Sex & Shenanigans

[UnquietDreams]

Doing my best job of mimicking a certain someone who catches up way late, but jumping in 5 hours after you post this.

Actual sexiness has so little to do with physical appearance. It is 90% who you are. Are you smart, are you interesting, can you make someone feel good just by paying attention to them, are you funny, are you one of any of a dozen traits that draw people to you.

Long before I’ve seen pics of almost anyone here, I’ve decided if i find them sexy or not. Seeing each other’s physical appearances just gives you a visual to ponder while thinking about someone’s appeal.

Don’t worry about your physical form relating to your appeal. You’ve got loads of people interested in what you have to say, and are excited to learn from that great big brain of yours that has diverse interests and enjoys sharing tjem.

I’ve now written a post that’s about as long as your typical music post, so I’ll stop prattling on, just listen to these voices telling you good things, and remember, that inner voice is an asshole that you don’t have to agree with. Keep being sexy.

Thank you, for all of it and how you live it here.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Don’t be hating cause G.I. Joe never had a Canadien. Alpha Flight was a solid comic . You got what you deserved

Alpha Flight was awesome. First out superhero. First Nations superhero. Sasquatch! Puck!

Awesome!

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Ain’t arguing

 

[Photog1rl]

Read American Gods. You’ll get all the basics, with a modern twist.

I'm reading that now. I'm about 1/4 way in and I'm really enjoying it!

 

[UnquietDreams]

I think where we run into problems as ladies on here, is that we want to hype you & make you feel good about yourselves, but it's not safe to do so. We want to like your picture when you share. However, if we do, we risk an inbox of depravity. The few cretins ruin it for the rest of you.

To address your fantadtic summary, I've found myself attracted to people here who are not at all my typical type, all because they appealed to me on an emotional & intellectual level. By the time you see them, they're already attractive, it's just putting a face to the voice.

I can't imagine what it's like for a woman on here, especially one who posts pictures. S&S seems pretty self regulating when it comes to respect, and sometimes you forget some people who come to a sex site.

My DMs (or PMs, CCG) are pretty quiet, but even I get a random.

 

[__Nathan1968]

I'm reading that now. I'm about 1/4 way in and I'm really enjoying it!

I’m going to re-read this

 

[BrendaBear]

I’m going to re-read this

I’m so confused. Why? It took longer to type that then to read “this”. And re-reading it? So… that’s like “this this this this this…”

 

[crazychemgirl]

I can't imagine what it's like for a woman on here, especially one who posts pictures. S&S seems pretty self regulating when it comes to respect, and sometimes you forget some people who come to a sex site.

My DMs (or PMs, CCG) are pretty quiet, but even I get a random.

A random, eh?

 

[MindYaBitness]

I can't imagine what it's like for a woman on here, especially one who posts pictures. S&S seems pretty self regulating when it comes to respect, and sometimes you forget some people who come to a sex site.

My DMs (or PMs, CCG) are pretty quiet, but even I get a random.

My AV is my cleavage, my name is provocative and I post pics when Salty's got a good theme or my friends are posting in Chaos. I expect a certain amount of DMs, and truth be told I find no end of amusement in my inbox. That being said, it's sad to know that like or complimenting a guy will lead to an almost immediate, odd, at times desperate, at other times graphic, message. Reactions≠Wanting sex

 

[RaineDrops]

I can't imagine what it's like for a woman on here, especially one who posts pictures. S&S seems pretty self regulating when it comes to respect, and sometimes you forget some people who come to a sex site.

My DMs (or PMs, CCG) are pretty quiet, but even I get a random.

If you are interested, I can send more randoms your way.

 

[Photog1rl]

My AV is my cleavage, my name is provocative and I post pics when Salty's got a good theme or my friends are posting in Chaos. I expect a certain amount of DMs, and truth be told I find no end of amusement in my inbox. That being said, it's sad to know that like or complimenting a guy will lead to an almost immediate, odd, at times desperate, at other times graphic, message. Reactions≠Wanting sex

Someone said earlier we should nitmaloxe compliments and I completely agree.
Usually I give a heart or a positive comment when guys share because it seems as a man they get fewer comments or positive interactions and I appreciate people that are vulnerable enough to share. This does mean that sometimes my interactions are misunderstood but I respond nicely to the polite ones and ignore the negative ones. Thankfully I havent been getting all that many gross ones recently.

You are so correct though @Tigobitties98 Reactions≠Wanting sex

 

[Amanda330]

My AV is my cleavage, my name is provocative and I post pics when Salty's got a good theme or my friends are posting in Chaos. I expect a certain amount of DMs, and truth be told I find no end of amusement in my inbox. That being said, it's sad to know that like or complimenting a guy will lead to an almost immediate, odd, at times desperate, at other times graphic, message. Reactions≠Wanting sex

Someone said earlier we should nitmaloxe compliments and I completely agree.
Usually I give a heart or a positive comment when guys share because it seems as a man they get fewer comments or positive interactions and I appreciate people that are vulnerable enough to share. This does mean that sometimes my interactions are misunderstood but I respond nicely to the polite ones and ignore the negative ones. Thankfully I havent been getting all that many gross ones recently.

