharing her as much as I am watching every detail of the encounter. Being able to see a large cock (close up) spreading my wife’s once faithful pussy is incredible. Not to mention their moans and her expressing her self vocally during the act.

I’m also not opposed to the tag team scenario also:
They have sex, then when he’s done, her and I have sex.

I have been outside the room listening to her screams, moans, and sexy-talk with her lover.

I guess if I can’t be there, I’d love for her to tell me in detail, everything that happened and how she was feeling during the act.

But finding out she did it with no details is definitely not something that I want to find out about.

 

[Sgts19]

Personally, I like being in the stands (or actually on the field but as a spectator). I’m not really into the two of us sharing her as much as I am watching every detail of the encounter. Being able to see a large cock (close up) spreading wife wife’s once faithful pussy is incredible. Not to mention their moans and her expressing her self vocally during the act.

I’m also not opposed to the tag team scenario also:
They have sex, then when he’s done, her and I have sex.

I have been outside the room listening to her screams, moans, and sexy-talk with her lover.

I guess if I can’t be there, I’d love for her to tell me in detail, everything that happened and how she was feeling during the act.

But finding out she did it with no details is definitely not something that I want to find out about.

That statement you posted very close to my thoughts. Being on the side lines watching or listening to her and what her reactions are with someone else

 

[Rob_Royale]

My wife and I are happily monogamous. But I've always fantasized about giving my wife an epic one time experience with myself and another man. The idea of spit roasting her or giving her just an epic fuck for as long as he and I can hold out. So that she walks funny with a permananet smile for days.

 

[zoso682001]

My wife and I are happily monogamous. But I've always fantasized about giving my wife an epic one time experience with myself and another man. The idea of spit roasting her or giving her just an epic fuck for as long as he and I can hold out. So that she walks funny with a permananet smile for days.

That's a great fantasy and an even greater reality .

 

[Rob_Royale]

That's a great fantasy and an even greater reality .

It's just a fantasy. Neither my wife nor I are all that interested in pursuing it in real life. My wife would say no because she would expect me to ask for a FMF threesome in return and she's very jealous. She'd rather see another woman dead than lay a hand on me. So expanding our still healthy sex life (33 years!) isn't gonna happen. And we're cool with that.

 

[zoso682001]

It's just a fantasy. Neither my wife nor I are all that interested in pursuing it in real life. My wife would say no because she would expect me to ask for a FMF threesome in return and she's very jealous. She'd rather see another woman dead than lay a hand on me. So expanding our still healthy sex life (33 years!) isn't gonna happen. And we're cool with that.

Understand . Sometimes we just have to stay in our lane .

 

[Tom_Brown]

It's just a fantasy. Neither my wife nor I are all that interested in pursuing it in real life. My wife would say no because she would expect me to ask for a FMF threesome in return and she's very jealous. She'd rather see another woman dead than lay a hand on me. So expanding our still healthy sex life (33 years!) isn't gonna happen. And we're cool with that.

My wife is also very jealous. It took over 15 years of me asking her to fuck another guy and convincing her that I have no desire to be with another woman, before she agreed to fuck another guy. She loved it, but her conservative upbringing, religious beliefs, and reluctance caused her to not indulge again (after 3x).

 

[WildFireTN]

You say “she loved it” but she does not want to indulge again.
Does she talk to you about how she feels and why she is not open for more?

 

[Tom_Brown]

You say “she loved it” but she does not want to indulge again.
Does she talk to you about how she feels and why she is not open for more?

During the act, she loved it. But afterwards, her moral, religious, and conservative upbringing kept reminding her that it was wrong. She was taught that sex was reserved for only your spouse and having sex with others was wrong.

Around 15 years ago we began going through our dry spell and I was working out of town 5 days a week. She would tell me that she need to be fucked, but when I returned home, we fought a lot. I told her to get a fuck buddy to satisfy her sexual needs, but she refused.

Eventually, we stopped having sex all together and I wouldn’t doubt if she eventually took a lover (or 2). I’ve asked, but she denies it.

 

[PG564E]

During the act, she loved it. But afterwards, her moral, religious, and conservative upbringing kept reminding her that it was wrong. She was taught that sex was reserved for only your spouse and having sex with others was wrong.

