Sex & Shenanigans

[SherlockianMan]

adding another totem

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back

any more ideas?

First non-sex related chat?

 

[Photog1rl]

adding another totem

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back

any more ideas?

getting your heart broken? Cause some of us are big feelers?
Pissing someone off? Can I get multiple totems if this one gets approved?

 

[crazychemgirl]

First non-sex related chat?

That’s a good one!

 

[SherlockianMan]

What’s your favourite guilty pleasure?

Pepsi...I know I shouldn't drink it, but damn do I love it.

Sexually, sharing pics (see previous post on how that backfires)

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

First non-sex related chat?

like PM, email, voice, or video?

hum, how about the first time you realized you just came to lit/contacted a litster and you weren't looking for anything remotely sexual?

 

[SherlockianMan]

like PM, email, voice, or video?

hum, how about the first time you realized you just came to lit/contacted a litster and you weren't looking for anything remotely sexual?

I was thinking PMs

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

getting your heart broken? Cause some of us are big feelers?
Pissing someone off? Can I get multiple totems if this one gets approved?

maybe, but getting your heart broken may be too hard. That may mean a lot of long term litsters will never be true litsters,

now pissing someone off/instigating a dumpster fire, that one I agree with.

 

[SixShooter14]

like PM, email, voice, or video?

hum, how about the first time you realized you just came to lit/contacted a litster and you weren't looking for anything remotely sexual?

Hmm...I've never contacted a litster for anything sexual.

I have several very sexy chat convos in my PMs, but none were started for that reason.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I was thinking PMs

hum, first non sexual pm just seems so easy though, like the few minutes of joining lit. Not all of the welcoming committee sends raunch and dick pictures.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

maybe, but getting your heart broken may be too hard. That may mean a lot of long term litsters will never be true litsters,

now pissing someone off/instigating a dumpster fire, that one I agree with.

First time dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or someone else’s)?

 

[SherlockianMan]

I would also add:

Feeling sad to realize a Litster you follow has given up on Lit

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I should have been a librarian

It's one of my dream jobs!

 

[SherlockianMan]

hum, first non sexual pm just seems so easy though, like the few minutes of joining lit. Not all of the welcoming committee sends raunch and dick pictures.

Fair, but sustained back and forth PM chat

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

excellent.

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture

I think we are getting there.

Getting your heart broken

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

getting your heart broken? Cause some of us are big feelers?
Pissing someone off? Can I get multiple totems if this one gets approved?

Oops. Should have seen this first. Great minds

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back
pissing someone off, instigating a dumpster fire
dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or anothers)

I still thing we should toughen the non-sexual chat as too easy and water down the broken heart as too hard. if we fix those, we have 10 totems. that is solid.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Getting your heart broken

what is like heart broken but less extreme? I worry that totem may be too unobtainable

 

[LadyLascivious1]

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back
pissing someone off, instigating a dumpster fire
dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or anothers)

I still thing we should toughen the non-sexual chat as too easy and water down the broken heart as too hard. if we fix those, we have 10 totems. that is solid.

I could easily knock out the first thread one, but I really don’t think I’ve pissed anyone off (someone please tell me if I have ) and I don’t think I could ever motivate myself to start a dumpster fire.

 

[SherlockianMan]

Genuinely sadden by a Lit situation or Litster?

 

[Bry1313]

Cruise anyone?

Will it be better than my trip to Vancouver?

 

[SixShooter14]

what is like heart broken but less extreme? I worry that totem may be too unobtainable

I disagree... It will be semi-rare but those that share it could feel special bond for having and overcoming that experience.


And i think there will be more than you expect (though it will be a very difficult thing to measure and confirm)

 

[SixShooter14]

Will it be better than my trip to Vancouver?

I just found several cruises out of Vancouver.... So. It's all part of the same trip?

 

[crazychemgirl]

Will it be better than my trip to Vancouver?

I might be able to wrangle up some ketchup ice cream for you

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I disagree... It will be semi-rare but those that share it could feel special bond for having and overcoming that experience.


And i think there will be more than you expect (though it will be a very difficult thing to measure and confirm)

well we could take a poll. like if a substantial quantity have with increasing time spent here then it is valid.

How long have been on lit? How active are you? have you genuinely had your heart broken?
I have been here 6 years in august, consider myself highly active, never had my heart broken.

I could easily knock out the first thread one, but I really don’t think I’ve pissed anyone off (someone please tell me if I have ) and I don’t think I could ever motivate myself to start a dumpster fire.

oh you have. hell, some people get pissed off if you don't respond to their pm fast enough or don't respond at all. I am not buying you could be here 13 years and not piss someone off. Even a saint would stumble on someone with a hair trigger eventually.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Genuinely sadden by a Lit situation or Litster?

ok that i think works better, unless y'all can convince me a majority of litsters get heart broken eventually

talking to your first lit "dom"
making your first thread
Getting ghosted
Talking to an alt without knowing it
Posting your first risqué picture
Taking your first vacation from Lit and coming back
pissing someone off or instigating a dumpster fire
dealing with an emotional meltdown (yours or another's)
Genuinely saddened by the loss of a relationship with a litster