Sex & Shenanigans

[crazychemgirl]

ok that i think works better, unless y'all can convince me a majority of litsters get heart broken eventually

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back
pissing someone off or instigating a dumpster fire
dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or another's)
Genuinely saddened by the loss of a relationship with a litster

We need someone who is good with art to make tokens we can put in our sigs

 

[SixShooter14]

well we could take a poll. like if a substantial quantity have with increasing time spent here then it is valid.

How long have been on lit? How active are you? have you genuinely had your heart broken?
I have been here 6 years in august, consider myself highly active, never had my heart broken.
....

Nope, i havent, but I have seen enough folks on this site mention it that I know it will be fairly common.

 

[Dubinsky]

ok that i think works better, unless y'all can convince me a majority of litsters get heart broken eventually

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back
pissing someone off or instigating a dumpster fire
dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or another's)
Genuinely saddened by the loss of a relationship with a litster

Meeting your first Litster IRL.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

what is like heart broken but less extreme? I worry that totem may be too unobtainable

Caught feelings

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

Is that a puppy in my pocket..... no.... I'm just happy to see you

Ok. I love cock. But these puppies take the cake

 

[LadyLascivious1]

oh you have. hell, some people get pissed off if you don't respond to their pm fast enough or don't respond at all. I am not buying you could be here 13 years and not piss someone off. Even a saint would stumble on someone with a hair trigger eventually.

Ha. Fair point. I will amend to no one has ever told me, insinuated in threads I’ve seen, or said anything to mutual friends about me pissing them off. I wasn’t really active until last year though

My lord, I sound dull

 

[Bry1313]

Having kids with drivers licenses their own cars and not being reliable on their schedules…….can cause issues when you thought you had time, it’s the most awkward form of ghosting their is.

And yeah, night owl here, so I’ve definitely encountered the sleepy time issues, where mid conversation……..crickets, or a big question just left hanging. Those are exciting moments.

 

[SixShooter14]

Ha. Fair point. I will amend to no one has ever told me, insinuated in threads I’ve seen, or said anything to mutual friends about me pissing them off. I wasn’t really active until last year though

My lord, I sound dull

Haha... I think I only check off 2!

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I might be able to wrangle up some ketchup ice cream for you

Lit really needs a puke emoji

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I disagree... It will be semi-rare but those that share it could feel special bond for having and overcoming that experience.


And i think there will be more than you expect (though it will be a very difficult thing to measure and confirm)

I know very very few Litsters who have not had their heart broken here. I would bet it's the majority.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Caught feelings

oh that is better.

Meeting your first Litster IRL.

oh I think this should be the last totem, but do the majority jump this line if there are here long enough.

like I can say year 1-4, I was a firm no. Now I'd absolute consider it. Does this concept wear on most over time?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I know very very few Litsters who have not had their heart broken here. I would bet it's the majority.

really. wow, I know very few who have.

 

[crazychemgirl]

oh that is better.


oh I think this should be the last totem, but do the majority jump this line if there are here long enough.

like I can say year 1-4, I was a firm no. Now I'd absolute consider it. Does this concept wear on most over time?

I think it depends on the type of relationship you have with the litster …. Or how comfortable you are meeting strangers from the internet …. Most of my friends are people I’ve met online

 

[Dubinsky]

oh that is better.


oh I think this should be the last totem, but do the majority jump this line if there are here long enough.

like I can say year 1-4, I was a firm no. Now I'd absolute consider it. Does this concept wear on most over time?

I know several Litsters that have done it.

Probably while jumping lines?

I wasn't a "firm no," but I never really saw it as a possibility. Now? Well... let's just say Lit has changed me.

 

[SixShooter14]

oh that is better.


oh I think this should be the last totem, but do the majority jump this line if there are here long enough.

like I can say year 1-4, I was a firm no. Now I'd absolute consider it. Does this concept wear on most over time?

Idk, there's about a dozen that I would meet up with asap and with no sexual expectations at all.

I've met 7 or 8 people from other online forums. Some i knew well and some I didn't.

 

[crazychemgirl]

I know several Litsters that have done it.

Probably while jumping lines?

I wasn't a "firm no," but I never really saw it as a possibility. Now? Well... let's just say Lit has changed me.

Lit has changed us all

 

[Dubinsky]

Idk, there's about a dozen that I would meet up with asap and with no sexual expectations at all.

I should point out that most of the Litsters I know who've met up? There's been sex. But by NO MEANS all.

I can think of 8-9 Litsters off the top of my head I'd love to meet, without hesitation, and wouldn't expect to have any kind of sex with. Then (naturally), there are a few more I'd love to... well... "become close to."

 

[LupineOne]

I know very very few Litsters who have not had their heart broken here. I would bet it's the majority.

I would tend to agree with this. Or if not heartbroken, at least severely disappointed.

 

[SixShooter14]

I should point out that most of the Litsters I know who've met up? There's been sex. But by NO MEANS all.

I can think of 8-9 Litsters off the top of my head I'd love to meet, without hesitation, and wouldn't expect to have any kind of sex with. Then (naturally), there are a few more I'd love to... well... "become close to."

Oh for sure there's several I would love to... "Become close to" but i know there are boundaries and I'd still meet up and have coffee or a drink with them...


There's also several men I'd like to meet up with for coffee or a drink and chat.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I think it depends on the type of relationship you have with the litster …. Or how comfortable you are meeting strangers from the internet …. Most of my friends are people I’ve met online

I agree. I've met many of my friends online and then transitioned to offline and met in person.

I’ve never met anyone from Lit, but that’s more a function of active time here. And there are already a few I would be surprised if I didn’t meet IRL in the next year or two.

 

[crazychemgirl]

I would meet all you amazing fuckers but you all live so fucking far away

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I should point out that most of the Litsters I know who've met up? There's been sex. But by NO MEANS all.

I can think of 8-9 Litsters off the top of my head I'd love to meet, without hesitation, and wouldn't expect to have any kind of sex with. Then (naturally), there are a few more I'd love to... well... "become close to."

I better be on this list.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I should point out that most of the Litsters I know who've met up? There's been sex. But by NO MEANS all.

I can think of 8-9 Litsters off the top of my head I'd love to meet, without hesitation, and wouldn't expect to have any kind of sex with. Then (naturally), there are a few more I'd love to... well... "become close to."

I may have been on this list at one point

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Do we have an updated list? Because I think I got a Bingo coverall.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I would tend to agree with this. Or if not heartbroken, at least severely disappointed.

I am really struggling with this. So you are telling me you honestly believe most of the men posting nude model and nude model in that the fetish threads had their heart broken on lit? Most of the dudes fighting over in politics had their heart broken on lit? Most of the fetish guys? Most of the lit welcoming committee. Most of the folks in the author section, most of the most dommy doms in bdsm. I am really struggling with imagining that many people are getting in that deep.