Sex & Shenanigans

sidenote, back when I used skype for lit and skype for business for week, I accidentally sent a coworker in a different state a picture. Luckily it wasn't too bad, face and cleavage in a bustier. He was a trooper, replied back asking if it was me (he had never seen me). Then complimented my hair. 🤣 but yeah, I like to keep things separate just in case. I use teams for work now.
OMG I would have died. 😂
 
honestly, I'd probably just say "sorry, I'm trying to long distance relationship"

It's the truth 🤷‍♂️
 
With my luck, I wouldn't have sent a tame pic. 😂😬
lol, yeah, that was the only upside, I mean I wouldn't have worn the item at work, but it wasn't really worse that the bathing suit I wear to work picnics at springs and lakes. I was just, yes that is me, sorry I didn't mean to send that. but yeah no matter who it was, wasn't HR worthy.
 
Ok. I have questions for y’all about PM’s on Lit.

What do you use them for?

When I see someone Ithink I’d like to know better I look at their about page. If I’m still interested I send a PM and mention the post I liked and something from their about page. I thank them for posting and try to ask a question.

Once we establish a back and forth I use it differently depending on the person. Sometime just to catch up. Sometimes to exchange information and ideas. And on a handful of occasions as a place to sext.


Do you message first?

I try to send at least 5 messages a week to people I don’t know but have seen on various threads. I get a response to about 1 out of 4

Is there any sort of implication to sending or responding to PM’s?

Not that I know of. If they push too hard or get weird I block them.

Do you have lots or a few folks you talk to regularly in PM’s or do you move to a different platform(skype or something like that)?

I keep my lit life and private life totally separate. There are only a small number of people I share my KiK with. Normally I keep everything here.

I ask because my interactions with folks is almost exclusivly in the threads. There are some people I talk to in PM’s, two I talk with on another platform(only one is daily) and one person I text with or talk on the phone with.

Recently I messaged someone about a thread and as part of their response they said “it's nice to meet you.” It made me wonder if I am using the PM’s wrong.

I don’t think there is a wrong way, unless you’re being rude or crude.
 
it is common. Many MILs hate when we steal their baby boys with our devil vagina magic.
yes, I know it happens.

My mother does get jealous at times that my brother doesn't come around to visit for a week or 2 (they live 3 miles apart) But she doesn't hate my SIL, they do things together along with her mother on girls weekends and such.
 
When I see someone Ithink I’d like to know better I look at their about page. If I’m still interested I send a PM and mention the post I liked and something from their about page. I thank them for posting and try to ask a question.

Once we establish a back and forth I use it differently depending on the person. Sometime just to catch up. Sometimes to exchange information and ideas. And on a handful of occasions as a place to sext.



I try to send at least 5 messages a week to people I don’t know but have seen on various threads. I get a response to about 1 out of 4



Not that I know of. If they push too hard or get weird I block them.



I keep my lit life and private life totally separate. There are only a small number of people I share my KiK with. Normally I keep everything here.



I don’t think there is a wrong way, unless you’re being rude or crude.
Wow!! 5 a week?... not shaming, just surprised.
 
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