You are so correct though @Tigobitties98 Reactions≠Wanting sex

I so agree with both of you. I do really try to make sure I'm liking men's posts because I feel like there are so many more men here than women and I think men also deserve some love for putting themselves out there and being brave. It takes a lot of confidence and can be a scary thing to share your body with strangers and you hope the feedback will be positive.

However, that doesn't mean I want creepy messages but I usually just delete them. Nbd.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

Math is way sexier than cheese.

Dammit, I had a witty comment for how insanely wrong you are when I hit the multiquote button, but forgot entirely after reading all the deeper stuff that followed. You’re still wrong though!

I am not sure I have ever felt particularly sexy, honestly.

I mean… I liked your Santa hat pic. Why wouldn’t you think you are sexy?

I was playing into a joke. I felt it was a little goofy, but I wouldn't call it sexy.

Heh, I was in a worn out tee shirt, with a scraggly beard and a Santa hat. (The Santa hat had Winnie the Pooh on it, by the by, but you couldn't see that part.) I am not sure sexy applies to any of that.

If it helps at all, I thought the Santa hat pic you posted last night was sexy! Especially the warmth and humor in your eyes and smile Knowing now it was a Winnie the Pooh Santa hat makes it even better, TBH People who don’t take themselves too seriously are much hotter than those who do!

Oh, that's easy. St. Patrick's Day when I wore my kilt to church and all the little old little tried to see if I was wearing underwear. It's a rare thing for me to be objectified and the way I was that morning was harmless, novel, and a real ego boost. Those ladies have never seen a sexier pair of knees than what I showed them that day.

Haha you do have nice knees, and NGL, I’ve watched every episode of Outlander and Men In Kilts, and men (in general) in kilts are You, in particular, are extra sexy for reasons previously mentioned and definitely in my list of top 5 guys I would be alllll over if I wasn’t trying not to start with any more married guys

Awww you two are making me sad. I feel sexy all the time. It’s really nice when others agree but totally not a requirement.

To be less flippant about, I spent a lot of my life way too overweight. Didn’t feel particularly sexy, lost a lot of it, was absolutely dead fucking sexy. Gained too much back, but managed to realize that it wasn’t the weight it was the attitude I had when I was skinny was the real key. Managed to hang onto that.

I knew your humor, confidence and monkey brain were sexy AF from day 1. Seeing your face only confirmed you’re visibly sexy as well. Also in that top 5 of that list! You could literally gain 100 pounds, send me an updated picture and still be on that list. I mean…in the interest of not giving you heart disease, please don’t try this at home! Just saying: you are and would be sexy at any weight!

I don't accept complements, especially physical ones, particularly well. Insecurity whispers suck.

I mean... generally... yeah.

Indeed. Thats why you gotta drown those fuckers out.

But I get that ain’t always easy,

I get that, so hard. My brain can be an asshole too

In person, it’s been a really long time.
Confirmations here have been good to hear and affirming

Okay, this one is just silly, because you’re not just “oh his personality makes him more attractive” sexy, you’re like universally, objectively, mainstream HOT Also definitely on that aforementioned top 5 list of married guys I’d ravage if I wasn’t tryyying to be better, with or without a Santa hat

I can't speak for everyone, of course, but my sense (and my experience) is that men generally aren't complimented in our day-to-day lives. Sexually or platonically. It's uncommon.

Ughhh…this needs to change!

Yeah ok I get that. I try to tell my hubby daily how I think he’s attractive and sexually attractive.. but maybe that’s not as common?

I’ve always been a big believer in telling people they’re loved and/or appreciated, but even more so after losing 11 people in 11 months just over a year ago. Life is short. Appreciate your people while you can!

 

[UnquietDreams]

My AV is my cleavage, my name is provocative and I post pics when Salty's got a good theme or my friends are posting in Chaos. I expect a certain amount of DMs, and truth be told I find no end of amusement in my inbox. That being said, it's sad to know that like or complimenting a guy will lead to an almost immediate, odd, at times desperate, at other times graphic, message. Reactions≠Wanting sex

I've received some of those from women when I like or compliment as well. I have a great respect for anyone who puts themselves on the line with a like or a compliment. And if I comment, I usually talk the composition or set up, anything other than some sexual comment. Normally at most I get "thank you," though I did end up in a running conversation on lighting and costuming that has been running a while.

But occasionally I get much more aggressive responses as well. It took me a while, but I am comfortable here, and with the places some of you frequent. But it took awhile. Hard as it be for some people to believe, I am pretty shy, and I usually just run and hide. It is rarer, but women respond some of the same way

 

[UnquietDreams]

Dammit, I had a witty comment for how insanely wrong you are when I hit the multiquote button, but forgot entirely after reading all the deeper stuff that followed. You’re still wrong though!








