Cock Talk

[Cogan]

I only know about blowjobs from the perspective of the giver and have often wondered what it's like to be on the receiving end. I have some ideas about the answers to these questions but would love to have a discussion.

Who likes them?

I do!

What do you like most?

When I get a surprise blow job and a smile.

Who doesn't like them?

N/A

Why not?

N/A

What makes a blow job amazing versus good?

The difference from my experience is when she really enjoy it herself.

What makes a blowjob bad? How bad is bad?

Don't know. I've never had a bad one. But I can imagine that someone with a lack of interest in what she's doing can be really bad and a turn off.

Are there any things that must be done or should never be done during a blow job?

See above.

Spit or swallow does it matter?

Swallow and clean up is hotter.

Kissing after you cum? Yes, hell yes, no, or fuck no?

Hell yes!

 

[hotwords229_A]

Is it truly impossible for guys to urinate while fully erect?

Not impossible at all. As Pmann said, letting it fly in nature is amazing. But, you better be out in nature, otherwise you may need to do some drywall work. The other problem with peeing at full mast is when you finish it drips down the shaft and gives you pee-balls.

The difference from my experience is when she really enjoy it herself.

This is the thing that really makes the difference.

 

[hotwords229_A]

So you've both mentioned looking up or on her knees. This makes me think about the position. What is the preferred position for the giver? The receiver? What's the best combo of positions?

I agree with deft, it doesn’t matter if we are both hanging upside down from a helicopter flying over the Grand Canyon. The act of my penis being in her mouth is what makes it hot. Position doesn’t really factor in, for me at least.

I also never saw it as her being in a position of submission. To me, she is completely in charge. I can just lay back and hand over the reigns. The eye contact is just about making that connection. Seeing her with my cock in her mouth and knowing that she is loving having it there makes it exquisite.

“I have a favorite combo and I'm wondering if it gets mentioned. ”

I look forward to hearing about this.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Back when I was posting a lot of pictures. Conversation came up on several occasions about eye connect. That's always stuck with me.

Favorite position for me. Looking up at him on my knees. Or laying down over him and looking up.
Can't do 69 very well. Always too much height difference.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Do these morning pee hard-ons lead to more sword fighting fantasies?? Or just me?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Do these morning pee hard-ons lead to more sword fighting fantasies?? Or just me?

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If you are talking about arguing over breakfast sausages, then yes.

 

[BongoGal]

If it’s not impossible, it’s excruciatingly painful.

That must be something that every guy learns for himself.
"I won't ever try that again!"

 

[ShaneoD]

That must be something that every guy learns for himself.
"I won't ever try that again!"

You do need to learn your angles too.

I do love how Lit being Lit, more people probably wondered about peeing while erect than if every guy has tried to suck their own dick.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

*Cautiously watching the conversation*

 

[aussiegeekygal]

So my sister tells me that lying on your back in the bed with your head falling off the edge of the mattress is the angle everyone should try before giving up on head.

Has anyone actually tried that?

 

[morelikeasong]

So my sister tells me that lying on your back in the bed with your head falling off the edge of the mattress is the angle everyone should try before giving up on head.

Has anyone actually tried that?

I have! It’s fun, not my go-to or favorite but fun to switch things up

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

So my sister tells me that lying on your back in the bed with your head falling off the edge of the mattress is the angle everyone should try before giving up on head.

Has anyone actually tried that?

Hmmm. This sounds like something @Photog1rl should answer.

 

[BongoGal]

I do love how Lit being Lit, more people probably wondered about peeing while erect than if every guy has tried to suck their own dick.

I suspect that almost all of them have considered autofellatio, but they give up when they can't even come close to reaching it. Does that count as trying?

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

*Cautiously watching the conversation*

I got a notebook you can have to take notes.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Hmmm. This sounds like something @Photog1rl should answer.

Interesting. Please continue. *licks pen nib*

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I suspect that almost all of them have considered autofellatio, but they give up when they can't even come close to reaching it. Does that count as trying?

One must imagine Sisyphus happy.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I figured since I wasn't chewing anything it would be ok.

This is a helluva post to start a new page on. I’m not even sure I want to figure out what the genesis of this was. Sometimes mystery is best.

 

[morelikeasong]

I have! It’s fun, not my go-to or favorite but fun to switch things up

Brief follow up:
IMO this position is more of a face-fuck than a blowjob. I don’t have much control over movement from that angle so it’s up to the man to control pace/depth. That being said, it’s something that takes more trust and communication with your partner and and have a plan for how you will indicate if you need a break or to ease up.

 

[Photog1rl]

So my sister tells me that lying on your back in the bed with your head falling off the edge of the mattress is the angle everyone should try before giving up on head.

Has anyone actually tried that?

This may be an overshare but y’all have been so great about sharing and I asked the BJ question and I am comfortable sharing so…

So this is my favorite position/angle. It is not how it always happens because I have to ask for it this way but it’s the best.

