Sex & Shenanigans

[Radiantcurves87]

I have a very small number of people I message with on here, and a smaller number off site. I am too reserved to begin conversations very often. I flirt on lot on the threads but there aren’t as many who I would want to play or just be good friends with. I think I miss out on some by not messaging them first.

Didn't you message me first, friend?

 

[kentuckymtnman]

Didn't you message me first, friend?

You are one of about 20 in 18 years.

 

[Bbl87]

interesting... I just used texting or FB Messenger for NSFW stuff....What's the advantage of Signal over other things?

Encryption, mainly. And you can set pictures or videos to delete after being viewed, or after a certain amount of time.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

Encryption, mainly. And you can set pictures or videos to delete after being viewed, or after a certain amount of time.

Delete after being viewed hmmmm....

 

[Radiantcurves87]

You are one of about 20 in 18 years.

You got my attention, I was just delayed or should I say distracted in responding.

 

[Bbl87]

Delete after being viewed hmmmm....

My wife has taken advantage of that once and once only, but it's a nice feature if you're someone who likes to share things like that but want to make sure it doesn't stick around.

 

[SixShooter14]

Honestly, I'd really hate that. I have a terrible memory and often go back to old pictures and texts to remember stuff.

But I get it if you don't want to risk the conversation being public in case the phone or account was stolen or hacked.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

My wife has taken advantage of that once and once only, but it's a nice feature if you're someone who likes to share things like that but want to make sure it doesn't stick around.

Doesn't stick around? hmmm The sun today stole all my witty comebacks. Dried up.

 

[Bbl87]

Honestly, I'd really hate that. I have a terrible memory and often go back to old pictures and texts to remember stuff.

But I get it if you don't want to risk the conversation being public in case the phone or account was stolen or hacked.

Ya, ours isn't set to do that by default but you can do that. My wife is paranoid about pictures getting hacked, leaked, etc. so in theory it might help someone like that be more comfortable.

You can set it however want when it comes to that stuff, though. Or do it for individual pictures or messages.

 

[SixShooter14]

Ya, ours isn't set to do that by default but you can do that. My wife is paranoid about pictures getting hacked, leaked, etc. so in theory it might help someone like that be more comfortable.

You can set it however want when it comes to that stuff, though. Or do it for individual pictures or messages.

yeah, I can certainly understand that. Thanks!

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Ok. I have questions for y’all about PM’s on Lit.

What do you use them for? Do you message first? Is there any sort of implication to sending or responding to PM’s? Do you have lots or a few folks you talk to regularly in PM’s or do you move to a different platform(skype or something like that)?

I ask because my interactions with folks is almost exclusivly in the threads. There are some people I talk to in PM’s, two I talk with on another platform(only one is daily) and one person I text with or talk on the phone with.

Recently I messaged someone about a thread and as part of their response they said “it's nice to meet you.” It made me wonder if I am using the PM’s wrong.

I rarely message anyone new, mainly because most days I don't have the energy for all the get to know you crap. lol

Skype has been deleted. 4 Litsters have my phone number. There's a handful of people I PM here on a semi-regular basis. Most males have zero interest in me anymore because I don't play around.

 

[Photog1rl]

Encryption, mainly. And you can set pictures or videos to delete after being viewed, or after a certain amount of time.

That's like telegram which is what I use off of Lit.

 

[Bbl87]

That's like telegram which is what I use off of Lit.

Ya, I think they're pretty similar. Never used telegram, but mainly because nobody on here has suggested it. That's the only reason I started on Skype honestly, haha.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

Ya, I think they're pretty similar. Never used telegram, but mainly because nobody on here has suggested it. That's the only reason I started on Skype honestly, haha.

I haven't heard of Telegram or the other that was said above. But have talked to listers who use Kik, and Discord. There is another but I can't recall off the top of my head.

 

[SixShooter14]

I haven't heard of Telegram or the other that was said above. But have talked to listers who use Kik, and Discord. There is another but I can't recall off the top of my head.

yeah, seems like kik and Skype are the 2 most common.

I use Discord for gaming chat, but that's all

 

[SixShooter14]

oh... I will also say that as an alternative to plain texting. I use Google Messages. It still uses my phone and data but let's me text with an iPhone user much easier. LMAO

Also lets me use emojis, gifs, and pics a bit easier than my default android messaging app.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

yeah, seems like kik and Skype are the 2 most common.

I use Discord for gaming chat, but that's all

The only ones I won't do is Facebook. Snapchat and Instagram. This is where Lit world and my real world is separated.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I use discord for gaming and mom groups, I so see it going sideways if I add sharing porn lol

 

[Photog1rl]

I only text with one person and even then I don’t use my actual phone number.

 

[SixShooter14]

The only one I won't do is Facebook. Snapchat and Instagram. This is where Lit world and my real world is separated.

I get that. I'm single and have very low risk of any repercussion for someone finding me or extorting me.

I'm just who I am, across all platforms, online or off.

 

[Photog1rl]

The only ones I won't do is Facebook. Snapchat and Instagram. This is where Lit world and my real world is separated.

My advice is to make sure these are super doubled down on. People can find things pretty easily.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

I only text with one person and even then I don’t use my actual phone number.

That is smart.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

My advice is to make sure these are super doubled down on. People can find things pretty easily.

Thank you, and knock on wood on the doubling down and such.

Edited: to say, I appreciate the looking out and such, truly. I am always nervous/touch of paranoid.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

sidenote, back when I used skype for lit and skype for business for week, I accidentally sent a coworker in a different state a picture. Luckily it wasn't too bad, face and cleavage in a bustier. He was a trooper, replied back asking if it was me (he had never seen me). Then complimented my hair. but yeah, I like to keep things separate just in case. I use teams for work now.

 

[SixShooter14]

I use Teams at work too. and Skype, and WebEx and used to use Hangouts .... but I use my work email for all of those.