Around 1( years ago we began going through our dry spell and I was working out of town 5 days a week. She would tell me that she need to be fucked, but when I returned home, we fought a lot. I told her to get a fuck buddy to satisfy her sexual needs, but she refused.

Eventually, we stopped having sex all together and I wouldn’t doubt if she eventually took a lover (or 2). I’ve asked, but she denies it.

Damn shame. Crazy world my friend. I was in my 40's and we having a lot of good sex. I imagined her being double teamed, or me coming home to find her sucking dick, with 1 other naked man deep in her pussy. Helluva fucking turn on.

 

[Tom_Brown]

Damn shame. Crazy world my friend. I was in my 40's and we having a lot of good sex. I imagined her being double teamed, or me coming home to find her sucking dick, with 1 other naked man deep in her pussy. Helluva fucking turn on.

You “imagine”, but has she fucked another or talked about it?

 

[WildFireTN]

My Wifey is very similar!
“…her moral, religious, and conservative upbringing kept reminding her that it was wrong. She was taught that sex was reserved for only your spouse and having sex with others was wrong.” Yes, for my WIfey also. Christian conservative Southern family, sex is for marriage. We waited to be married for full sex. We pushed the limits before we said "I Do". My Wifey is exceptional, as she learned to please herself early on and she still enjoys sex, and is willing to do anything with me. We are long time married—married at 20 & 19, during college. Babies came 7 years later. Our early sex life was crazy. We made up for wating to have sex. We had sex every morning and evening for years. Who knows how many afternoon delights we have enjoyed. We are recently retired after a long professional career for both, and having more time on our hands for fun, we are at it again. We are youthful, in great shape, physically fit and sexually on fire.
I am pushing her to think about being open for sex partners, couples, moresomes, other…!

 

[PG564E]

No Tom, I was hoping she would go for it, but her background was similar to what you described. I think the idea thrilled her, but my wish never happened.
30 years ago now.

 

[One_ping_only]

My wife is also very jealous. It took over 15 years of me asking her to fuck another guy and convincing her that I have no desire to be with another woman, before she agreed to fuck another guy. She loved it, but her conservative upbringing, religious beliefs, and reluctance caused her to not indulge again (after 3x).

Well at least you got to watch and participated 3x while I've only been able to fantasized about my wife doing anything remotely naughty.

Having been raised in a strict Roman Catholic upbringing in the Philippines and the morals, sins conundrum she just can't ......... and of course the " good mom and wife " she now portrays to everyone in our real life world ummm there's just no way. Sad to say?!?

 

[phil1955]

The key for me is knowing how much she enjoys sex and how much she enjoys getting to try a new cock. Some lovers are not all that great but she still likes to see what they got and what they can do for her.

 

[Ramone45]

I knew my wife and her college boyfriend. They were a striking couple, and she loved him. She told me that she never enjoyed sex more than with him. He made her cum in so many ways. He was probably about 6'2". My wife is 5'7". She liked the size differential and the fact that he could physically dominate her. She told me he had a big, un-cut cock that she could not get enough of. The thing she liked the most is that he would lift her off the ground. She said he would fuck her standing up and impale her on his dick and she would have a steady orgasm. She felt totally helpless. just gushing all over his cock. She also loved giving him head because she loved playing with his foreskin.

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

He likes watching me cum with a stranger with a big dick and then he joins or he cleans up after.

 

[Winchester3030]

I knew my wife and her college boyfriend. They were a striking couple, and she loved him. She told me that she never enjoyed sex more than with him. He made her cum in so many ways. He was probably about 6'2". My wife is 5'7". She liked the size differential and the fact that he could physically dominate her. She told me he had a big, un-cut cock that she could not get enough of. The thing she liked the most is that he would lift her off the ground. She said he would fuck her standing up and impale her on his dick and she would have a steady orgasm. She felt totally helpless. just gushing all over his cock. She also loved giving him head because she loved playing with his foreskin.

That is so Hot! I bet she would love to have him again

 

[Justfantasies]

He likes watching me cum with a stranger with a big dick and then he joins or he cleans up after.

There is nothing like reclaiming her after she has fucked another guy

 

[Ramone45]

That is so Hot! I bet she would love to have him again

She would hook up with him again in a minute, LOL.

 

[Winchester3030]

She would hook up with him again in a minute, LOL.

That would be some great watching