What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

[Representingmyhotwife]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

I share the same thoughts.

 

[Nellie60]

I'm not sure if I am qualified to properly interpret my reasoning for it, but I do know, it gives me a very powerful and erotic response to think about. The thought of my wife having sex with another man never had any appeal to me, until I was in my early 30's, and had been married for 20 years. I kept it to myself, and secretly masturbated, while thinking of her sucking/fucking other men. I 'hinted' in bed, that it would be okay for her to have other men, but she never took me seriously.

When she did think I was serious about it, her main objection, was that I would use her infidelity, as an excuse to fuck other women, which she just could NOT agree to. I could not convince her otherwise, until recently, when an old boyfriend of hers made contact through social media. This started a 'sexting' frenzy between the two of them, which I eventually became aware of. This time, it didn't take much convincing, to let her know I would welcome her seeing him for sex. Real sex, not just online.

At first, she and her former boyfriend didn't believe me, but they soon saw how excited I was to give them the green light for a 'sex date.' I cannot fully explain "why," but I can tell you, it was one of the most exciting sexual moments of my life when my wife came home, after a 6 hour date with him, and told me that she had just swallowed a load of his cum, after giving him a blow job. She wanted to know, if I wanted her to shower, or brush her teeth before I took her to bed. She had agreed to, as part of our 'arrangement', for her to go on a date with him. And, 'no,' I did not want her to shower, or brush her teeth. Straight to bed.

That's very hot. Well written. Did you feel any different after she came back? She would of and you would of heard every detail of that date and was it only a blow job? Will they continue seeing each other for more?

 

[OdysseusMan]

A number of things, but the biggest is that stomach churning feeling that she wants it, is going to do it, no matter what I think...

 

[Escierto]

It doesn't really turn me on hearing about my girlfriend's experiences before I came along but I find them interesting in giving me a window into what her life was like before me.

She really did not form any long term attachments to men - she met up with them basically so she could fuck them. Only in a few cases did she even see a guy more than once.

There was one guy, an Irish man who was married and came to Manila on business. She liked him a lot and actually slept overnight with him in his hotel. That was very unusual for her. She said that she could hear his conversations on the phone with his wife often right after she had fucked his ass and was still lying in bed with him.

I think if he had not been married, they might have formed a relationship but who knows? Her sex life back then was like a horny guy on the prowl: find 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em.

 

[JamieDuly]

Can’t speak for everyone (and many people here said similar things) but for me its more about enjoying watching her getting enjoyment. Don’t need to over explain but to simplify, its like the old story about the parents on Christmas morning. We work all year and can provide for ourselves. The gift we most appreciate on Christmas is watching our loved ones open the presents and the joy they experience of watching their bliss and excitement

 

[Nellie60]

Can’t speak for everyone (and many people here said similar things) but for me its more about enjoying watching her getting enjoyment. Don’t need to over explain but to simplify, its like the old story about the parents on Christmas morning. We work all year and can provide for ourselves. The gift we most appreciate on Christmas is watching our loved ones open the presents and the joy they experience of watching their bliss and excitement

There also the aspect of seeing her exciting other men. eg watching her enjoying performing acts on other men and loving it.

 

[Sgts19]

Can’t speak for everyone (and many people here said similar things) but for me its more about enjoying watching her getting enjoyment. Don’t need to over explain but to simplify, its like the old story about the parents on Christmas morning. We work all year and can provide for ourselves. The gift we most appreciate on Christmas is watching our loved ones open the presents and the joy they experience of watching their bliss and excitement

I agree the more fun she has the more exciting it is for me

 

[peter49parker]

That's very hot. Well written. Did you feel any different after she came back? She would of and you would of heard every detail of that date and was it only a blow job? Will they continue seeing each other for more?

Thank you for your kind comments. By the time she came home, I was so sexually excited, that it didn't take long before I was cumming in her mouth. She went on three dates with him and they all culminated in blow jobs. There were plans to have intercourse, but sadly she has a dry vagina, making it too painful to take his cock, which, by the way, she says is a lot bigger than mine, and thicker. Her plans to get her pussy 'fixed' are currently on hold due to other health issues. Once she is able to, there are plans to meet up again, and again. I am fully committed and 100% supportive, of her hooking up with him again.

 

[kinky_jat]

What the biggest turn on about my e being with another man, that She is with another man and not Me.

 

[AuBonPain]

Hard to explain but I’ve been turned on by the thought of my gf or wife allowing another man to penetrate her pussy or mouth. I’m not into her kissing another man but sex without kissing is probably not realistic. There’s something erotic about jealousy. It’s happened a couple of times with an ex gf and it felt like I was punched in the gut, but also very turned on.

 

[Lonelyinwa]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

A man with a much bigger cock than me giving her pleasure and orgasms she never dreamed of experiencing is what turns me on about it.

 

[mbikeguy]

I love hearing about her past experiences. It gets me so hard thinking about her hands playing with his cock then her mouth wrapped around him. Hearing about the different sizes she has had

 

[N2outdoors]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

So many things about it, some you have already touched on. For one, just wanting to see how she would respond to another man, especially a well endowed man. Would she gasp at the site of his large cock? Would she pay more attention to his cock? What would be her reaction as he entered her for the forty time? Wood she mane more noise as he fed her his big member? Would she have more orgasms? More intense orgasms? Would she be more uninhibited with another man? Would she be a total slut? Plus, there is something arousing about thinking of your wife being a real sexual being at heart, not just something she dies out of duty.

