What have you learned from lit? (A thought thread)

[LostGirlTink]

We all learn things either about ourselves or life or sex or humanity through our time here.
What’s something you learned?
Good or bad?

 

[gga]

I probably already knew this, but Lit confirmed it...

Love can be found in the most unexpected places.

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

People are quick to tar everyone with the same brush.

 

[LostGirlTink]

Conversation is everything

 

[Mav Unlimited]

I’ve learned not to try and learn anything here. I still fail.

 

[luv2custrip]

I might as well face it I’m addicted to writing erotica.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

I've learned some good and bad. Unfortunately, it's been mostly bad lately. Overall takeaway: Be firm in your boundaries, always and for all people.

 

[Apisto42]

I’ve learned how to track down non-copyrighted memes for reposting on lit.

 

[Inthesewalls]

Ive learned alot about my desires sexually. On the other hand I've lost a lot of faith in people and relationships. Ive also learned red flags are red flags no matter how much I like someone. Trusting my gut is important.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

That, unless you become accepted by the lit "in crowd," it is best to keep your opinions and personal thoughts about things to yourself. It hasn't happened to me (yet), but I've seen it a few times in various threads over the years. Once one of the women in the crowd posts about disliking you, or labels you as an alt, or mocks you without provocation, the rest of the crowd might very well join in.

 

[barefootgirl69]

• Trust my instincts.
• Be careful what I say and to whom, not everyone needs to know my business.
• There are some amazing people here, keep them close.

 

[Apisto42]

That, unless you become accepted by the lit "in crowd," it is best to keep your opinions and personal thoughts about things to yourself. It hasn't happened to me (yet), but I've seen it a few times in various threads over the years. Once one of the women in the crowd posts about disliking you, or labels you as an alt, or mocks you without provocation, the rest of the crowd might very well join in.

There’s an “in” crowd? Good to know. I was kinda hoping for an “on” crowd, as in “her mouth is on my balls”.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I’ve learned to be less judgmental.

I’ve learned you can experience a deep level of intimacy with someone online.

I’ve learned not to care what people think about me.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I probably shoulda paid better attention in my writing classes.

 

[ctarrantella]

There are a lot of people in similar situations in their marriage and relationship like me.
Same thing about desires.
Also, there are some real, great people out there that you can strike up friendships through PMs here.

 

[KinkStevens]

Take nothing too serious. No one here is real, just key strokes and images.

 

[KinkStevens]

I fit no mold and you don’t either

 

[Girly_girl]

I’ve learned that you can experience a deep level of intimacy online, but on the other hand have been told that what I’m feeling is not real, so there’s that….

I’ve learned that people steal others photos and fake their deaths and show back up as a new person.

I’ve learned that the word Mine has different meanings for everyone, who would’ve ever thought.

 

[Shady_nz]

I've learned not to give so much of myself...yeah right. I might as well stop breathing

 

[Lady2020]

All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances; and one man in his time plays many parts. ~William Shakespeare.

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

We all learn things either about ourselves or life or sex or humanity through our time here.
What’s something you learned?
Good or bad?

How easy it is to get banned...even on a sex site!

 

[barefootgirl69]

How easy it is to get banned...even on a sex site!

Follow the rules and don't be an ass. It's not hard.

 

[Taegul]

How to take a hint.

I'd like to think I've learned how to give one, but some people need a loudspeaker and flashing lights.

 

[Dirtyoldhornyman]

I’ve learned a few things about myself in a sexual nature. Never had a venue to discuss them before.
Also, there are some pretty cool people on this site, chats are more than fun, and I like being more open about sexual things.

 

[barefootgirl69]

• Trust my instincts.
• Be careful what I say and to whom, not everyone needs to know my business.
• There are some amazing people here, keep them close.

In addition to this, I've learned how to watch people's patterns, because who they really are (as in their character) will always be revealed eventually.

That feelings are real and valid, both the good ones and the bad.