Sex & Shenanigans

[Bbl87]

My advice is to make sure these are super doubled down on. People can find things pretty easily.

Very true. In a former life, when I was trying to verify things that were submitted to me for court, it would be a pretty standard practice for me to search Facebook, Instagram, etc. to see if the person signing things for a person actually worked somewhere or if they were a friend of the person. I caught my fair share of people that way, and they could have avoided it by just not leaving their Facebook completely open...

 

[Bry1313]

I would never do anything NSFW on a Facebook platform, I don’t trust that company at all.

 

[Bbl87]

Nope. But she hates me, always has though. That didn't help. I didn't notice for like 10 minutes that I had sent it to her instead of a friend, and when I did see it I just sat there and cried.

Makes me appreciate my in-laws. As sad as it is at this point if things ended between my wife and I, I think I would be just as upset to lose my in-laws because we get along so well. Honestly, my kids and my in-laws are a big part of why I haven't considered it more seriously when the lowers have been low with our relationship. We're doing a little bit better now, but man did I think about it at times.

 

[Photog1rl]

Makes me appreciate my in-laws. As sad as it is at this point if things ended between my wife and I, I think I would be just as upset to lose my in-laws because we get along so well. Honestly, my kids and my in-laws are a big part of why I haven't considered it more seriously when the lowers have been low with our relationship. We're doing a bit better now, but man did I think about it at times.

I so feel this comment. My in laws have been more consistent and shown me more unconditional love than my own parents.

 

[Bbl87]

I so feel this comment. My in laws have been more consistent and shown me more unconditional love than my own parents.

Mine weren't quite to that point, but since my dad died I've gotten very close with my father in law. Not that he'd ever replace my dad BUT my relationships with him and my brother in law have helped me get through alot.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

it is common. Many MILs hate when we steal their baby boys with our devil vagina magic.

Actually mine was very very happy. She even said that her son married someone like his mother. Plus, she has 2 boys, and wanted a daughter. It was a win for me. Now if my vagina could give her a grandchild.

 

[Photog1rl]

Mine weren't quite to that point, but since my dad died I've gotten very close with my father in law. Not that he'd ever replace my dad BUT my relationships with him and my brother in law have helped me get through alot.

I do have a few years on you. A 30 year marriage has given for a lot of opportunities to connect.
Regardless of how long though, it is so special to hear again about how your FIL and BIL have been there for you during an unimaginable loss.

If anyone wants to know how unsexy my PM’s are…yep-death and dying are topics I’ve talked about with @Bbl87 NMK

I clearly know how to get absolutely filthy.

 

[positiveflirt]

I like these questions!

Ok. I have questions for y’all about PM’s on Lit.
What do you use them for? Do you message first?

Just to get to know someone better, really! People are naturally different in how they are when their messages are only being read by one person, you know? Well.. most people. I verrry rarely message first but it does happen.

Is there any sort of implication to sending or responding to PM’s?

Nah. I'd say it's just that you want to share a private moment/an aside. Unless the PM says "hey let's bang".

Do you have lots or a few folks you talk to regularly in PM’s or do you move to a different platform(skype or something like that)?

I'm happy with here usually but people tend to like to move to skype/kik/google/carrier pigeon. I'm easy, but i find that's the make or break moment. I'm pretty ruthless at cutting my skype/kik contact list down, I have to be really into someone to keep them around, because they're the ones who can just appear in my phone out of nowhere..

 

[Radiantcurves87]

I do have a few years on you. A 30 year marriage has given for a lot of opportunities to connect.
Regardless of how long though, it is so special to hear again about how your FIL and BIL have been there for you during an unimaginable loss.

If anyone wants to know how unsexy my PM’s are…yep-death and dying are topics I’ve talked about with @Bbl87 NMK

I clearly know how to get absolutely filthy.

Don't forget you have suggested things to buy that have been helpful. Showed me you are a great friend I want to have.

 

[Bbl87]

If anyone wants to know how unsexy my PM’s are…yep-death and dying are topics I’ve talked about with @Bbl87 NMK

I clearly know how to get absolutely filthy.

I'm sure you know, just not with me. You are somehow resistant to my raw animal magnetism and sexual energy.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

ah, so no kids with him? I see. IME, they usual soften when the devil vagina brings forth their son's offspring.

We have a daughter together now. Their only grandchild and they are good to her. We had a huge fight a few years ago where they told us how little they thought of me and my oldest daughter. Ever since then I only see them for holidays and celebrations even though they live directly across the street from us.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

Mine weren't quite to that point, but since my dad died I've gotten very close with my father in law. Not that he'd ever replace my dad BUT my relationships with him and my brother in law have helped me get through alot.

It took time for me to like or love my in-laws. My FIL and I have experienced loss in a way we can only understand.