I should say that I love blow jobs. Giving pleasure to my partner is something I adore and the power dynamic is heady. Gentle and slow, exploratory, tasting and teasing are all fantastic. Hearing his breath catch, seeing goosebumps cover his skin and tasting his precum are such a treats. I am in complete control and get to tease him and bring him to the edge and I love everything about it. But being on my back, on the bed with my head hanging off not only creates a perfect angle for him to thrust nice and deep it also allows me to be fully exposed and on display. It makes it so easy for him to use his hands on me in the ways I crave. In my hair, holding my head and setting the pace and guiding the rhythm, on my body. Teasing me and caressing me until I’m almost overwhelmed by the sensations.
I can take him deeper this angle and a bit rougher. Where blow jobs in other positions feel less submissive (even on my knees) when I’m on my back I’ve fully given myself over to him.
I think this is why it’s my favorite postion to be in. It also feels different. It’s less a blow job and more like getting fucked. It is a little more raw and primal.

 

[Nerdyjerkoff]

This may be an overshare but y’all have been so great about sharing and I asked the BJ question and I am comfortable sharing so…

So this is my favorite position/angle. It is not how it always happens because I have to ask for it this way but it’s the best.

I should say that I love blow jobs. Giving pleasure to my partner is something I adore and the power dynamic is heady. Gentle and slow, exploratory, tasting and teasing are all fantastic. Hearing his breath catch, seeing goosebumps cover his skin and tasting his precum are such a treats. I am in complete control and get to tease him and bring him to the edge and I love everything about it. But being on my back, on the bed with my head hanging off not only creates a perfect angle for him to thrust nice and deep it also allows me to be fully exposed and on display. It makes it so easy for him to use his hands on me in the ways I crave. In my hair, holding my head and setting the pace and guiding the rhythm, on my body. Teasing me and caressing me until I’m almost overwhelmed by the sensations.
I can take him deeper this angle and a bit rougher. Where blow jobs in other positions feel less submissive (even on my knees) when I’m on my back I’ve fully given myself over to him.
I think this is why it’s my favorite postion to be in. It also feels different. It’s less a blow job and more like getting fucked. It is a little more raw and primal.

This is one position for a blowjob I have never tried. I would love to see how it feels. Sadly my wife is turned off by even the thought of giving a blowjob

 

[BongoGal]

Brief follow up:
IMO this position is more of a face-fuck than a blowjob. I don’t have much control over movement from that angle so it’s up to the man to control pace/depth. That being said, it’s something that takes more trust and communication with your partner and and have a plan for how you will indicate if you need a break or to ease up.

My thoughts exactly. I think it would be too easy for a guy to go too far, even if they intend to be careful.

 

[Photog1rl]

Brief follow up:
IMO this position is more of a face-fuck than a blowjob. I don’t have much control over movement from that angle so it’s up to the man to control pace/depth.

This is part of what I love so much. It’s the letting go and letting him take control.

That being said, it’s something that takes more trust and communication with your partner and and have a plan for how you will indicate if you need a break or to ease up.

So smacking him is not the right way to go about it?

Seriously though, this is true. I’ve had the same partner for over 30 years so we are fairly tuned in to each others cues but this would not be a go to position if I didn’t know or trust my partner.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

This may be an overshare but y’all have been so great about sharing and I asked the BJ question and I am comfortable sharing so…

So this is my favorite position/angle. It is not how it always happens because I have to ask for it this way but it’s the best.

I should say that I love blow jobs. Giving pleasure to my partner is something I adore and the power dynamic is heady. Gentle and slow, exploratory, tasting and teasing are all fantastic. Hearing his breath catch, seeing goosebumps cover his skin and tasting his precum are such a treats. I am in complete control and get to tease him and bring him to the edge and I love everything about it. But being on my back, on the bed with my head hanging off not only creates a perfect angle for him to thrust nice and deep it also allows me to be fully exposed and on display. It makes it so easy for him to use his hands on me in the ways I crave. In my hair, holding my head and setting the pace and guiding the rhythm, on my body. Teasing me and caressing me until I’m almost overwhelmed by the sensations.
I can take him deeper this angle and a bit rougher. Where blow jobs in other positions feel less submissive (even on my knees) when I’m on my back I’ve fully given myself over to him.
I think this is why it’s my favorite postion to be in. It also feels different. It’s less a blow job and more like getting fucked. It is a little more raw and primal.

Shit, ran out ink. Be right back.

Uhmm the ink’s in the bathroom. Perfectly normal. That’s where everyone store it right? Just be a minute.

 

[SassySheDevil]

You do need to learn your angles too.

I do love how Lit being Lit, more people probably wondered about peeing while erect than if every guy has tried to suck their own dick.

They have.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I have! It’s fun, not my go-to or favorite but fun to switch things up

This would be my answer for this also. His curve or straightness plays a part in this angle.