 

[N2outdoors]

It's the act of reclaiming her that is exciting and knowing that she is valuable -- desirable to other men

I agree completely with that statement. Reclaiming is off the charts.

 

[N2outdoors]

It's the act of reclaiming her that is exciting and knowing that she is valuable -- desirable to other men

I agree completely with that statement. Reclaiming is off the charts

For me it’s that she so conservative and bashful about conversations and I just want to know what turned her on in the past, what gets her going. I am caught up fantasizing about what she did, how she acted and such before me.

Exactly!!

 

[N2outdoors]

I've always been fascinated with big Dick porn.
When my wife admitted she had a friend with benefits for years up until we started dating with an absolutely monster Dick, It was a blow to my sexual ego but I was also unbelievably aroused.

Whenever I see a woman taking a huge black Dick I think of my wife in that position and have encouraged her to revisit him if she wanted to.
Its become the most intense fantasy I have. Would have never ever thought I would have a fantasy like that.

I understand completely how you feel. Been there and it becomes an obsession

 

[N2outdoors]

I have another motive for posting pics of my girlfriend. All anyone ever sees of trans women is porn so when a guy thinks about a trans woman, they are the only images in his mind.

I post pics of my girl so people can see a normal transgender woman in normal settings with her clothes on. So they can look at her and imagine that they too could have a trans girlfriend and do normal things like go out to eat, go to social events, go to the movies. They can see her not as some exotic creature but as a woman like any other who likes to do the same stuff.

I’d love to see her pics. I have a trans girl fantasy.

 

[Escierto]

I’d love to see her pics. I have a trans girl fantasy.

You must be the only person on the site who hasn't seen her pics. I bore people with her! I will send you a message with some links.

 

[Nellie60]

So many things about it, some you have already touched on. For one, just wanting to see how she would respond to another man, especially a well endowed man. Would she gasp at the site of his large cock? Would she pay more attention to his cock? What would be her reaction as he entered her for the forty time? Wood she mane more noise as he fed her his big member? Would she have more orgasms? More intense orgasms? Would she be more uninhibited with another man? Would she be a total slut? Plus, there is something arousing about thinking of your wife being a real sexual being at heart, not just something she dies out of duty.

I like that whether she would be more uninhibited with another man. Would she get more excited...there's something hot and erotic watching her let go on another man and only you would know....I get really turned on fantasing about one ex girlfriend being a wanton slut especially seeing her excitement and reactions plus just how her sexual techniques may change with someone else....

 

[Nellie60]

I love hearing about her past experiences. It gets me so hard thinking about her hands playing with his cock then her mouth wrapped around him. Hearing about the different sizes she has had

Like we all said wouldn't it be so hot to be that fly on the wall during all her encounters..

 

[Nellie60]

Hard to explain but I’ve been turned on by the thought of my gf or wife allowing another man to penetrate her pussy or mouth. I’m not into her kissing another man but sex without kissing is probably not realistic. There’s something erotic about jealousy. It’s happened a couple of times with an ex gf and it felt like I was punched in the gut, but also very turned on.

Here..here..I definitely hear you. There something hot about feeling some jealous. I think its cause you have experienced her before and watching her with someone else really hot fantasy knowing what's she's like..and seeing and hearing the details because just those reasons its hot.

 

[N2outdoors]

I think about the faces she would make or the noises she would make while taking a large cock

And watching her pussy strain to take his very enlarged manhood. Seeing her lips part wide to accommodate him, as they wrap around his long thick shaft. Seeing her lips grip his shaft and being pull up and then down as he enters and the exits her wet juicy pussy. Hearing her wetness sloshing as he picks up the pace.

 

[Nellie60]

Like we all said wouldn't it be so hot to be that fly on the wall during all her encounters..

In that way we would know if she is uninhibited with someone else and completely open to everything or be like what you know she's like.

 

[van_delay]

And watching her pussy strain to take his very enlarged manhood. Seeing her lips part wide to accommodate him, as they wrap around his long thick shaft. Seeing her lips grip his shaft and being pull up and then down as he enters and the exits her wet juicy pussy. Hearing her wetness sloshing as he picks up the pace.

All of this, yes

 

[N2outdoors]

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

There's lot of guys out there who write about their wives etc with other men. What exactly turns you on about it?

A fetish being realised? Actually watching her?
Knowing what she's really like and imagining her giving and receiving the same with someone else? Feeling submissive about it?

For me its sort of erotic knowing what she like and watching her let go the same way with another man. ie seeing her display what turns her on. And knowing that she very desirable to other men who now have the pleasure that I have experienced.

Cum on let me know!

I came home one night when I was married to my ex-wife. It was obvious she had not been home all evening. I was working 2:00-10:00. The house was exactly as I had left it. I already suspected her of having an affair with her boss. This was the confirmation for me. I confronted her and of course she denied sleeping with him. She confessed that she went to his house with the intent of fucking him, but said that she couldn’t follow through with it. What a lie. I left with her pleading with me to stay. I went down the road and called a friend. She was available and I went to her apartment. I fuxjed her like a madman possessed. The entire time I was fucking her and wearing out her tight little pussy, I was imagining my wife fucking her boss. I was in fire imaging how they did it, what they did, how large is his cock, etc.