My hubs wanted to marry into a big family, boy did he get one that loved him like he was a son, nephew etc. He is the oldest in his generation as I'm the younest in mine. So he got what he wanted.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

What do you use them (PM's) for? Getting to know people better. Initially, just to find out if we are compatible in our attitudes and wants. Then, I like to get more sexually explicit once I know we are compatible. It starts with back and forth in PMs.

Do you message first? Rarely. I will, on occasion, but usually when I send one it is "innocent" and without intention to try to "get more" somehow. Like checking on a person, or commenting on a post. Very infrequently do I PM a woman first because I am trying to woo her. I never assume the woman wants a PM from me. I wait until some interaction in threads to determine if a message from me would be welcomed. Until I feel it is wanted, I won't send one.

Is there any sort of implication to sending or responding to PM’s? If a woman has been chatting with me in threads over time and then writes me? That tells me she is interested. That always flatters me. Since the ratio of men to women in lit is a zillion to one, the odds that a woman is intrigued by me enough to take the time to write me is pretty small to begin with. So, if a woman does, she immediately has my full attention.

Do you have lots or a few folks you talk to regularly in PM’s or do you move to a different platform (skype or something like that)? Currently, there is one woman I chat with regularly in PMs. Before she wrote me, I had ZERO ongoing chats. I am not a fan of social media or other ways to communicate (which, besides my personality, results in very few e-babies being made by me), so I try to stick to lit chat if I want real time chatting. Of course, this current woman broke down my defenses and introduced me to skype...and is the only woman I have chatted with there. I am still leery of using it, though. But it has been used by us enough for me to recognize how to keep my privacy. I tend to be a one-woman at a time type of lit stalker...though on extremely infrequent occasions, I have had two (gasp) women writing me at the same relative time. My normal number is ZERO though.

 

[kentuckymtnman]

How are mermaids like Lit women?
Mermaids were devious siren-like creatures with inescapable beauty and mesmerizing songs… then they lure men in to their deaths and you can’t even fuck them….

*puts on his armor and helmet*

 

[Bbl87]

How are mermaids like Lit women?
Mermaids were devious siren-like creatures with inescapable beauty and mesmerizing songs… then they lure men in to their deaths and you can’t even fuck them….

*puts on his armor and helmet*

To be fair, were I not a wed man, this part wouldn't be true...

 

[Radiantcurves87]

How are mermaids like Lit women?
Mermaids were devious siren-like creatures with inescapable beauty and mesmerizing songs… then they lure men in to their deaths and you can’t even fuck them….

*puts on his armor and helmet*

what can I say, with my long hair and love of the water pretty easy, especially when a man is away at sea for long periods of time. even tom hanks got lured, just not killed.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

We have a daughter together now. Their only grandchild and they are good to her. We had a huge fight a few years ago where they told us how little they thought of me and my oldest daughter. Ever since then I only see them for holidays and celebrations even though they live directly across the street from us.

wow, I'd think their only grandchild would be at least enough for them to hide their opinion and take it to their grave as to not risk that relationship.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

How are mermaids like Lit women?
Mermaids were devious siren-like creatures with inescapable beauty and mesmerizing songs… then they lure men in to their deaths and you can’t even fuck them….

*puts on his armor and helmet*

hahahah Though looks like you are still alive after 8 years. Beating the odds?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I would never do anything NSFW on a Facebook platform, I don’t trust that company at all.

all my coworkers and bosses are my facebook friends. They seem ok with my wine and sexy fireman memes though. That is as far as I take it. just over the nsfw line, but not crazy over.

 

[LupineOne]

wow, I'd think their only grandchild would be at least enough for them to hide their opinion and take it to their grave as to not risk that relationship.

My thoughts too. They’re family. But it’s deeply ingrained in me to take care of my people…some just aren’t good humans
Am I judging? You bet your ass I am.

They’re. Your. Family.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

My thoughts too. They’re family. But it’s deeply ingrained in me to take care of my people…some just aren’t good humans
Am I judging? You bet your ass I am.

They’re. Your. Family.

my family, we always at least pretend to like the new boyfriend/spouse. Of course, being most of my family is women, we know the surest way to make a woman in my family like a man more is for the family to express disapproval lol. My whole family are just giant brats. If you express dislike of a boyfriend, odds are very high he will become a future husband then ex husband.

 

[Mei5ter]

My whole family are just giant brats.

I don't know you well enough to make a comment about sausages of unusual size...

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I don't know you well enough to make a comment about sausages of unusual size...

well damn, I have been here over 5 years. How may years does it take to get to sausages of unusual size? Is that after sausages of usual size? Are those after the little breakfast sausages? I have sausage questions.

 

[Mei5ter]

well damn, I have been here over 5 years. How may years does it take to get to sausages of unusual size? Is that after sausages of usual size? Are those after the little breakfast sausages? I have sausage questions.

Ask away! What's the wurst that can happen?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Ask away! What's the wurst that can happen?

well those were most of them. Really, most are no pig deal.