Sex & Shenanigans

[__Nathan1968]

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@__Nathan1968

 

[hotoldrguy]

If you had offended someone unintentionally.. would you want them to message you to attempt to fix it before they just wrote you off?
If someone offended / upset you … would you give them a second chance or a chance to explain or just be done with them?

I would want them to message me, since I would not have done it on purpose. We all have our "buttons" and "bad days" I would just let it go unless they were a complete asshat all the time

 

[morelikeasong]

If you had offended someone unintentionally.. would you want them to message you to attempt to fix it before they just wrote you off?
If someone offended / upset you … would you give them a second chance or a chance to explain or just be done with them?

Definitely want them to message me.

Or I will sense that they are upset and preemptively PM to apologize and check in, as I’ve done a handful of times on here.

 

[crazychemgirl]

My pizza pocket was as horribly delicious as I remembered

 

[jason28053]

If you had offended someone unintentionally.. would you want them to message you to attempt to fix it before they just wrote you off?
If someone offended / upset you … would you give them a second chance or a chance to explain or just be done with them?

I would want them to at least tell me a reason or what I did so I can do better going forward. I think having closure is important would give me peace of mind

I would definitely give someone a chance to explain and give them a second chance if I felt it was warranted

 

[Amanda330]

If you had offended someone unintentionally.. would you want them to message you to attempt to fix it before they just wrote you off?
If someone offended / upset you … would you give them a second chance or a chance to explain or just be done with them?

I would want the chance to fix it, of course. I can guarantee that I'm never intentionally being offensive but I know I'm not always cognizant of the nuance of emotions a post may cause someone. I think maybe sometimes I'm absent minded and say things without thinking... Or post without thinking.

I think it depends on the offense tbh. Sometimes it just isn't worth talking about.

 

[jason28053]

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[BrendaBear]

If you had offended someone unintentionally.. would you want them to message you to attempt to fix it before they just wrote you off?

Yes, I don't want to offend anyone and certainly don't want them to think I did it intentionally.

If someone offended / upset you … would you give them a second chance or a chance to explain or just be done with them?

If they offended me? I would have to be super offended to be that upset but I think I would give them a second chance. I certainly have many times in real life.

But, when someone tells jokes that I find offensive - I would never say anything, I would just eventually ignore them because in my mind, they have done nothing wrong. That's just their humor and that's fine. If it bothers me, that's probably just because of some issue of mine.

 

[jason28053]

I would want the chance to fix it, of course. I can guarantee that I'm never intentionally being offensive but I know I'm not always cognizant of the nuance of emotions a post may cause someone. I think maybe sometimes I'm absent minded and say things without thinking... Or post without thinking.

I think it depends on the offense tbh. Sometimes it just isn't worth talking about.

If I may ask? What would be an offense that isn’t worth talking about?

 

[UnquietDreams]

Have you hit your bird watching age yet? … it follows the appliance excitement age.

I am at bee keeping age...

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

If you had offended someone unintentionally.. would you want them to message you to attempt to fix it before they just wrote you off?
If someone offended / upset you … would you give them a second chance or a chance to explain or just be done with them?

A) usually. Like, I don’t want fucking randos telling me I upset them or nothing. But someone I know? Yes. I’m rarely trying to be offensive so I’d appreciate the opportunity to clarify if I have.
B). Imma pretty forgiving person. We all fuck up. I sure as shit have. Takes a pattern for me.

 

[morelikeasong]

If someone offended / upset you … would you give them a second chance or a chance to explain or just be done with them?

Whoops I missed this part.
I’m such a hypocrite because if you hurt my feelings or offend me… 95% chance I’m never going to tell you. Unless you ask me directly in which case I might. Or I will just stuff it down into the void.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

If you had offended someone unintentionally.. would you want them to message you to attempt to fix it before they just wrote you off?
If someone offended / upset you … would you give them a second chance or a chance to explain or just be done with them?

Yes. I never mean to insult, offend, or demean anyone. I want to know I messed up, and how; otherwise, how do I correct myself?

I'm damn near impossible to offend. But, if that happened, I have no problem telling someone so.

My pizza pocket was as horribly delicious as I remembered

That's.... hot... I think?

 

[UnquietDreams]

I just put this up last night. I might have been staring out the window saying this a few min ago

Tweet tweet?

 

[morelikeasong]

Whoops I missed this part.
I’m such a hypocrite because if you hurt my feelings or offend me… 95% chance I’m never going to tell you. Unless you ask me directly in which case I might. Or I will just stuff it down into the void.

I know guys… I’m sorry.

According to the book I’m currently reading I’m going to get cancer because of this so, don’t worry, it will come back to bite me in the ass

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

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@hotoldrguy Present!

@lavendersilk

@MischiefMakerAlways

@vagrantx

Shenanigang Roll Call, count off now!

@UnquietDreams here!

@BrendaD

@Amanda330

@__Nathan1968

@jason28053

@SalaciousMonkey22

Will this give us a roll sheet?

 

[crazychemgirl]

I know guys… I’m sorry.

According to the book I’m currently reading I’m going to get cancer because of this so, don’t worry, it will come back to bite me in the ass

 

[crazychemgirl]

@SalaciousMonkey22

Will this give us a roll sheet?

No … I just felt like it.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

No … I just felt like it.

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[SalaciousMonkey22]

If I may ask? What would be an offense that isn’t worth talking about?

Can’t speak for her but I know there are plenty of time were someone I’m only moderately close with does some shit and I think a) there’s little fucking chance they're ever going to understand what they did wrong and b) this relationship isn’t important enough to me to put that much energy and emotion into trying to make them.

 

[curious_me]

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[hotoldrguy]

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[crazychemgirl]

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[__Nathan1968]

Whoops I missed this part.
I’m such a hypocrite because if you hurt my feelings or offend me… 95% chance I’m never going to tell you. Unless you ask me directly in which case I might. Or I will just stuff it down into the void.

I must be part of the lucky 5%.

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[lavendersilk]

Can’t speak for her but I know there are plenty of time were someone I’m only moderately close with does some shit and I think a) there’s little fucking chance they're ever going to understand what they did wrong and b) this relationship isn’t important enough to me to put that much energy and emotion into trying to make them.

Yep. Guilty.