If it helps at all, I thought the Santa hat pic you posted last night was sexy! Especially the warmth and humor in your eyes and smile Knowing now it was a Winnie the Pooh Santa hat makes it even better, TBH People who don’t take themselves too seriously are much hotter than those who do!


Haha you do have nice knees, and NGL, I’ve watched every episode of Outlander and Men In Kilts, and men (in general) in kilts are You, in particular, are extra sexy for reasons previously mentioned and definitely in my list of top 5 guys I would be alllll over if I wasn’t trying not to start with any more married guys




I knew your humor, confidence and monkey brain were sexy AF from day 1. Seeing your face only confirmed you’re visibly sexy as well. Also in that top 5 of that list! You could literally gain 100 pounds, send me an updated picture and still be on that list. I mean…in the interest of not giving you heart disease, please don’t try this at home! Just saying: you are and would be sexy at any weight!






I get that, so hard. My brain can be an asshole too


Okay, this one is just silly, because you’re not just “oh his personality makes him more attractive” sexy, you’re like universally, objectively, mainstream HOT Also definitely on that aforementioned top 5 list of married guys I’d ravage if I wasn’t tryyying to be better, with or without a Santa hat


Ughhh…this needs to change!


I’ve always been a big believer in telling people they’re loved and/or appreciated, but even more so after losing 11 people in 11 months just over a year ago. Life is short. Appreciate your people while you can!

Thank you.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Dammit, I had a witty comment for how insanely wrong you are when I hit the multiquote button, but forgot entirely after reading all the deeper stuff that followed. You’re still wrong though!








If it helps at all, I thought the Santa hat pic you posted last night was sexy! Especially the warmth and humor in your eyes and smile Knowing now it was a Winnie the Pooh Santa hat makes it even better, TBH People who don’t take themselves too seriously are much hotter than those who do!


Haha you do have nice knees, and NGL, I’ve watched every episode of Outlander and Men In Kilts, and men (in general) in kilts are You, in particular, are extra sexy for reasons previously mentioned and definitely in my list of top 5 guys I would be alllll over if I wasn’t trying not to start with any more married guys




I knew your humor, confidence and monkey brain were sexy AF from day 1. Seeing your face only confirmed you’re visibly sexy as well. Also in that top 5 of that list! You could literally gain 100 pounds, send me an updated picture and still be on that list. I mean…in the interest of not giving you heart disease, please don’t try this at home! Just saying: you are and would be sexy at any weight!

. Awww thanks Kitty, you’re absolutely a big reason I lasted her more than a couple weeks before getting bored and doing something else.

But math is WAY sexier than cheese. No one ever farted because of solving an equation. Or got constipation from an integral. Maybe from fear of a math final… but that’s our education system’s fault., not math’s

 

[UnquietDreams]

. Awww thanks Kitty, you’re absolutely a big reason I lasted her more than a couple weeks before getting bored and doing something else.

But math is WAY sexier than cheese. No one ever farted because of solving an equation. Or got constipation from an integral. Maybe from fear of a math final… but that’s our education system’s fault., not math’s

I am pretty sure trig gave me gastritis. Just saying.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I am pretty sure trig gave me gastritis. Just saying.

Did not. Your school did. And trig rules. Oh man, laws sines and cosines?

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

Thank you
I actually went back and edited my original post to remove the comments about me because I didn’t want to detract from the convo at hand.
But I appreciate it, nonetheless.

And I hope the goblin quiets

I was actually confused reading his quote tweet, because if I saw any hint of self image issues in your original post, I probably would have told you that you’re at the very top of the girl crush list!

@UnquietDreams If ye don't eat yer brussels, ye can't have any boobies! How can ya have any boobies, if ye don't eat yer brussels!? Hey you! Behind the bike shed! Stand still, laddie...

Okay, you just got 18% hotter with that reference! So like…218%?

We don’t need no education

You too!

 

[UnquietDreams]

I really want to hear more about your college life. For science...

Short version? I, too, have known the love of a man. Once. Good party...

 

[UnquietDreams]

Did not. Your school did. And trig rules. Oh man, laws sines and cosines?

Nope, it was trig. It gave me gastritis, beat me up for my lunch money, and stole my girlfriend only to dump her after she put out.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Nope, it was trig. It gave me gastritis, beat me up for my lunch money, and stole my girlfriend only to dump her after she put out.

Shoulda fucking learned the laws of sines and cosines then shouldn’t you have?

 

[UnquietDreams]

Shoulda fucking learned the laws of sines and cosines then shouldn’t you have?

Flashback! Too soon!

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

Oh, I am pretentious. I know from pretentious.

About your coffee preferences, definitely

This fits this thread so good right now.


And if this fails to put you in a good mood… then I don’t know what to say.

“This video is not available in your country.”

Those are all great words but not synonyms of sexy... Imo.

I would say “attractive” is. “Desired” is close, but not quite, since it hinges on only 1 person’s opinion, but “desirable” would be.

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Okay, cool, but you’re eating more than just those 4, right?

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Flashback! Too soon!

I don’t think E gives flashbacks?

Does it?